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hey i need some advice from the guyz in here!! wat do ya look for in a gurl?!?!
thanx!! (link)
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Honesty, similar tastes, intelligence, sense of humor, and attractiveness.
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my brest are a 34a and im 16 do u think that i should get inplants if so y or if not y?? (link)
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No, you definitely should not. The only reason girls would get implants is to measure up to men's distorted sense of beauty. Besides, you might not be done growing yet. I'm a guy, and a girl's bra size isn't even a factor when determining whether or not she is attractive.
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What dose boys really look in gurls???? Im 15 single and my names Jenipher PLZ answer!!! (link)
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Well, Here's what I look for: Similar tastes, sense of humor, and I probably need to find her attractive. I know, I'm a little shallow, but I can't pretend something's there when it's not.
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This is a very personal question and i feel weird to ask this but do yalls shave your pubic hairs? Cause some guys don't like it and i was wondering if it was ok if i mowed my lawn? Please Help if you can sorry if my question bothers you :/ (link)
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I'm a guy, and in my opinion it doesn't matter. If a girl shaved, it wouldn't change my opinion of her.
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I was reading your advice colomn after you had answered one of my questions and I just noticed how inteligient you seemed and wanted to know how old you are? If you dont mind my asking..I think you give great advice by the way so keep up the work, You help alot of people (link)
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Thanks, and I don't mind you asking. I'm 19. Thank you again for your kind words.
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well... i hang out with friends like everyday! an there are like 4 guyz who really like me but last nite, my mom forgot to pick me up an it wuz like 11:00 an i heard will, frankie, an steve in steves back yard yellin at the tv. so i went there untill my mom picked me up. an well my didnt ppick me up till like 2 in the mornin, but frankie kept saying he loved me, an that he wanted me to go out with him really bad an everything.. but the 3 other guyz say that too but im just to confused because we went in the hott tub an steve an will started to flirt wit me an frankie kept grabbin me an sayin he loved me an that he wanted me an everything im just really really really confused CAN SOMEONE HELP PLZZ!!! 14/f/ny (link)
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Don't trust any of them. They sound like they have a one track mind. I doubt he would ask in front of his friends, who were also flirting with you, if he was serious. This sounds too planned to me, I wouldn't trust them. This coming from a guys point of view.
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Me and my ex were together for 10 months and we loved eachother alot! Everything was great and we hung out everyday..recently he started to work alot and we drifted apart a litle bit. We'd only see eachother a few days a week. Well then it started to be like a week 1/2 without hearing from him so naturally I would track him down and ask what was up! He told me nothing and its just he's been "really busy" but hes going to find more time for me, blah blah blah blah. Next thing you know he shows up MY BIRTHDAY NIGHT at 2 a.m and of course stupid me drops my friends and goes with him!! Ugh Im so stupid. So we went to HIS buddies house,ended up having sex and he took me home the next afternoon. He kissed me told me he loved me and I never heard from him ever again! Its like he disappeared?! A couple weeks later he has another girlfriend!! And everytime I see him out on the town he acts as if NOTHING ever happened between us! Even if hes alone without his girl, he acts this way! Whats goin on? Im still deeply in love with him and I need some VERY GOOD advice. Please HELP
*Kris* (link)
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Sorry if this advice isn't very good, but I'll give it my best shot. I think something drove him away early. Something internal like a fear of commitment, or maybe he was growing tired of the relationship. Whatever it was, his strategy seemed to be to act distant and not call until you broke up with him. He may not have had the nerve to tell you because of his hectic worklife, just a guess. Did you try to contact him after that night? If not, he probably figured you wanted out of the relationship too. His new girlfriend is just a means of having fun. I'm sure it started out as a fling, and grew into a relationship. My advice is to find any means to stop thinking about him. Talk to other guys. Talking to other guys may lead to thinking about other guys, which in turn will lead to wanting to start a relationship with another guy. Whenever you find yourself thinking about him, try something that requires your undivided attention, or try to think about someone else. In truth, none of this may work, but in time you will eventually forget him.
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Hey,
I was wondering if anyone could help me out here obviously lol. Well anyway, im 13 and ive been with my boy friend for almost 2 years(( yeah i know i know a long time to be tied down for my age)). We have done everything but have sex. Ive been thinking about having sex but i know that im not physically and mentally ready, and im for sure not old enough to have sex or even do what im doing. I was just wondeirng if its normal to think what im thinking, what it would be like to have sex and all. Thanks!:) (link)
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Well, you are right. You're way too young. And as for how it feels, I'm guessing it would be very painful for you considering your age and the fact that he has no idea what he's doing. Oh, and yes. It's perfectly normal.
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Hey all my friends think im a total weirdo cuz i love country music ! i dont think i am i only like the new stuff like keith urban and gretchen wilson i hate the oldies tho ! whos with me does ne one else like country music ! (link)
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I'm not a big fan of country music, but I don't think you're a weirdo for liking it. Some of my friends like country too.
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I have been searching and searching for a job but I can't find ANYTHING I am intreseted in! Ive looked at Baskin Robbins, Black Eyed Peas, Eckerd's and they just dont look fun! Have any good, FUN places to work that pays well?
Thanks!! (link)
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Well, I'd just look for the highest paying one that requires little effort. Try a job at a movie theater or something.
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Im 5"7 and i weigh 165 pounds... thats fat right? how do i lose that weight to get to a helathy one? (link)
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man, that's not fat. Your a guy, right? That's perfectly normal unless you don't have an ounce of muscle. Don't worry about it.
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female,20 2 children eldest 2 youngest 7 weeks,differant dads when i drink alchol i get violent not al the time just when im stressed my partner over the past 4 weeks my partener has broken my finger n given me a black eye on both occasions he has said sorry and it will never happen again. he has taken my eldest son on as his own. i dont want to be a single mum with 2 children by differant fathers but i dont want to be a nervous wreck either i feel low in myself he alwys puts me down telling me im ugly and fat i just dont know which way to turn the violence only happens when we are both drunk please give me advice (link)
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You already know what you have to do. Stop drinking. From the way you talk, the children are the important ones, right. This senseless domestic violence is going to be terrible for them, especially when they're older. If the fear of raising 2 kids by yourself is the only thing that's keeping this relationship going, then end it.
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im 13 // 5'4 // 150 do u think i weigh alot ?!
nd hOw can i wOrk it Off ? (link)
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Other than sports and walking a lot, you can try to constantly stay active. Dieting can be helpful, but it can also be unhealthy, it depends on what diet. That is if you desperately want to lose weight, but I don't think 150 is a lot.
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ok well theres this girl that i've been inlove with since like 7th grade now im goin into 11th well we r friends now and we've gone through so much 2gether and we almost went out so many times but something always gets in the way she said she liked me a number of times but shes confused and she said she doesnt want to ruin our friendship she has gone out with 2 of my friends n both times i warned her about them and told her she would get hurt but she wouldnt listen and both times she ended up getting hurt i really like her alot and i would do anything 4 her i've tryed everything and im good friends with all of her friends, we always have fun when we hang out and stuff and she invites me over sometimes 4 dinner and stuff and i hang out with her and her family her mom and everyone loves me but still she wont go out with me what can i do i dont uunderstand why she wont go out with me she even said she liked me im so confused (link)
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I wouldn't push it. She clearly doesn't want to date you right now. She gave you the friendship line. Just stay friends, she already knows how you feel about her. If she deserves the world to you, then your not treating her "too good". Just stay close friends, that's all you really can do. She may change her mind later, but right now all she needs from you is an intimate friendship.
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I have a friend, Lauren, who kept comparing her friend, Maddie, to me a while back - February, I think it was. She kept saying how much alike we were and that we should meet. Now that I've known Maddie and her best friend Christine for a while and the three of us have become great friends, Lauren has begun acting jealous. Maddie, Chris, and I keep wondering what we need to do about it, but we can't decide. We all knew it would happen, but... shouldn't Lauren learn to share her friends? (link)
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I think you should pay extra attention to her. Never leave her side, ever!!
An honest answer? Yes she should. But if you want to remain close, you should try to do something. It's very common for people to feel left out. It's a strange feeling, to feel that you wouldn't be missed if you weren't even there. Or that you aren't missed if you're not. Talking to her would be about the worst thing you could do. It's extremely uncomfortable when those types of conversations surface. My advice to you is to keep her involved in your converations. If you see her get bored, try to incorporate her in the topic at hand. If you guys spend a lot of time with each other and not with her, try to include her more. If she still feels jealous, then at least you gave it your best shot. In the end that's all you can do.
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If you really like a person who is a different age than you are and you are older, what would be considered a "BIG" age difference? Is two to four years a big age difference? (link)
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If it's legal, your fine.
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I am a Christian girl. My parents like to go to a supposedly "Christian Phycic" He says that God gives him his powers. I dont really believe in ANYTHING a phycic says, but my parents do. Is this phycic a sin in God's eyes? Please help me understand! (link)
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If he charges people anything, then yes. If he doesn't, then yes.
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I need some help here!!! im 13 years old.. but i really like this boy Frank z!!!.......... he's 18 :( and my brother just passed away, and he has been there all the way for me.. telling me we'll get threw it together and stuff we don't 'do it' lol! were just people who do like to cuddle for hours watchin kim possible or something, we make out too!! but nothing past that, he doesn't want to!! and neither am i!! but i just don't know what to do.. i mean like he is 5 years older than me, mu mom... it doesn't really bother her, cause she trusts the both of us, and she likes frankiie a lot!! he is a really sweet guy! but we all have to like hide it from my dad. cause he would kick frankies ass :/ i really don't know what to doo.. can you pleaseee help me???? thanksss *~>> LIZAAA!!!! :) (link)
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I can't blame your father. I would kick my best friend's ass if I found out he was making out with a 13 yr old. Definitely don't have a relationship with this guy, stay friends if that. Too much of an age gap.
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I met this guy, he is soo sweet and hot and he treats me like a princess and we JUST met! I saw a picture of him and assumed he was about 16 or 17 and when we talked on the phone, he completely sounded like it too! Well, he asked me how old I was and said 15 and he said oh man I'm younger than you, I'm 14! :-/ Oh geez.. is it bad to be with someone a year younger than you especially when youre a girl?! HeLp! (link)
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Being as how the girl I loved chose a guy at least a year younger than her if not younger (She turns 19 in a week or so, and he's still in highschool and I think under age), then it's okay. Sorry for the outburst, but yeah, I see no problem with it.
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Well I'm single right now and have been for a few weeks. There really isn't anyone that I wanna talk to right now that I think could be a potential g/f, cause I just don't have that feeling about them. I've just been talking to my ex lately (who I still have feelings for), but it ain't exactly the same on the other side with her. I mean she likes me, but I don't think it's gonna be enough that she'll want to get back together, even if I did have the last thing that would complete her "perfect guy" list, and we've talked about all of this too. Anybody got any solutions to what I should do? There isn't anything I can really do to get back with her, it's all her decision. (link)
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Well, just keep doing what your doing. Meet other girls, talk to other girls, one will eventaully come up that you want to date.
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