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when will he realize?
Okay so there's this guy I like. We're good friends and we have so much in common. Everytime we talk online, we end up talking for like 3 hours. I feel like we would be perfect together. But I don't even think he realizes that. Sure, he's said to be before "Wow, we have a lot of similiar interests" but I don't even think he's even thought of us being together. I don't even know what to do anymore; we hang out, we talk ALOT, we agree on everything from politics to music, we get along great, and have alot of inside jokes...how can maybe make him realize that we could be so much more than just friends? I don't want to freak him out or anything if he doesn't feel the same way, though.
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Well, dear, I think that the only thing you can do is talk to him about it. Lol. You don't to come right out and say "Hey, I really like you, I think we should date". But, be discrete and hint at it a little bit and judge by his reaction when it would be time to tell him. I am almost positive that he wouldn't want to lead you on if he didnt feel the same way, because you are such close friends, so... just go for it and be honest. I think you will be glad you did. Bet of luck... and hope it turns out for the best, hun. *Smiles*.
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Maybe one time when you're hanging out, you can just casually say "You know, you'd make a perfect boyfriend", and see what he says. That doesnt mean that you like him, so it shouldn't freak him out too much. I hope everything works out with you two!
-Charleigh
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Hey, in one of your convos, say something like "So, who do you like these days?" If he doesnt tell you or keeps writting then erasing, he might just like you. Theres another way to go about it also. Its a way more bold way and it could possibly freak him out. Just tell him that you like him or that you think you guys would be a good match. Its scary, but its the only real way to know how he feels. Also you dont want to be left with what if?
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