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if she thinks im clingy will she dump me?
my girlfriend and i ha ve been going out for almost 9 months now and the school year has just ended. i spent most of my time with her during the school year and now summers here and her friends want time in to.
i dont have a problem with her friends or if she hangs out with them but im not used to sharing her so whenever im not with her i get depressed and sad. do you think she might want to break up with me if i continue act like this??
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Well, if she spends more time with you than with her friends she'll realize you have taken 'their' time away from her. It's okay to want to be with her, but you have to want to be with your friends sometimes too.
So, instead of getting upset and depressed, make time with your friends when you know she's going to be with hers. That way, you'll have more time together when you're actually together and you'll have something new to talk about.
Hope this helps.
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Yes, it could be grounds for a break-up so i would suggest you hang out with some of your friends when she wants girl time. Some space will be good for the relationship. Pick up a hobby or something & just relax, its summer 8D
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All girls are different. However, most girls do not like clingy boyfriends. There's nothing wrong with you both having some seperation throughout the summer. If she's going out with her friends, why not go out with yours?? Maybe you guys should plan days where you guys can spend time together & the rest plan with your family & friends. Try not getting depressed & sad. It would be a good idea to talk to her about it.
-hope that helped!♥
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I for one don't like it when guys get DEPRESSED that I'm not always with them. Call her once a day, and that will satisfy your need to be with her a little bit. Hang out with her a few times a week, but don't keep her from her friends. If she thinks you're too clingy (especially during the summer), she might dump you. But, by backing offa little bit and giving her some space (not too much, you dont want her to think that you're ignoring her), then it'll be fine.
-Charleigh
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