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i have an unhealthy obsession
ok i think i have an unhealthy obsession with gerard way from my chemical romance. ok all i think about is him and i mean i am 13 years old and all i think about is him. i mean my desktop is him, my screen saver is him, my aol sn is him, everything is him. i mean when i found out he was engaged i cryed for 4 hours straight (seriously) and im still so upset that he is engaged. i mean yeah i know i will never have a chance with him i just feel better knowing he is single. i just am so upset and i mean i just cant stop thinkin about him. what do i do??? (by the way plz dont say "find another crush" or something like that because it doesnt work)
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i know exactly how you feel
i feel the same way about tom delonge from blink 182 and angels and airwaves haha
We'll i've had my obession for like almost a year....but all i can tell you is that you don't have to stop being obessed with him, just try not to focus all your attention on him and stuff, and when you hang out with your friends hopefully you won't be so focused on him and stuff, and whenever you see a hott guy, try not to compare him to gerard haha i used to do that, but one day you will find a great guy and your obession will start to fade.
I know its not a big help but i know exactly how you feel, but just try and do alot of things that keep your mind focused off of him, haha its hard i know
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Hey!
Okay, so I understand your obsession; I am just as bad. I mean, I love that band with my life, and I think I probably hate Eliza Cuts as much as you, lol. But this is a fairly unhealthy obsession. Mainly the crying thing, because I got really upset about the engagement, too.
What I did was just to really, really think about it. I mean, he's thirty *tear*, and we're thirteen and fourteen year olds. There's not really any way there'd ever be a relationship, though we'd both love that,l ol.
You don't have to just drop your obsession, but you can look at things seriously. Also, TRY (i'm a hypocrite, because I personally can't) to be happy about the engagement. Maybe then we'll have little Gerard Way kiddies around :P. I guess that he's happy, we should all be happy?
Gah, I'm sorry. I'm just as bad as you, so I'm not much help, lol.
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Get professional help. I guess in a way is cute cuz your like 13 but gerard way is engaged so if you "love" him respect that. Just keep admiring him I guess but cmon lets face it the chances of you being with gerard way. I'd pray for you but I don't believe in God so sorry. Again get professional help.
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There's nothing wrong with having a minor obsession over a celebrity. Just don't let it consume your life. It is upsetting, but once you mature, you'll realize that him being engaged doesn't really affect you. Just spend time with your friends, it should help keep your mind off of him. If you think a guy likes you, then spend some time with him too. It will help you feel liked, and help you realize that Gerard Way being engaged is no big deal. I hope I helped.
-Charleigh
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