Well me and my boyfriend have been together for a year (on July 2nd.) We pretty much spend every waking second together. You can narrow it down to the fact that we're all eachother has, such as friends and such cause we gave them up for eachother. -Anyways! Things seem to be slightly changing. He's so sweet and stuff usually, but for instance today he's supposed to come over, and he's like "I don't know, I don't care." about everything, and it's been like this for like 2 weeks. I know it doesn't exactly sound like a big deal, but to me it is. It's a big change and I don't like it AT ALL. I asked him why he's changing and he's like, "I'm not you are." and he constantly says I'm being mean, when 90$ of the time I'm sucking up to him.
Whatever. I don't know what to do. How should I talk to him? Erghhh.
Thanks in adv.<3
Try working things out. Maybe stop hanging out with each other for a while & see if things go back to normal. If not, then you need to ask yourself if this relationship is still good for you. Good luck. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
xbluewind answered Sunday June 17 2007, 5:48 pm: Wow, tough situation. You could ask him how exactly you've changed, and see what he says, and try to figure out a way to fix it. Although, if his answer is completely insane, and involves changing who you are, then I wouldnt recommend changing a thing. I went through a similar situation, but it resulted in my boyfriend breaking up with be because I didnt talk to him about what was going on. Hopefully, this will help you from making the same mistake that I did.
-Charleigh [ xbluewind's advice column | Ask xbluewind A Question ]
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