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Please help...seriously
This summer my aunt asked me to come by her for a few weeks in my vacation. I really want to go cause 1. they have a new house and 2. I haven't been on a vacation in 3 years.
However my mum told me she's coming back with me on the return trip. This i don't mind but she told my mum she's going to share the jewelry, etc when she comes. My grandma had a stroke and she's alive still. My uncle and aunt had a huge arguement a few months back and I really don't want them to quarel because anything to do with my grandma's my uncle will be angry for.
Did i mention I have to keys for the jewelry...so that's what I'm scared of also...I really don't know if I should go or not? If you were in my position wuld u go for the hollidays and hw wuld u convince my aunt not to do anything to my grandma's things?
Beggin for help!!!!
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If you can trust your aunt, and you are good at making goals and keeping them.
Go for it,
I mean your aunt knows it isnt right to put you in a position , to make you give her the keys to
the jewelery or anything, and if your grandma isnt dead, thats horrible to already be taking her stuff.
I woudl try explaining how you feel to your mother and aunt.
Let them know how your feeling, and whats going on..
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I am a little puzzled with the information because I can't understand too well what you are saying. Do you have keys to her jewellery box? If you do she has entrusted you look after her things. Does anyone else have a key? Is it possible to ask your Grandma what she wants to happen with her things? Has she written a will? How many of your family are expecting to inherit things? Talk to your Mum about how wills are set out and how best to act in your Grandmas best interests before you decide whether to go to your Aunts. You haven't said how old you are so I am guessing you are still quite young, and this is quite a responsibility. I think you need to get some answers first before any decision is made. I wish you the very best of luck.
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