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gf help
ok well theres this girl that i've been inlove with since like 7th grade now im goin into 11th well we r friends now and we've gone through so much 2gether and we almost went out so many times but something always gets in the way she said she liked me a number of times but shes confused and she said she doesnt want to ruin our friendship she has gone out with 2 of my friends n both times i warned her about them and told her she would get hurt but she wouldnt listen and both times she ended up getting hurt i really like her alot and i would do anything 4 her i've tryed everything and im good friends with all of her friends, we always have fun when we hang out and stuff and she invites me over sometimes 4 dinner and stuff and i hang out with her and her family her mom and everyone loves me but still she wont go out with me what can i do i dont uunderstand why she wont go out with me she even said she liked me im so confused
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AWwW=)Well she might be scared.Try Bein good friends with her for awhile.Things might change.GoOd LuCk=)
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Maybe she's just happy with the friendship that the two of you have and doesn't want to risk the chance of it going bad. Give her a while, and let it be, just be happy with staying friends and see if anything changes ..
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Girls can be so very hard to understand... I know this because I am one! Hehe! Truthfully, she probably is really scared that being with you will ruin the great friendship the 2 of you have. There is no doubt about it this girl does care for you, probably even secretly loves you but won't truelly admit. You are probably at the top of her list of the most important people in her life right now so maybe she thinks if the 2 of you become a couple and things mess up, things won't be the same and you won't treat her so wonderful anymore.
Let me put it to you this way... You CAN NOT spend the rest of your life chasing/waiting for this girl to come around. I Know that you want to be with her though, so maybe all you really need to do to see how thinsg really are is give her some space. Sometimes a person has to see something is gone/missing in order to realize what they really have. And when she calls asking you wheer you've been, you'll know how she truelly feels by the way she reacts. Hopefully she will see how much she needs you, but if not let her know that you love her and want her in your life, you want to give her the world, but you can't do that unless she opens up her heart to you and stops playing these games. Good Luck! :)
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well Pete, mayy i call you Pete?? anywayss... I think you should just...ask her out!!!! i mean what in the world are you waiting for???? 4 damn years!!!! jesus!!!!!!!! >:(!!! that is horrible, tell her how much she means to you... and how much your like madly in love with herr!!!! come onn pete go for the kill!! take some chances mann!!! live it all upp take her out, partyinn and shit!! show her you can and will show her a good time!!! tell her you wanna be her boyfriendd!! askk her outt!! thats soo cute what your doingggg... but maybe she also needs a little space, to think about what she really wants too do, ya knoww??? but you should deff. ask her out.. you both would seem like a cute couple if you dont even go out and you treat her like a goddess!! s0o yeahh i think you should give time a chance, and let the cupid do his magic!!!! good luckkkk petey :) you seem like a GREAT guy!! if you ever need anythinggg else or whateverr im here.. or my screen name is BrandonsBabe1111!! alrightttt :) <3 liza!
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don't suffacate her, write her a poem or a song about how deeply you feel about her and give her time to think about it. try talking to her friends about how much you really like her and ask them what is holding you back from a b-friend/g-friend relationship.the roses are really nice and are probably giving you an extra few points, but make sure you don't over do it.if you do end up in a relationship make sure that if you break up, you don't act bitter towards her because then she'll think she that you two should have never hooked up.
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I wouldn't push it. She clearly doesn't want to date you right now. She gave you the friendship line. Just stay friends, she already knows how you feel about her. If she deserves the world to you, then your not treating her "too good". Just stay close friends, that's all you really can do. She may change her mind later, but right now all she needs from you is an intimate friendship.
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If she said she liked you, then obviously she has feelings for you.. maybe they arent the same kind of feelings that you have for her.. i think she feels that she really likes you but she doesnt wanna loose you if u 2 were 2 get into a relationship.. i think your doing the right thing so keep it up.. dont ever, ever give up on something you love... *good luck*
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the best, strongest relationships start out as friendships... I'd say that it sounds as if you have that. Don't push for a more intimate relationship with her - let it happen on its own. If you appear to push the issue, it will only widen the gap that is there... if you always are there for her, always show you care, and approach the relationship with a sense of maturity and importance - one day, she'll finally see that. Right now, it seems she's unable to see what's right before her. It happens, don't fret it.
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I was in this situation, but on the girl's side. She probably loves the friendship the two of you have and doesn't want to ruin it.
Talk to her about it, though. Tell her what you just told us, that you'd treat her well, and not hurt her like the others. You're different, and she needs to know that.
Talk to her about all that, and if she still won't go out with you, look around. There may be other people for you. =)
Good luck!
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First off, tell her exactly what you just said. You need to let her know you will treat her right and that you really care for her. If a guy told me exactly what you just said, I would date him, given that we were good friends. You just need to let her know how strong you feel about this. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
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