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i need serious help
hi im 16 and i have met a girl on msn (my friends are mates with her, so i didnt meet her in a weird way)i have liked her ever since i talked to her on msn but i met up with her yesterday and it hit me just how much i like her. but any way. i really like her...she is beautiful in my eyes and i love her personality. i need help, i ned to know how to find out if she likes me and how to go about asking her out. i really dont have ne experiance with this stuff so please help me.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You need to OBSERVE first: observe her body language(you know, us girls become a lil' bit more touchy to guys we like), the way she looks at you(if she's keeping Constant eye contact when you talk or even when you Don't talk!), observe also how interested she is to you (some girls--no make that A Lot of girls just talk about themselves(example:"I'm like this , I'm like that...etc...") but when she asks a lot of stuff about you, that only means one thing-- she's interested with you!
When you have enough clues, then it's time you confess that you like her. When you confess, you don't really have to ask if she likes you, too-- she will react and/or say something Naturally.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit!
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Most people are just telling you 'ask her'
While sure this might work, chances are she might not like you. You can't tell someone you like them until they have shown signs they do. And as for just staring up saying "HEY! I like you!"
DON'T!
A few things to look for since you two already have met.
1. Eye contact. Not just normal eye contact, I mean, if you two are talking and she keeps watching and she isn't looking away and just staring for a couple seconds, she might be into you.
2. She'll match your movements. If you're sitting at a table and she's directly across from you and you put your elbow on the table and she matches it, that's another sign.
3. If she's very touchy with you. Mostly on the thighs and arms.
Now, those are some ways you can tell she likes you.
If you want further advice, drop one in my inbox.
If you do, though. Answer these questions.
1. Did you go out with her and a group of friends?
2. How long have you two known each other?
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Well, to be blunt, the only way you'll know if she likes you is for you to ask her.
If you like her that much, she should be aproachable.
Or I guess, I dont recommend this, but you can ask one of your friends if she likes you, but usually someone else (your friends) has a crush too, so its best ifyou just ask her yourself,
and see what happens.
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