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This summer my aunt asked me to come by her for a few weeks in my vacation. I really want to go cause 1. they have a new house and 2. I haven't been on a vacation in 3 years.
However my mum told me she's coming back with me on the return trip. This i don't mind but she told my mum she's going to share the jewelry, etc when she comes. My grandma had a stroke and she's alive still. My uncle and aunt had a huge arguement a few months back and I really don't want them to quarel because anything to do with my grandma's my uncle will be angry for.
Did i mention I have to keys for the jewelry...so that's what I'm scared of also...I really don't know if I should go or not? If you were in my position wuld u go for the hollidays and hw wuld u convince my aunt not to do anything to my grandma's things?
Beggin for help!!!!
If you can trust your aunt, and you are good at making goals and keeping them.
Go for it,
I mean your aunt knows it isnt right to put you in a position , to make you give her the keys to
the jewelery or anything, and if your grandma isnt dead, thats horrible to already be taking her stuff.
I woudl try explaining how you feel to your mother and aunt.
Let them know how your feeling, and whats going on..
ok well im a 15/f and my bf is a 16/m. we have been together for over a year now and i know what people are going to say your 15 sex can wait and i know it can. i mean i want to wait until later on in life but yet i sometimes feel like im ready to do it with him.. i mean me and him have talked about it before and he says he thinks hes ready but it all depends on me. i mean i love him to death and never felt this way about a guy before..he tells me he loves me alot and wouldnt make me do anything i wouldnt want to..hes told me that hes never felt this way and wouldnt know what to do if he lost me. but i mean when i say i want to i know for a fact ill chicken out because im so self conscience and like because of pain and possible bleeding. we talked about it last night and like when he wants to and stuff but he told me its up to me. like how do i know if im ready? how bad does it hurt? and like would i bleed alot? like i dont want to screw up and stuff like im scared to do it how do i get over it?
sorry its so long
thanks
(i rate)
Only have sex if you think you could take care of a baby. Because theres always that risk, even with a condom. Especially in young girls, who dont know when they are ovulating.
I'm a 16/f and my best friend is gay.
Okay, well, his family is very religious and grounded in "southern" beliefs, and if he comes out to his parents he is afraid he will be kicked out of his house.
He is going to tell his mom first, and THEN his dad, and hasn't told either of them yet. However, he is pretty sure that both of them already know, because of how he acts and things he likes and the fact that most of his friends are girls, and yeah.
He is adament about coming out to them, because he doesn't want to hide who he is, and I don't blame him. Do you think that he, at just 16, should WAIT to come out to them? I dont know what swort of advice I can give him. What should I be doing to help the situation?
Well I have gay friends, too. And they 15, and their parents know, and they accept it.
I mean its not something they can help, and he wants to be who he is. And it would feel much better if his parents accepted it, so he is doing the best thing.
Just be there and support him, if things dont go well.
hi im 16 and i have met a girl on msn (my friends are mates with her, so i didnt meet her in a weird way)i have liked her ever since i talked to her on msn but i met up with her yesterday and it hit me just how much i like her. but any way. i really like her...she is beautiful in my eyes and i love her personality. i need help, i ned to know how to find out if she likes me and how to go about asking her out. i really dont have ne experiance with this stuff so please help me.
Well, to be blunt, the only way you'll know if she likes you is for you to ask her.
If you like her that much, she should be aproachable.
Or I guess, I dont recommend this, but you can ask one of your friends if she likes you, but usually someone else (your friends) has a crush too, so its best ifyou just ask her yourself,
and see what happens.
:]
hi im kate
i have a boyfriend called alex and we used to be really happy together. now we always seem to fight all the time
i can't take it anymore. i really don't know what to do
i have tried talking to him but can't talk with out fighting
please can you help
i would really appreciate it
thankyou
from
kate
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Just break up with him,
it seems that the magic is lost,
and communication is the key,
and if you cant communicate there is no relationship.
Or write him a letter, explaining things,
and how since you guys are always fighting its not going to wokrk out.
I'm not sure if this is the right category.....
I'm 13 years old,112 lbs, 5'0
I don't think I'm fat because I am very athletic but I haev very wide hips. It makes me look a lot bigger than I am because I have big thighs and I'm wide. This makes me wear a size bigger (3-4 short) in pants and I can't wear tight shirts that cut off right at my hips. Please help with ideas of how to change (exercises) or some ideas of things to do or wear so that I don't look so wide.
Well part of growing up for girls, is they become women, and women have thighs.
So its no big deal, and 3-4 is a really tiny sizes at that.
You can easily go to google, and search up some exerises on how to shape your body.
I don't want this to be long or panic-y, but I need some advice. My friend and I are 13. There is a 17-year old across the street who is 17 and a juvi. My parents think he is 18, but really isn't. We played basketball with let's call him C, and we got his number. We hung out with him and we lied about out ages and we said we were 15 and 16. We lied about where we go to school and everything, and now we're hanging out with him. I've been lying to my parents about where we going and everything, but here is the main problem. I'm going into 8th grade this fall, and getting on the bus (right in front of my house!) in the morning is no big, but when the bus drops us off, it's 3:50pm. Big problem, because C smokes, and has to go outside and smokes. What if he sees us? I really hate to lie to everyone around me, and the lies keep getting bigger. Should I be honest with C? My friend and I have been flirting big time with him, and that will ruin out friendship. And, the other problem, even though C is moving is September, I'll have started school, and his brothers go to my new school! What should I do as an overall result? Thanks so much!
Well, If they arent good news,
you shouldnt be hanging out with them
and you shouldnt have lied.
I suggest you tell them the truth,
and then cut off conversation,
just to be safe.
IM 17 && i have needed braces since i was 11 or so. I have had spacers in my teeth so i can get braces in when they fell out.Yea well those fell out like 5 years ago. My parents never bring me to a dentist. I take good care of my teeth & i know braces cost alot of money but i really need them. How do i get my parents to bring me to a dentist so i can get check out and sent to a ortho.?
We live right next door to a dentist office. Its pretty crazy how i cant even get them to call or walk over there.?
Anything would be really wonderful.
Well theres not a lot I can actually do about that,
but since your 17 your almost 18, which means if you wait too long you might have to pay for them yourself.
I suggest you bring it up to your parents, and ask them to please take you to the dentist, since it is right next door, and give them your reasons why.
:)
What could me and my boyfriend do that would make our relationship more interesting? I'm not talking about tips for sex (considering we're only 14) but I mean just things/places to go that would turn him on or make living in a small town with no where to go more interesting. thanks.
Well seeing as you are 14, well if you guys really like each other, spending time together anywhere, no matter what, is what should count.
Things to "turn him on" is kinda a bit sexual, if you know what that term actually means.
Anyways, your town cant be that boring!
Hang out together outside, lay in the grass,
go to the park, to the movies, just be together :) Enjoy it!
can you give me answers on how to ditch an anyoing friend?
Well from my experience, I would have to say,
you want to try to do it in the nicest possible way, tell them that you really need space, and you dont think your friendship with them is working out. But if nice doesnt work, then just start ignoring them, and they eventually if not right away will get the picture. BUT if they keep pestering you, confront them face to face and say, leave me alone, you are honestly really annoying me.
Trust me, but sometimes that wont work, then you will need to ask a counsular to help.
Because I had that, and its not finished yet, this girl I befriended because she had none, she wont leave me or my friends alone, she is the most annoying dumb girl ever, and she even calls me sometimes, and i hate her. But what I've learned is that you need to be quite blunt.
:)
hope i helped.
how do you get pictures on myspace- but not like the profile pictures, ones like under the "about me" section or "my interests"?
thanks!
Make an account on photobucket or go to tinypic.com and then once you upload the photo
take the link that says "tag" on the left of it (thats for if your on photobucket)
and on tinypic once you upload your picture take the url in the box that says "HTML"
and then paste it where you want it on your profile and it should show up.
you know the IMVU 3D IM's? r they safe? and like wht do u do on it? i'm really confused...
I've played that game before,
its pretty safe. Because if you dont like who you are talking to , then you just close it and pick someone else.
Its a virtual world game, so you can buy clothes, and dance, and hug, do lots of things, and you can make rooms, take pictures, its entertaining, until you run out of the free credits they give you. If you want more you have to buy them =/
i just got a myspace and i need a lot of help
but right now all i want to know is how to upload a picture (pathetic i know) and how to get a layout or backround, my friend is coming over tomorrow to help me out so its not that urgent but if you have any suggestions than i'll take them
ohh well go into your profile
then click account settings
and you can find all the privacy stuff there.
and www.mygen.co.uk is really helpful as well
My mother and me never had a 'great' relationship...she never was around when I was growing up, etc. Anyway so my grandma got sick and we're building a relationship.
I never do that good at school but this term I really want to. I have 5 days until test and to tell you the truth I haven't opened a book! I have about 3 weeks of exams and I really want to do and make my mum and myself proud.
See my mum is really pissed at me because I don't study and I'm online as soon as I arrive home. I know this is bad and I want to change...but the more I want to change the more I can't. So I was wondering the best way to concentrate on books and not the computer. Please DON'T give me a site because it really doesn't work. Jus tell me something that works for you...
Okay, I know, just focus on your goal sweety!
Dont set your mind off it,
you need to have self control,
and be able to go study right when you get home, even if you dont want to, think of how proud you'll be of youreslf, and your mother!
It will make her hapy if you get a good grade,
but sticking to goals is always hard.
My mum told me I'm fat today and I know I am but the way she said it made me feel like I should be anerexic.
She was petit in high school and when she had me she was still relly small. When she had my brother she got ffat but I feel alot of pressure to be thin. This summer I want to go gym like everyday but I don't know how to lay off me...she really bothers me abut my weigh and I will lose it...but in time!!!!!
She makes me feel bad...she actually makes me want to eat!!
Aww, well thats really cruel that your mother would call you fat.
I'm so sorry sweety!
But if you want to lose some weight,
you need to exercise & eat healthy,
thats the best thing I can suggest you!
Because I cant tell you what exercises to do or what to eat, since everyone's body is different.
But dont listen to what she says,
I dont know why shes saying that.
Its horrible.
take care
OH I cant stand my nails, they are kind of crooked. You cant tell by looking from the top. But if you look at them as if I was pointing at you you can se the tip looks all crooked. Why are my nails like that?! And how can I fix them? Is it nutrition problems? And how can I fix them?I have searched the internet like crazy but found nothing. PLease help me.
Like the tips of your nails?
have you tried fileling them down?
aww, sorry thats the only thing I can suggest, because i'm not sure =/
Hey..
I was wondering if anyone knew songs that are like.. well i don't know how to explain it but a good example is
Avril Lavigne - Slipped Away.
hopefully that's enough for at least someone to understand.
sorry lol
i'll rate high.
I'm not sure if this is what your looking for but..
Gone So Young - Amber Pacific
(goodbye) I'm sorry - And then I turned Seven
How to save a life - The Fray
I will follow you into the dark - DeathCabForCutie
You have my attention - Copeland
could you guys please give me some free website links to where I can build a free website please and thank you.I need an easy website builder.
www.expage.com
www.tripod.com
www.freewebs.com
www.angelfire.com
today, the kid i like said he was moving. so i started crying like crazy. (he already knows i like him) but he was just kidding. now i made an idiot out of myself and his friends will tell him and they'll laugh at me. he probably did to because he knew that i would cry. what should i do?
Well thats horrible if he did it to make you cry.
Anyways, its almost summer sweetie, they will all have forgotten it by next year!
Dont worry about it!
If you need someone to talk to though
IM me @ kaylehmae
I just found out that my best friend's dad passed away today. I knew that he had some kind of cancer and she'd been visiting him in the hospital for some time now, I also know that she did NOT get along with him. I never met him because he lived in SC and her and her mom lived in NC. (they weren't divorced, it's actually kind of confusing) Anyway, I'm just not too sure what to say to her. We've been friends longer than I can remember and I know this must be tough for her. I've had some friends pass away, but the only family I've had pass away was my great grandmother and my sister- I was young when my great grandmother passed away and I wasn't even born yet when my sister passed away, so I don't know everything she's going through.
I was just wondering if anyone here lost a parent and what others said to you that was comforting.
I plan on telling here that I'm here for her no matter where I am or what time it is, and I will be there, but somehow that just doesn't seem like enough... I don't know, I'm just looking for some advice on what I can say and what would be comforting. Thanks in advance.
You just need to be there for her, theres not a lot to say, cry with her, and console her. She might not want to talk about anything, because if her relationship wasnt that great with her dad in the first place, how do you think she feels now that hes gone? Just be really gentle with her, and just sitting with her is something that can help so much. I lost a grandma and she was my best friend. It was so hard, but nothing helped what people said, because they all started saying the same thing, and it all started to mean nothing, it helped though when I just sat and cried with my mom and with my family. And when my friends were just by my side, so I think you just being there for her would help.
I think what your going to tell her is great, and it does feel like its not enough, but theres nothing you can say that will be enough. The fact that you care for her, is what she needs, she needs people around her, to help her.
But the biggest thing of all, be there for her.
you know? you do sound like a very good friend.