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Hey! First off, i'm going to start by saying I came here on this site to give people advice. Some people actually don't know the real meaning of advice. They think its the answers they want to hear. But i'm not here for that. I'll give you advice, and it might be something you don't want to hear. But deal with it! You may take my advice or not, its completely up to you and you are not gaurnteed a correct solution.

Ok so now that's clear, I'll talk to you more about myself. Hence the username... I play volleyball. It is my passion and basically my life since I've played for about 7 years. Most of my friends say i'm 50/50 tomboy and girly girl. I LOVE sports!! I play volleyball all year round, and then I go to the park during free times to play some soccer, football, hockey, basketball or baseball with my friends. But then again, I could be inside trying on my new Sephora makeup i'd just gotten, or reading the latest Seventeen magazine or even arranging my clothes for school tomorrow.

You can ask me just about anything and i'll be happy to answer it. You can count on a full and detailed answer.

Oh and another thing... I love getting feedback! Even if its a negative comment. It tells me what I need to work on or even what I did correct.

-Volleyball2150



BODY EXERCISES AND WORKOUTS! my way or the highway

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does anyone know good hairstyles like that are easy to do but look really good I have blonde hair and its long please help i wanna look good for the first day and this year

www.geocities.com/mka_wonderland
that has some fun hairstyles. just go to that site and click on the hair link. it shows many different styles!

I hope I helped!
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How could I build up my immune system without getting exposed to germs? I'm germ-phobic, and I want to stay really healty and not get sick. Thanks. :]

just like the other person said- wash your hands and use sanitizer daily. i also got a website on 8 foods that boost your immune system- http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/food-safety/NU00291

I hope I helped!
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Are there any foods that are impossible to get food poisonign from, and foods that are really hard to get it from? If you could list them in two different categories that would be great. :]
Thanks!

i'm not really sure there's a specific type of food that is impossible to get food poisoning from. but i managed to get a link that shows 8 ways to not get food poisioning- http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/food-safety/NU00291

I hope I helped!
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I'm 15 years old and I am in love with my best friend's brother who is 18. I know that it's probably horrible to like someone with that much age difference, but it's so hard not to. He is my ideal guy and always makes me feel better than anyone else. We are really close and I can always talk to him about things and we make each other laugh all the time. I really want to tell him I like him, but I feel like I will be ruining the friendship. I would never want to do that because I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. I'm not sure how he would react and if he likes me. He always says how funny I am and a couple months ago he said I was one of the most amazing girls in the world. He still treats me like I"m just a really good friend though. It's hard for me to realize how he feels about me...and I'm really not sure. I don't know if I should keep quiet...or say something. I don't know how my friend would react either.

i feel the same way!! my brothers friend who is 18 also treats me like a friend. we say hey and talk and everything but i dont like him more than a friend. what you should do is talk to your friend and just tell her "hey i dont want to ruin our friendship by telling you this, so you gotta understand what i am saying. promise me that our friendship will stay the same." and just tell your bestfriend that you have a crush on her brother. heck my brother is 18 and all of my friends say "OMG your brother is soooo cute i love him!!!" and they are 13 and i dont care, you know why?? because they are my best friends and i know that they would never be able to be in a serious relationship with my brother. so tell your best friend and go up to this guy and tell him "you know what? you are soo cool, i really like you." and if he starts acting all like "ook whatever" and your friendship is ruined talk to him and tell him "i'm sorry, if you really dont want me to like you more than a friend anymore, then so be it. i just wanted to tell you because if i kept it inside of me for a long time, i would burst out." trust me, he will understand.

I hope I helped and all goes well!
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I like to pull out my hairs (any hairs) to feel their texture. I like to see why some are longer, darker, or have waxier cuticles. I know it's strange but I just love to look at the and feel them. Is this Trichotellimania?

well it could be. the definition for it says people pull out hairs from their body and ingest them... http://dictionary.reference.com/search?r=2&q=Trichotillomania
i'm not sure if you do that. but it could be. :/

i hope i helped!
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ok, quick question. my friend wants to know, and i need help on how to help her so i'm going to this site. there was a big game tonight. she told her parents she was going. but, then she went to a party knowing that her parent's didn't like the person throwing it! now, she's calling me because she is super scared because her parents both have myspaces and their like addicted and stuff. and they have her as a friend and stuff. so, she's afraid that they will see all the comments people are leaving her about the party! she's calling me now and she is super super nervous. do you have anything you can say to her? please!

you can tell her that she should tell her friends not to write comments but to write MAIL. i dont think her parents would be able to read her mail. she could ask her friends to rewrite the comments on a mail and delete all of the comments. or if she doesnt want to do that, just delete her parents as her friends.

I hope I helped!
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will aloe hurt my sunburn that i already peeled? also, i peeled a part off, and it now has a little cut there, not bleeding or anything, just a little cut, is that normal? THANKS!

well, it depends on how big and deep your cut is... it might hurt or sting a little. but dont let the pain keep you from putting aloe on it. aloe vera helps alot!!! i recently went to spain in 110 degrees and got totally sunburnt, i put it on and in about 3-4 days the sunburn turned into a tan.

I hope I helped!
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Have you ever experienced one arm muscle is larger than the other...like about twice as large...kinda...
Anyways, my right arm (strongest arm and my writing arm) is bigger than my left arm. I flex, and you can totally see the difference. I wear t-shirts, and I stretch my arm and you can feel some muscle, other than my left. Is this because I just hold things and stuff with my right, so it's stronger? Should I even them out by doing weights only with my left arm?

-Any information can help

i tried searching this up, but i came up with nothing. Do you think it could be genetics? In your past, have you done any weight-lifting with only your right arm? that could be true. I would just say work out with your left arm. try doing push-ups with only your left hand. or just lift weights with your left arm.

I hope I helped!
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my thighs are kinda fat. i dont like it. i play soccer and run but it dosnt seem to be helping. what can i do to make them skinnier?

do wall sits. ((its like sitting on an invisible chair with your back against the wall)) it works your muscles in your thighs. get a pedometer and just run around the neighborhood. do a couple of squats. ((squats- stand up, then just squat down until your legs are 90 degrees, then slowly come back up)) do some monstor walks. ((stand up, bend your knees like you are proposing to somebody but dont put your far knee down on the floor, then stand up, walk and switch feet,and repeat.

I hope it helps!
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Okay my name is brandy and i have an advice column so i am normally the one to give advice but this time i just dont know what to do i want a kitten soooo badly you dont even know but i live in an apartment and they dont allow pets (except fish i had 4 fighting fish but they all killed each-other) but the maneger said i could get a pet as long as i clean up after it and its small so any way i was looking for a gold kitten for free or $50 bucks or under so i found this website where you can give or get free kittens but the only problem is my mom dosent know how to drive so it is not like i can just go get the kitten from where ever it is so what should i do????? sorry for making my question so long but please answer it.

thank-you in advance

well you could ask a friend if they will go get the kitten for you. or like the other person said, just ask a relative or somebody close.

i hope i helped!
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I'm trying out for a play and I'm doing a real cute song that needs dance moves to go along with it. I'm not a dancer and don't have the best technique, so if anyone knows of a site with pictures or videos or could give me a direct link I'd be so grateful! Also, I'm still in search of a monologue and a Soprano song just as a back-up. I'm a 15 year-old female.

well i'm sorry, but i dont know any links for the dancing part. but i do have some songs for monologue and soprano songs. http://broadwayworld.com/board/readmessage.cfm?thread=308446 thats the link for monologue songs and heres the link for soprano songs- http://www.sheetmusicplus.com/pages.html?cart=336496302013178739&target=smp_detail.html%26sku%3DHL.48008366&s=pages-www.google.com/search&e=/sheetmusic/detail/HL.48008366.html&t=&k=&r=wwws-err5

i hope i helped!
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ugh i have that sysprotect/winfixier virus and i cannot seem to get rid of it! i've been trying for like ever...
does anyone know how to get rid of it??
virus scan doesn't work it detects it but like doesn't do anything (norton antivirus)
so if anyone has any suggestions please let me know i really want to get rid of this
preferably without rebuilding

well i use noron antivirus and it works pretty well. but theres also spybot and windows defender. heres the link for windows defender http://www.microsoft.com/athome/security/spyware/software/default.mspx
and heres the link for spybot
http://www.safer-networking.org/

i hope i helped!
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Hey evreyone! A new school years starting up and i relized I have no hair styles.. i have mid-back curly brown hair and brown eyes.. im sorda tan but not realy.. I would realy liek either some.. step by step tips.. or some pictures.. thanks so much evreyone

www.geocities.com/mka_wonderland

then click the hair site and you got soo many hairstyles from mary-kate and ashley

i hope i helped!
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im going school shopping tomorrow. i get like $100-200. but my style is like delias but they are pretty expensive so i dont want to waste half my money on one outfit. what are some stores that have those kind of clothes but are cheap? thankss.

well i'm not sure what kind of stores you like, but i like forever 21, buckle, limited too, walmart, charlotte russe, vanity.
i have more but i cant think of them at the time. lol

I hope I helped!
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Alright, I'm perfectly fine with my weight and everything, its just I have this little bit of fat in the front of my stomach, and I want to make my stomach just flat. And I've been doing crunches and everything, but I want to know if there's anything else I can do? Helppp./

in volleyball we do something called "the boat" and its where you lay on your back and lift your legs,back, and arms. but leave your back only on the floor. leave it like that until you can feel it. do about 20 a day or so... then also we do where you lay on the floor and put your hands on your side, spread out, and you lift your legs up high and bring them side to side, horozontally from your waists. but dont put your legs on the floor!! keep them up!

I hope I helped!
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I have naturally curly hair. I strighten it all the time so its never curly. But now that school is almost here and ill have homework ill never have time to strighten it. So is there a shampoo and anything that will make my hair stright without me having to strighten it?

fructis sleek and shine!! thats a really good product. heres the link for it- http://www.walgreens.com/store/product.jsp?CATID=304579&navAction=jump&navCount=1&id=prod1696471

i hope i helped!
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Does anyone know of any good penpal websites. I'd really like one, I just don't know where to go!

http://www.merrywing.com/penpal.htm

visit that site!! theres alot of more websites to get penpals or e-pals

i hope i helped!
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What is the name of the girl who play's Stephanie of Lazy Town?

i searched lazytown up on imdb.com and heres the link- http://www.imdb.com/name/nm1559611/
her name is julianna rose mauriello.
i hope i helped!
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I have volleyball try-outs in roughly a week, and I would appreciate any advice on how to do well at them. What should I eat, what should I do beforehand, when should I sleep, and any advice fromother volleyballplayers would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!

Hey, I have volleyball tryouts soon too. and i've played for about 6 years, so this is what i normally do. you should eat healthy, but eat about 2 hours before the tryouts. if you are really hungry right before you leave, just take a simple snack. get alot of sleep so you have enough energy. i would say around 9-11 hours of sleep is enough. make sure you are hydrated by drinking lots of water. dont forget that the coaches are looking for skills, but also confidence and hustling. if the coach says shag up all of the balls, be the first one to leave the group and the first one to come back. coaches love it when you listen to them very carefully. I hope I helped and all goes well.
remember- dont be nervous and try your best. have confidence and energy!

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Okay, I'm a pretty good actress when I'm around people I know. But I'm shy! UGH! The worst thing you can be when you want to be an actress. When I get up in front of someone I don't know I freeze up and I suck. Can anyone help me come out of my shell? Anyone been through what I'm going through as far as shyness taking over your dreams? Thanks!

Eden, XxSeetherxAddictxX

Start off acting in front of your family, then your neighbors, then your neighborhood etc....
just start off with small groups of people, then as you feel more confident, act infront of larger groups. dont be afraid. Just think of it as if you messed up and people laugh, just say "its alright, everybody makes mistakes"

I hope I helped!
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