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Hey,my situation is prolly a pretty common one,but i'll go into it anyway. I'm an 18 year old guy,who knows this really nice girl for over a year. The reason i never made my move on her was that she was always going out with one of my friends and still is. I am under the impression that i'm her friend and nothing more,b/c she tells me things prolly only her bf should know and i feel bad about this. I dont wanna wreck anybody's relationships,but it seems like she's more comfortable around me then him. What should i do?
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Simple.. comfront her about it and ask what she thinks about it-trix
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well if she is dating your friend id just stand back. Im sure her relationship wont last forever. Besides if she is more comfortable with you than him then she probably sees youi as more as a friend. But dont get your hopes down. Look for signs and for troubles in her relationship. then wen you see the time is right, talk to her about it. Just remember, friendship is more important than relationships.
Good Luck and take your time,
*Melody
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ask her how she really feels about you....and see if she is really into her boyfriend before you make your move because if you mess things up she might not wanna talk to u after telling you things she can trust you with
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Well i was in the same situation pretty much. I've known this girl for over 10 years (were 16 now) since elementry school. Weve always been friends and she usually was in a relationship with somebody, she just recently broke up with her bf of 1 1/2 years. this year we've gotten really close. We talked about everything imaginable, even our other relationships and such. We went out with a group of friends one night and we just realy clicked. that night ova the phone i told her how i felt, and it turns out she felt the same way the whole time! i really had no clue how she felt, and she never knew how i felt either. So you just have to take your chances and tell her how you feel. If she doesnt feel the same way, just continue to be friends.
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Tell her how you really feel. If she doesnt want to date you then shes not the right girl. Good luck!
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ASK HER OUT if she says NO then she is not the right girl for you.
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It is messed up to break up a relationship. but maybe this girl is closer to you with talking about personal stuff because she feels a tighter bond with you than anyone. Maybe this is because you are great friend or maybe because secretly she feels for you as well. This I don't know. You have to step up and ask her what is going on, what terms are the 2 of you and how does she see you. if she does like you then go for her. you shouldn't let anyone stand in the way of true love. But if she doesn't then still keep this girl as a great friend, you shouldn't just ditch her because she must be in your life for a good reason even if the reason is not to be with you. I hope I helped and Good Luck! :)
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WEll, wait until something happens between them, you don't want to lose a friend, after a while, go for it! If she tells u porant stuffz, it means she trusts you enough to! Also, though, she might not be a worthy girlfriend if she keeps things from her boyfriend, think about that! She could be dishonost, and you just don't know it since you've never dated her, be careful! <<33333Alyssa
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hey, wow this is a toughy...girls happen to be like that sometime; does she know that you've had something for her..maybe enough to make a move on her, if she wasn't dating your friend? i'm guessing she doesnt, which is probably why she feels so comfortable around you- maybe she sees you as a very trustworthy person ...even more than her boyfriend, which can definitely happen...maybe she looks to you more for advice or maybe she even just feels like she can be completely herself around you and tell you very personal things and you won't judge her...i don't know exactly what's going on there...i think that there really is nothing you can do since you already said that getting in between the relationship isn't within your best interest...so i would suggest staying good friends, seeing where things go and if things clear up- but if nothing seems to make sense, the only logical thing other than this would be to approach her...ask her what's on her mind and how she feels about you and your friendship..those would be the best answers you could ever get- since they are coming directly from her... hope i helped [rate me please?] good luck! =]
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I think she feels more comfortable havin u to talk to.U should jus let her talk to u bout things.Much <33
*BrittBritt
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Well what I think that you should do in my own words that you should talk to her and tell her how you feel about her instead of holding it back because you never know she might like you back.But evening though she is with one of your friends I think she should know how you feel.If she tells you stuff that her boyfriend doesnt know and she is comfortable with you then tell her how you feel and your not trying to ruin your relionship with her and her bf.And you will never know how she feels about you intill you tell her how you feel for her.Just make sure your calm with her and make sure you feel like its the right time because dont hold it back intill the last minute when she leaves because I did that before but with a guy.So tell her how you feel before its too late.Make sure your calm and you feel like its the right moment.Goodluck!
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well, congrats i think its very nice of u not to go after the gurl since she is going wit one of ur friends that shows that ur a real friend...and about her being opened up wit u more then her b/f may b i dunno may b u 2 guys have a special connection like "chemistry"...i dunno since she is ur friends g/f n everything i think u should try to stay a lil away from her..good luck ;) xoxo effy
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