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im really depressed and i dont know what to do with myself both of my best friends whom i hang out with all the time both have boyfriends, but me being the ugliest friend does not. i feel really left out the thing is no guy will notice me because im not pretty and im not fat but im not skinny im 5"8 and i weigh about 175lbs ive stopped eating basically, trying to lose weight. i just want to be happy again how do i get some confidence???? i have none at all... please help i feel like the ugly duckling of the group
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*hey sweetie*
first of all you should not have that low confidence in yourself, i went thew a stage like that and i understand its hard to take, even though u mite feel a certain way about urself u should not put yourself down like that, everyone is pretty in there own way no matter what, im shure you a beautifull girl, dont listen to what all those other people mite say about you, if you go aruond and start having confidence in urself, n not putting your head to the grounhd people will c u and reconize you,they will c tht you are a fun n sweet grl, it is hard to go threw this stage n ur life, but dont put urself down like that,so jus keep your head up and know deep down inside yourself that you are beautifull, and know that even though your friends have boyfriends that one day u will have one too, and he will luv u for who u are, not all what u look like, if u have faith n urself then u will succedd,
*i have faith n u so go for it n do ur thing*
hope this helped a lil bit n if u eva need any advice post a question in my advce colums, xoqtxo
*best of luck*
xoxo
*bethany*
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well first remember, the ugly duckling turned out to be the beautiful swan. am i right?? well i actually am in your position. Both of my best friends have boyfriends to. DOnt worry. Boyfriends arent important. Friends are. And i dont care how pretty or ugly you are, its whats on the inside and how you act. You will eventually find the guy that is right for you!
GoD Bless you! and GOod Luck,
*melody
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well...DON'T STARVE YOUR SELF!!!!! if you wanna lose weight i can sugest a really good diet it's called the Weight Watchers Diet look it up on the internet....i lost 40lbs. in six months...GOOD LUCK...
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well...DON'T STARVE YOUR SELF!!!!! if you wanna lose weight i can sugest a really good diet it's called the Weight Watchers Diet look it up on the internet....i lost 40lbs. in six months...GOOD LUCK...BYE!!!
IF YOU HAVE ANY MORE QUESTIONS JUST E-MAIL ME AT nanasim4@aol.com
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gurl u aint ugly wut u talkin bout...i understand how u feel and everything but not eating at all wont solve the problem...if u wanna lose weight u have to exercise n eat healthy food...just stop eating junk food...and bout the b/f thingy dont worry the right guy will come just give it some time n try to make new friends n hang out as much as u can so u can meet new guys n then...who knows ;) so good luck xoxo effy ;)
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first of all yuo will never feel good about yourself if you go around saying you are ugly. No one will like you if you don't even like yourself.
What you need to do is do some nice things for yourself to boost your confidence. Try giving yourself a facial, giving yourself a manicure and a pedicure, doing your eyebrows, shaving your legs, do alot of stuff that will make you feel better and look better. I know whenever I am looking all proper I feel alot more confident. Also, find a nice outfit or sundress, and tell your 2 friends to go out with you somewhere like the mall or beach or something, where you can go scoop yourself up a man. But remember, feel good about yourself, and smile. No one wants a girl with no confidence, Good Luck! :)
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Wow, if you are feeling really depressed you should write all your oppion`s and thoughts down in a journal. And trust me not eating is not a good way to loose weight. Yes it help`s but once you`ve stopped eating it gets harder and harder to start eating and you begin to grow an eating disorder. Trust me i unfourtunatly know all about that kinda stuff. Just start eating fruit and eating healthy. And about your two best friend`s, having a boyfriend isn`t having it all. If you think your ugly you shouldn`t depend on a guy to make you feel diffrently. Don`t search for love, love will come to you. And start telling your two best friends how you feel because they may not know if your hiding these feelings from them. Good luck.
xO.Carrie
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Ok well,the first step in solving a problem is admitting to it,which you have. I was overweight once and then i began running. First a quarter mile for a few days,then a half and i built all the way up to 5. Don't stop eating,slows metabolism,but eat healthier. High proten,low carb foods are the key here. In addition drink a lot of water.But you have to want it. There will be days when you don't feel like it,but you have to. The day will come when you are no longer fat and you'll no longer be the ugly duckling. Remember as long as you want it,you'll like when people tell you can't do it. Good luck.
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well i know exactly how you feel....i felt really bad about myself...always wore baggy clothes and always cared about my looks...but now i stopped whatever i was doing and started doing something about it...i started to run and eat less food then i usually do...you just have to be able to believe in yourself and know you can do it!!! thats all i am doing...i hope this helps out!
-tarah-
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Hey hun, well, as your parents and the rest of the world have probably told you, everyone is different, and it's true! Just because your not a twig in a string bikini doesnt mean your not pretty! Look inside yourself, what do you see? Your hobbies, personality, beautiful. <3 Alyssa
P.S. only guys with no personality judge a girl by their looks!
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