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I love giving adivice, and getting it.
I'm sure if you talk to me, we'll have SOMETHING in common.
I'm a very sociable person, and I'm pretty much up to giving advice about anything and everything.
I hope we can be friends and help eachother!
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Well i really like this girl and i am not sure what to say to her when i ask her out. IM planning on doing this in 1 day so i need help quick!! Waht do i say?
When my boyfriend asked me out, it was in person. Girls like that. He took my hands, and just simply asked if I would be his girlfriend. I loved it. If you're not going to see her in person, then do it on the phone, not IM. Just ease into the conversation. Good luck asking her out!
-Charleigh
I'm 15 and I have some sort of a singing talent. I'm not like drop dead amazing but I definitely think I have potential. I have sang in front of many people and have received nothing but good remarks. How can I make it big with singing. I would like to become a professional singer.
Start taking singing lessons. They help you develop a more mature, trained, voice that professional singers usally have. Good luck with your singing!
-Charleigh
ok i kinda know how to apply eyeliner to the bottom but how do i do it to the top. details details plzz. THANKS LUVS
I put it on before my mascara and eye shadow, and it's pretty much the same as the bottom, but just right on or above the line of eyelashes. I like to smudge it a little bit so that it looks smokey. Hope I helped!
-Charleigh
my girlfriend and i ha ve been going out for almost 9 months now and the school year has just ended. i spent most of my time with her during the school year and now summers here and her friends want time in to.
i dont have a problem with her friends or if she hangs out with them but im not used to sharing her so whenever im not with her i get depressed and sad. do you think she might want to break up with me if i continue act like this??
I for one don't like it when guys get DEPRESSED that I'm not always with them. Call her once a day, and that will satisfy your need to be with her a little bit. Hang out with her a few times a week, but don't keep her from her friends. If she thinks you're too clingy (especially during the summer), she might dump you. But, by backing offa little bit and giving her some space (not too much, you dont want her to think that you're ignoring her), then it'll be fine.
-Charleigh
Why would a guy chase after you for months and act REALLY interested, but then when you finally flirt back he cools off? This happened to me, so I cooled off back and now he's acting interested again! Can anyone explain this to me?
Okay, I'm not saying this for sure, since I dont know the guy, but I know this happened to me, and the guy turned out to be gay. He wanted to WANT togo out with a girl, but not really. So, when I showed interest back, he backed off. But, has he had any girlfriends before? Does he act a little gay? You can send me a private question if you want.
-Charleigh
Okay so there's this guy I like. We're good friends and we have so much in common. Everytime we talk online, we end up talking for like 3 hours. I feel like we would be perfect together. But I don't even think he realizes that. Sure, he's said to be before "Wow, we have a lot of similiar interests" but I don't even think he's even thought of us being together. I don't even know what to do anymore; we hang out, we talk ALOT, we agree on everything from politics to music, we get along great, and have alot of inside jokes...how can maybe make him realize that we could be so much more than just friends? I don't want to freak him out or anything if he doesn't feel the same way, though.
Maybe one time when you're hanging out, you can just casually say "You know, you'd make a perfect boyfriend", and see what he says. That doesnt mean that you like him, so it shouldn't freak him out too much. I hope everything works out with you two!
-Charleigh
So I really love reading. :). My favorite books are New Moon and Twilight by Stephanie Meyer, and I was wondering if there were any other books like that that I'd be able to read.
I'd preffer the books to be about vampires, but I also love love stories, lol. Actually, I'll read anything if there's a love story part of it; I thnk that's what I like so much about Twilight and New Moon.
I've already read Kissing Coffins, Vampire Kisses, and Vampirates, lol.
I'll read in any age group, as long as it's not like, really girly girl young adult kinda stuff.
Thanks!
You're really cool. Vampire books are really fun to read actually. Anne Rice has a series of Vampire books which are on an adult reading level due to sexual content, but they are amazing books. I've read most of them, and I started when I was in 8th grade. So, I guess I was 13 or 14? The first two were my favories. They are Interview With A Vampire, and The Vampire Lestat. They are love stories as well. HAVE FUN READING:)
-Charleigh
Alright, i dont no how to ask this question but please just tell me everything you know and experienced in going to a new school. Give me tips, and ect.
I have to go to this private school next year and im going into the 9th grade and im so frickin nervous i wont find friends or something like that. im already kinda shy, but just tell me everything like what would be good, and whats it like!! thanks
I dont know much about entering a new school myself, but my exboyfriend was new to the school when I met him. I suppose that you just need to introduce yourself to someone, and ask them if you can sit with them at lunch. This will help you make friends. Who knows, maybe someone will even introduce themselves to you (this is what I did with my ex). Talk about the things you like, and see what they like. As you continue to hang out with them, and get more comfortable in the school, you will be able to make more friends. After a while, you will find your niche in the school, and you'll have tons of friends (or who knows, maybe even a boyfriend/girlfriend (you didnt specify your gender, sorry =p)). Good luck at your new school!
-Charleigh
Is there a difference between tampax lights and tampax pearl lites?
Another question.. whats the smallest size any brand makes that does not have a cardboard applicator?
Tampax lites are for girls who have a very light flow. They have a cardboard applicator, which is flushable. Tampax Pearl Lites have a plastic applicator, which cannot be flushed. These plastic applicators make it much less painful to put them in. Tampax pearls also have absorbant braids which protect agains leaks. They also have special grips which make them easy to position. I believe that o.b. tampons are pretty small, and they have smooth covers. I hope that I helped!
-Charleigh
my best friend is mentally challended, and has accidentally killed a young women. if i turn him in he will spend the rest of his life in a mental hospital where he will probably live a sad and fearful life. but if i run away with him he might do the same to someone esle and this would make me an accessory to a crime and both of us will be fugitives of the law-- wanted for murder. but if i kill him i will spare my friend the pain of living a cruel existence in a mental hospital. he is my only friend and i will not see him get hurt what should i do.
This really sounds like the book Of Mice And Men.
If this is just a joke, then points for me for figuring it out. If it isn't, then I would recommend turning him in. Not all mental hospitals are horrible places. If you dont turn him in though, he could wind up hurting, or even killing, more people. And no, I dont think that mercy killing is the answer. It is against the law, and will put you somewhere where you DEFINITLY dont want to be. By turning in your friend, you will be helping them to get better.
-Charleigh
15/F + Boyfriend is 17/M.
(If that helps at all?)
Well me and my boyfriend have been together for a year (on July 2nd.) We pretty much spend every waking second together. You can narrow it down to the fact that we're all eachother has, such as friends and such cause we gave them up for eachother. -Anyways! Things seem to be slightly changing. He's so sweet and stuff usually, but for instance today he's supposed to come over, and he's like "I don't know, I don't care." about everything, and it's been like this for like 2 weeks. I know it doesn't exactly sound like a big deal, but to me it is. It's a big change and I don't like it AT ALL. I asked him why he's changing and he's like, "I'm not you are." and he constantly says I'm being mean, when 90$ of the time I'm sucking up to him.
Whatever. I don't know what to do. How should I talk to him? Erghhh.
Thanks in adv.
Wow, tough situation. You could ask him how exactly you've changed, and see what he says, and try to figure out a way to fix it. Although, if his answer is completely insane, and involves changing who you are, then I wouldnt recommend changing a thing. I went through a similar situation, but it resulted in my boyfriend breaking up with be because I didnt talk to him about what was going on. Hopefully, this will help you from making the same mistake that I did.
-Charleigh
ok i think i have an unhealthy obsession with gerard way from my chemical romance. ok all i think about is him and i mean i am 13 years old and all i think about is him. i mean my desktop is him, my screen saver is him, my aol sn is him, everything is him. i mean when i found out he was engaged i cryed for 4 hours straight (seriously) and im still so upset that he is engaged. i mean yeah i know i will never have a chance with him i just feel better knowing he is single. i just am so upset and i mean i just cant stop thinkin about him. what do i do??? (by the way plz dont say "find another crush" or something like that because it doesnt work)
There's nothing wrong with having a minor obsession over a celebrity. Just don't let it consume your life. It is upsetting, but once you mature, you'll realize that him being engaged doesn't really affect you. Just spend time with your friends, it should help keep your mind off of him. If you think a guy likes you, then spend some time with him too. It will help you feel liked, and help you realize that Gerard Way being engaged is no big deal. I hope I helped.
-Charleigh
my hamster chews on the metal bars a lot and its irritating. what can i do to get her to stop?
Put something that doesnt taste good to her, but wont harm her on the bars. This will stop her for a while.
-Charleigh
i heard of this soda called Jones Soda.. um where can i buy it from.. i live in NJ, too. also have you had it before and is it good and stuff? and is it expensive? and other things i should know :) thanks
Jones soda is really good. They have flavors like Green apple, cotton candy, cream soda, etc. On their website, it says that they sell it at Barnes&Nobles, Target, Zumiez, Panera Bread, and Kroger. You can also buy it online through their website http://www.jonessodastore.com.
-Charleigh
okay, im 13/f.
i am 5'1. and i weigh 121.
i dont have a certain time, in which i want to lose weight, but id like to be less than 110 by the time school starts. (august 14).
but i wont freak if im like 113 by then instead. haha.
does anyone know a good diet that works well.
i find myself eating when im bored, which def. have to stop doing, and im cutting out as much carbs as a can, because thats what my mom said to do.
my main problem areas are my thighs and lower stomach.
its just enough to make me uncomfortable at the beach. :/
also a good workout plan.
i just found out we have a treadmill. haha, i didnt even know.
so how long do i go on it for.
should i run, jog, or walk on it? which works better?
also how many times a week should i go on it?
and some good workouts i could just do in my room or something would also be good.
thank you so much for reading and answering.
Your mom is right, cut out the carbs! Those are what cause the major fat build up. I would recommend picking up some 100 Calorie packs from the supermarket, they're healthy, and I know that they have a lot of choices now. Fruits are also good. If you're eating when you're bored, pick up some sugar free gum to satisfy your chewing craving. Try jogging on the treadmill, walking may not be enough, and running may run you down. If jogging seems too easy to you, then step it up and start running. I would say to run for about 30 minutes a day to start. Either break that up throughout the day, or all at once. If you're not tired after 30 minutes, then keep going. Start running more and more as you progress in your diet. Crunches/Sit ups are AMAZING fo getting rid of belly fat, and you'll develop some good muscles in your stomach, which will look good on the beach! Hope I helped, and good luck on your weight-loosing endeavor!
-Charleigh
Are there any MALL JOBS someone can have at 15?
Most stores dont hire under 16, sorry. But, it doesnt hurt to try! Just so you dont waste your time, I know that Old Navy doesnt hire under 16. So, I guess that means that Gap and Banana Republic dont either. Good luck on your job hunt!
-Charleigh
me and my bf are hanging out later today and i know he's going to be doing that but im not the skinniest person around..i've got mad belly fat lol.
so will he still like, enjoy it?
If he is dating you, then he obdviously finds you attractive just the way you are! I wouldnt be worried about your belly fat, because sometimes having a little meat on you is better than being all skin and bones. Guys even like that better sometimes. If he DOES care about that, then he is not right for you, because he doesnt love you/accept you for who you are. Dont give up who you are for ANY guy, because they're just not worth it.
-Charleigh
My graduation is coming up and i bought those fake manicure nails to glue over my real nails. They are kind of long and the problem is im going to an amusement park the next day. Should i keep the nails on? On the roller coasters i would be gripping the handle so would it make a difference? Also, it doesnt say it is waterproof, so when i go in the water park what should i do? Keep it on or take them off?
Thanks
I think you'll be fine on the rollercoasters. If you think that they're too long, then you can maybe file them down a bit before going to the amusement park. As for the water rides, they may come off while you're in the water.But, I wouldnt recommend taking them off that soon after putting them on. It could really damage your real nails. So leave them on, and just take the chance of maybe having them fall off. It's no big deal, since they're just glue-ons. Have fun at the amusement park, and congrats on graduation!
-Charleigh
hey, ok so my two friends have birthdays coming up. I wanted to make them something (could be the same thing) in addition to a gift that i'll buy them. I wanted to know if there were any like, creative ways to use pictures to make gifts. Like a mirror with a border of pictures, or a framed collage, something like that.
thanks so much xoxo
For my friend's birthday, I made her a poster with all kinds of pictures of us, and then inside jokes written in different colors all around the poster. She loved it! I also decorated it with glitter, etc. Hope that helped!
-Charleigh
Okay, my parents work 9-5 pretty much every day, me and my to brothers go to school but were getting out on summer vacation. I have a part-time job for the summer and my brothers are going away for the summer...My dog is home all the time by her self and we can't put her on her leash because all she does is bark, my mom has been hounding my for a year pretty much the entire time that we've had her. she always says that she's going to get rid of her but this time she is serious she had people over to look at the dog and everything, she gave me the a choice whether to get rid over her or not. I know it would be the best thing to get rid of her but I honestly don't think I can. I have no idea what i should do please help
I know how you feel. I have a very strong attatchment to my pets too. If you really cant bare to get rid of her, then try to find a dog sitter for the time that you and your family are out of the house. Try getting either a neighbor or a friend to look after her. I hope I helped!
-Charleigh