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Heyy my names Jessica, but most people call me Jess. Im 17 and its my senior year! I love to have fun. I'm always laughing, mainly at myself. When i first meet people i tend to be shy and i hate it, but once you know me you realize how outgoing and crazy i am. I don't swear cause i don't find a reason to. I hate crying, so i never do. I love watching movies. I listen to music everyday. My iPod is always with me. My friends and family mean everything to me.

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I invited my friend to go to Santa Barbara with me but her parents won't let her go until they see her report card.The problem is the report cards don't get mailed until after the trip! HOw can i get my friend to go on the trip now?

Have her parents e-mail or call all the tachers. Or if school is out yet then tell her to ask all the teachers to write down her grade for her.

Jess

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my friend is mad at me because of a misunderstanding. i have tried everything, but no matter what i do she refuses to be my friend. I have told her i was sorry more times than i can count. i was literally in tears before because her friendship means a lot to me. i even told her this. she has blocked me on aim and wont answer her phone because my name shows on the caller id... and she wont talk to me at school. there is no way i can get through to her that it was a misunderstanding. i feel awful and i don't know what to do....please help.

Wait it out a little. If you keep trying to apoligize so soon she will get more stressed out about it. Wait a little while for her to calm down a little and then maybe write her a note and leave her a message about how sorry you are and that you feel awful.

Jess

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OK, what does it mean when a grown man has naked barbie dolls in his apt. with their hands & feet tied & tape over their mouths?

That doesnt sound to good. I would stay away from him. It could be a sign of a rapist...

Jess

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In PE, we're swimming. I was wearing a two piece bathing suit for the first time, and it was a bit embarassing. All the girls were staring at me and moving their eyes up and down my body. And I'm not just imagining it, either. What is this? Is this a bad thing?

Thats pretty normal. Thay are just comparing themselfs to you. Thay might be jealous. If your really that concerned about them always looking at you then just buy a new bathing suit.

Jess

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does limewire give your computer and viruses or other problems??

It can if you dont use it right. Or if you have a a good spywear/virus protector then you'll be fine.

Jess

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what is a good amount of money per hour

if i dont really know the kids except that that they are a sister of a family friend

and that the daughter is 2 and the son is 7

Well because there are two kids and one is pretty young i would say around 9-10$ an hour.

Jess

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my puppy is adorable but he can get very aggressive and bites a lot. Is there a way to make him stop?

It might just be because he is a puppy and thats what they do sometimes. He is still young so he needs to learn. he will probably grow out of it but if he doesnt then you should train him.

Jess

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I need to use a Floppy Disk for a project, and have come across a simple yet perplexing problem; which was and which side up do you put the floppy in? Do you keep the part with the circular part up? Do you stick it in the direction that the metal part is on?


Help would be appreciated!

The metal part goes in first. And the circle is on the bottom. You dont have to worry too much cause i dont think it goes in if you do it the wrong way.

Jess

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ok so im a freshman in high school (15 yrs old) and like every weeekend someone in our grade has a party at their house.. and of course there's drinking. a lottt of people go.. and it's always the thing that everyone is talking about the week after that in school.. i havent gone to any yet.. but i really want to. what are some tips to like "fake drink" or only drink a little?

If you dont want to drink alot then dont. You dont have to drink just to be cool. And if you dont wanna drink then just dont go to the party at all.

Jess

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Finals are this week. Whats a good way to study. Or at least for bio..Last time I studied six hours and I got a 76..um..there is obviously something wrong. Can anybody help?

Dont try to do it all at once. You'll over study. My teacher told me that the best way to study was to copy down all your notes over and over. Like copy them then read them outloud to youself then copy them over again and read then outloud again. It works really good.

Jess

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hi okaii im 14 and i have had it for about a year and ahlaf or sumtin like that... and like i got it the last on may 15 and it ended the 21st... now its june 1st and i have it again??? its been 10 days is this normal??

Yea when you first start it will always come at weird times. Its okay it will get more on schedual as you get older.

Jess

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okay.
im 13.
i just got my frist period this morning.
i dont wanna tell my mom! should i keep it low for a while? or no..?
i took some of my sis's pads.

Yeaa just tell. Dont be like embaressed or anything just be like mom, i got my period. She will probably just be like okay and wanna have alittle talk or somthing. No biggie.

Jess

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Does anyone know how to get your myspace off private?

Make your age 16 or over.

Jess

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Is Brendon Urie bisexual? He's the Panic! At The Disco lead singer.

No im pretty cure he isnt.

Jess

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A lot of people seam to think its gross if you don't shave "down there", I mean should I????? does everyone? lol and is it a turn off if you dont?
Thanks!

It really doesnt matter. Do whatever you are comfortable with. If you dont shave all the way then i would suggest atleast trimming it.

xoxJess

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ive been going out with this boy for about 3 years now..im kinda getting bored and annoyed with him and i think i like someone else...im not sure how to tell my boyfriend that i dont want to be together without hurting him to much. i still care about him its just i just want to be friends and im not sure how to put it..could you tell me what to say without hurting him too badly??thanks

Well three years is pretty long so it will hurt to some degree no matter what. Just sit him down one day and be like well i really like you and i still wanna be friends but i dont think we should go out. Breakups are always hard but you just have to deal and get through it.

xoxJess

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my bestfriend & i sort of slowly drifted apaprt...we just haven't talked, except maybe briefly, in the past 2 or 3 months. we didn't fight, we just sort of stopped talking? should i confront her? i don't really want to be best friends with her anymore, but it seems like i tried to make more of an effort to keep the friendship then she did. should i confront her? if so what should i say? i just want to know WHAT happened, so it is not such a mystery anymore.

I had the same situation. That just happens with friends sometimes. you just drift apart. Y ou could try to kepp friends with her, but when i tryed it was really hard and when we hung out it was just kinda awkard. You loose friends and you make new ones. that just the way life its. Still be nice and talk once and a while and stuff. But becomeing best friends again would be hard.

xoxJess

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Well i go to log into my myspace and it tells me "Sorry!an unexpected error has occured. This error has been forwarded to Myspace's technical group" what is? why cant i log on? and it's been like that for a while now, what do i do?

Well myspace is a big website and there are millions of people using it at the same time. Sometimes it "down" as in not working. Just keep checking back and it should work. Dont worry its not your computer its the website.

xoxJess

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14/f
i've never really been like, close with my mom. like we're not really friends. but umm i just got my period and ummmmm i know i have to like tell her sometime! but i don't know how because it would be soo embaressing. should i just tell her or like...? idk!

I can understand how you feel but every girl gets a period so there is really nothing to be embaressed about. Just go up to her and be like mom i got my period.

-Jess

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Okay so i've got a BIGGG habit of biting my nails! what can i do to stop? and don't tell me to put my hand in dog poo or anything like that because thats gross lol!

thankyou sweeties xo

Yeaa i had the same probalem but now i stopped. I use to try to make mysefl stop by puttin fingernail polish remover on thenm cause it lasted long and tasted so bad. Also everythime i put my hand in my mouth to bite them all i would think of is all the things i could have touched and all the germs so it grossed me out so i didnt really do it tat much. Or you could go get your nails done like acrilic(spelling?) ones, cause they cover your nail so you cant bit e. That is what i do and it works good.

-Jess

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