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Age?


Question Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 2:08 pm

I'm 15 years old and I am in love with my best friend's brother who is 18. I know that it's probably horrible to like someone with that much age difference, but it's so hard not to. He is my ideal guy and always makes me feel better than anyone else. We are really close and I can always talk to him about things and we make each other laugh all the time. I really want to tell him I like him, but I feel like I will be ruining the friendship. I would never want to do that because I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. I'm not sure how he would react and if he likes me. He always says how funny I am and a couple months ago he said I was one of the most amazing girls in the world. He still treats me like I"m just a really good friend though. It's hard for me to realize how he feels about me...and I'm really not sure. I don't know if I should keep quiet...or say something. I don't know how my friend would react either.

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Volleyball2150 answered Saturday August 19 2006, 2:29 pm:
i feel the same way!! my brothers friend who is 18 also treats me like a friend. we say hey and talk and everything but i dont like him more than a friend. what you should do is talk to your friend and just tell her "hey i dont want to ruin our friendship by telling you this, so you gotta understand what i am saying. promise me that our friendship will stay the same." and just tell your bestfriend that you have a crush on her brother. heck my brother is 18 and all of my friends say "OMG your brother is soooo cute i love him!!!" and they are 13 and i dont care, you know why?? because they are my best friends and i know that they would never be able to be in a serious relationship with my brother. so tell your best friend and go up to this guy and tell him "you know what? you are soo cool, i really like you." and if he starts acting all like "ook whatever" and your friendship is ruined talk to him and tell him "i'm sorry, if you really dont want me to like you more than a friend anymore, then so be it. i just wanted to tell you because if i kept it inside of me for a long time, i would burst out." trust me, he will understand.

I hope I helped and all goes well!
-volleyball2150

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