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I have the worst habit of falling for guys really easy just as long as they're cute and nice. I have the tendancy to not only fall for them but to also obsess over them (read their online journals, get involved with their social life, etc) even when they've never met me before. Also, if I find out that a guy likes me, then I usually fall for him too. It's really annoying. How do I get over this stupid obsession of boys? (link)
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wow..well,take it easy there...u can never tell ur heart wut 2 do...but hmmm just try ur hardest to not get so obssesed wit them...expecially with the ones that dont even know you...n if u fall for a guy that likes u n w/e get a time to get to know him more n who knows may b u'll switch ur mind...so i dont relly know this is tough cuz u cant relly tell ur heart wut to do!! good luck xoxo effy
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Ok, I think i have an eating problem but i`m not sure. I have a tremendouse fear of gaining weight and i honestly can`t help it. I`m starting modeling soon and so I feel like I HAVE to look thin. I`m not eating period and my friend`s are starting to notice so when they make me eat I throw it up. My boyfriend says he`ll quit doing drug`s if i start eating again wich mean`s the world to me but everytime i start eating again I start crying in fear of gaining weight and throw it up then feel terrible. I don`t think i have an "eating disorder" but it`s kind of hard to tell when all of your friend`s are "concerened" that your loosing weight and your starting to look "sick". They say i`m starting to look to skinny, I have bag`s under my eye`s, and i`m getting pale. I can`t eat properly it`s just to hard. I`ve been extreamly depressed latley. Do I have an eating disorer? Someone help me please !!
Signed
A cry for help (link)
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wow...dis is a tough one...i'm sorry to tell u this but it looks like u've eating disoreder...n u should check wit doctors b4 its 2 late..u need to start eating n if u wanna keep ur self in shape exercise...ur friends are concerened b/c they care...so listen to them :) okay good luck xoxo effy
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What would you do you do if you were in love with a guy and he didn't like you back? (link)
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i would try to move on...n try to keep my mind bussy with other things so i wouldnt think of him...i would hang out wit friends...play sports...do something else that i like so i wouldnt think of him ;) xoxo effy
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Hey eftiola wus up girl im 18 and i never kissd a girl before and i never had sex i think pussy will bite my dick or suttin i feel like pussy got teeth and im scare to have sex and by the way how do u turn a girl on (link)
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well, take it easy wit the imagination there...i mean ur time will come n u'll kiss a gurl...dont worry bout how cuz it will come automatically...bout the sex part...chillax man...n if ur scared from pu*sys may be ur gay n u should try di*ks!! to turn a gurl on is to give a pationate kiss..(which comes wit da moment) n i dunno all gurls are diff...but most of them usually get turned on by kissin on the neck...by carrasing their body etc...good luck xoxo effy
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im really depressed and i dont know what to do with myself both of my best friends whom i hang out with all the time both have boyfriends, but me being the ugliest friend does not. i feel really left out the thing is no guy will notice me because im not pretty and im not fat but im not skinny im 5"8 and i weigh about 175lbs ive stopped eating basically, trying to lose weight. i just want to be happy again how do i get some confidence???? i have none at all... please help i feel like the ugly duckling of the group (link)
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gurl u aint ugly wut u talkin bout...i understand how u feel and everything but not eating at all wont solve the problem...if u wanna lose weight u have to exercise n eat healthy food...just stop eating junk food...and bout the b/f thingy dont worry the right guy will come just give it some time n try to make new friends n hang out as much as u can so u can meet new guys n then...who knows ;) so good luck xoxo effy ;)
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ok ive never been kissed before and all my friends have been kissed and i was at a party a while ago and we were play truth or dare but only truth cuz there wasnt any guyz or w/e but then like it came to me and they asked who my first kiss was w/ and i said ive never been kissed and they all laughed and i felt sooo stupid i just wanted to leave cuz i was so embarassed and i know im not pritty n stuff so i know i wont get my first kiss for a while but im just sooooo scared tho to i dont know its just like i was up north and this one guy ((ive known him for a while)) and we havent seen eachother for a while and we talked to catch up on stuff and he said he liked me again and then he started asking me about kissing and stuff and i kinda turned him down but now i totally regret that cuz i rilly like him to and its just every time some guy wants to kiss me im afraid i dont know why i am its just i feel stupid when ive never kissed a guy.. how can i not be afraid and just kiss the right guy? help pleeeeez!! thanx! (link)
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well, i know how u feel b/c i've been there...my first kiss was at the age 15 n i always turned guys down (1 b/c i wasnt allowed to have a b/f n 2 b/c i was scared not knowin how to kiss) but at the age 15 i liked this guys so i went out wit him n had my frist kiss...i was scared n nervous but i did it...its not a big of a deal b/c u dont have to know how to kiss...it just comes up automatically ;) so relax...n dont worry to much bout it ;)...STOP TURNING GUYS DOWN :) give a guy a chance...(of course if u like him back) good luck ;) xoxo effy
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Hey I'm Bryant! There is this girl I like and I think she likes me what do i do ? (link)
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wut u waiting for ask her if she wants to do something next weekend ;) or if she wants to chill wit u during this summer...get to kno her more n then if u both feeling eachother then ask her out ;)
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How do you get ur hair to look wavey and a little curly with gel or other products...when I try it with gel it just makes spiral curls and I don't like it!! =/ (link)
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after da shower...put musse in it...n wit defuser dry them up ;) it works wit me xoxo effy
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im tryin to make a long story short it mite be hard to make out, and if it is, go to my column...im southern_chickety, and ask me!!
i've wanted to be an actress for the past 2 years
i love acting, and i take theatre classes, my mom wont support me in it tho, because the said it's a hard career, and it wont be easy to find a job, and it wont be cheap, and we dont have the money to spend, i mean my parents are raising 3 kids, and they have one in college
i wanna go to acting skool and stuff, but now every1 is sayin if i go to acting skool ill just become a broadway actress, and i dont wanna do broadway, i wanna do movies
i'm really confused, should i follow my dreams,and try to be an actress or listen to the family¿¿??
im 14/f/nc (link)
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fallow ur dreams ;) better regreat something u did then something u didnt do...;) good luck xoxo effy
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i really want to be a basketball player like soooooo bad and i dont know hoe i can become one i meen im only 12 so its not a big rush now but any ideas would be great!
~*~AlEx~*~ (link)
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practice...n get some of ur friends that lov to play it 2 n practice together...also exercise lots so u would b in a very good shape ;) u might wanna get p.e. classes n work lots in school wit ur coach ;) participate on the teams the school has ;) good luck ;) xoxo effy
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My boyfriend is the greatest person i know.... buti like to kiss ppl and everytime we kiss he really really sucks... i love him a lot but i wanna know how to tell him or what should i do?!
luv alwayz
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well practice wit him more often...n may b if he dont get use to ur kiss may b u should b like "baby relax, watch n learn" hahah then show him wut u got ;) xoxo good luck effy
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why do girls wear bra and thongs all they seem to do in my appen is make girls and their moms spend money (link)
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well,y do u wear boxer's or w/e u wear? so da answer of ur question is b/c we need them!!
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Hey,my situation is prolly a pretty common one,but i'll go into it anyway. I'm an 18 year old guy,who knows this really nice girl for over a year. The reason i never made my move on her was that she was always going out with one of my friends and still is. I am under the impression that i'm her friend and nothing more,b/c she tells me things prolly only her bf should know and i feel bad about this. I dont wanna wreck anybody's relationships,but it seems like she's more comfortable around me then him. What should i do? (link)
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well, congrats i think its very nice of u not to go after the gurl since she is going wit one of ur friends that shows that ur a real friend...and about her being opened up wit u more then her b/f may b i dunno may b u 2 guys have a special connection like "chemistry"...i dunno since she is ur friends g/f n everything i think u should try to stay a lil away from her..good luck ;) xoxo effy
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my boyfriend is moving to new jersey at the end of the month and i really like him but i dont know if i should break up with him..i live in new york..help!! (link)
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well i understand u really like him and everything but sometimes u have to leg go of things...usually long distance relationships dont work...if u want u can give it a try...u never know :) xox effy
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so i have had bfs before and went to movies with guys or w.e but i never really tt my mom about it its just not me. i am 14 btw. so the other day i went to the movies with my bf and came home and then i wanted to go again 3 days later and my mom said no becuz i went before and she doesnt want me going alone with a boy becuz i am too yound and it is so annoying. i need to see my bf or we could break up or something. its just all screwed up. plz help me
thank u if u can
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ok..talk to ur mom tell her how u feel n tell her wussup tell her that ur not young enough if she still the same (like mine) then listen if ur b/f likes u enough or cares bout u enough then he wont mind that u didnt go out one night b/c ur mom didnt allowe u 2...trust me i'm 17...my parents are stricked n i'm not allowed to go out...my b/f (which i lov very much) respects that n we're closer then ever...so dont worry...xoxo effy
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if you stop eating what happens do you gain weight are lose it i need to know this stuff!?!?!?! (link)
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if u stop eating u get sick n u might die...so dont do something like dat...if u wanna lose weight or anything like that ...then just eat helthy food dont eat junk food...also exercise dats da key!! xoxo effy
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my boyfriends b day is coming up hes 15 what should i get him? he has the 'punk' look, umm likes quads and stuff i just dunno what to get him... (link)
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a parfume or something...or u can make him a surprise party ;) xoxo effy
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ik this is dumb but i am really paranoid about my bf. we dont see eachother a ton becuz it is summer and we are both busy. i saw him 4 days ago but today like we didnt talk at all i have relatives over and etc. i really like him and i want to go out with him but if we dont see eachother i get all worried he will dump me or not like me or whatever. it sucks. then he has this pretty friend and blah blah blah i am just overreacting i hate it.
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just relax n try to make a lil more time for ur b/f...i understand ur bussy but make a lil bit more time for him...if he likes u n w/e dont worry bout it cuz prolly he'll wait for u no metter wut...n bout his friend i understand she is pretty and eveyrthing but may be in his eyes she is just a smiple friend...so relax ;) if u guys are ment 2 be u gonna b so :-D good luck xoxo effy
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have any of ya guyz heard the remix to SlowMotion by Juvenille?!?! ((if so isn't sooooo kool))
thanx!! (link)
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yah it is... it is ! ;)
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Hey everyone,
I really love this guy. The thing is, he has a girlfriend. Whenever i think about him, i smile uncontrollably. Just talking to him makes me melt. He's so sensitive. One summer, we talked all night about little things that we like, and really deep things. He's the type that's into deep thoughts, Jimi Hendrix, Bob Marley, Led Zeppelin, and even poetry. I myself love writing meaningful thoughts and especially poems. He's not in a serious relationship with the girl, and I dont even think theyre right for each other. Im the only one that sees his sensitive side. I love him for who he is, not who people want him to be. Hes not like other guys, and i dont know what i can do to get him to like me the way i like him. if anyone has any good advice, please share it with me. i am madly in love with this guy and will go to shocking lenghths to make im mine, and me his. (link)
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hang out wit him like u are talk to him the way u are...from wut i see n from wut u guys talk bout i think that may b he has special feelings for u 2...just wait and see....may be he's going to break up with his g/f n u might have a chance ;) who knows...never know :) so wait and see xoxo effy
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