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I don't have any Aloe, and I'm badly sunburnt. Anything else I can use?

I'm badly burnt sunburn too. Showers are really painful & annoying.

http://www.health911.com/remedies/rem_sunb.htm

There are a few remedies. I'm not sure what ones work the best & what ones don't. I've been using Noxema & just staying in the air conditioner & avoiding heat.

-hope that helped!♥

i sweat a lot on a daily basis, and i've tried every deodorant out there and Certain Dri , as well as Secret Clinical strength .... nothing seems to work! What produces this sweat.. i sweat by just sitting doing nothing at all..

http://beauty.ivillage.com/shop/prodreviews/0,,9v09,00.html

Those are some of the best ones that were voted on. Everyone's different. Try out different ones & see how they work out. If you think it's a bigger issue than the deodorant, you can go to the doctor for some ideas.

-hope that helped!♥

i want to be really skinny, and nothing will work! so i decided to be anorexic, how do i become anorexic? like, how do i start, i know that ussually it an illness but it just seems easey! please help! :D

Okay, please do not go through with your question. First of all, most people don't decide to be Anorexic. It is a serious disorder & not something people just say to themselves one day because they aren't skinny. You cannot just start being Anorexic either. I have an eating disorder myself, so seeing someone wanting this is a bit disappointing.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anorexia_nervosa

Please read that article & read all of it. Get to know what Anorexia is because it is not something you would want & it isn't something you just pick up & go with. It is a serious condition that has to do with someone's mental state. It's mental & physical. This question is almost insulting. It isn't something easy & many people die from these types of illnesses every year all over the world. You need to become more educated on the disorder.

At advicenators, we do not answer questions about teaching/helping someone about a topic that they should not do in the first place. Therefore, we cannot give you a direct answer.

-hope that helped!♥

i wanted to know if a guy cums and gets his cum on his finger and then fingers u can u get pregnant? and is it true when cum hits the air its dead? --- thankss

Yes, there is always a chance that you can get pregnant if you're near sperm. Although, it is very rare for that to happen since you didn't directly have sex. Sperm does not just jump into you or anything, but there is always a possibility. Sperm does not die when it hits the air. It can live up to a few hours if the conditions are right, but if it dries up then no.

-hope that helped!♥

Last Friday I was having dinner, and I bit down on my tongue really hard. It hurt really badly at first, and I thought it would just go away like every other time i've accidentally bit my tongue. I woke up the next day, and the tip of my tongue was red, sore, and there was a little piece that had eroded, i guess, from the rest of my tongue. It's like my tongue has this awkward bump on the tip, and it really hurts. It's been a few days now, and it's still there, it still hurts, and when i eat something sweet it stings.

I'm not sure if you can bruise your tongue, but if i haven't, what could I have done? It really hurts and I want it to go away. Would putting that numbing medicine for kankersores on it be a bad idea?

You just bit your tongue. I don't think that causes bruising though. It is going to be sore for a couple of days or up to a week. There isn't much you could've done. You just bit it & it was a lot harder than probably what you did before. I wouldn't worry about it too much though. Yes, it's going to be sore & somewhat painful. It will be more of an annoyance than anything else though. If it lasts longer than a week, you may want to schedule a doctor's appointment. That's only if the pain keeps up though.

-hope that helped!♥

when you're on your period does exercising make the flow stop a lot?

Exercise does slow down the flow for a bit. It also relieves cramps.

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i have a verizon cell phone, pretty simple. i'm not sure what model it is exactly, but it's an lg. i want to get the pictures onto my computer, but it didn't come with a cord. how can i get them onto my computer without having to download/sign up for anything? also, would it cost money? thankss

Nope, there's an easier & free way.

www.vzwpix.com

Sign up for a free account. Then go to any picture, press Options, Send to pix place, & they'll show up in your gallery.

There's a FAQ section on the pix place website too.

-hope that helped!♥

14/f

I really want to get side swept bangs, but I don't know if i'll like it on me!

I think they are really cute and I want to take a risk... but i'm just really scared that it'll turn out bad and that i'll regret it. HELP!!! I keep chickening out!

Ask your hairdresser when you go. Explain how you think they're really cute & you'd like to try them, but you're afraid they won't look as good with your hair. They'll most likely give their honest opinion. It's their job. Side bangs usually look good on anyone though. You could always try it & pin them back if you don't like them. You could also get your friends opinions.

-hope that helped!♥

how long can you leave a tampon in for?

It's usually 4-8 hours. I'd say around 6 hours would be good. Also, you can look on the box.

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Does sex really bring 2 people closer???

Depends. Everyone's different. Some people say they feel closer after they've had sex with someone, some do it just for fun & don't feel any different. Everyone's personalities are quite different. That statement is really too general & it would be different with every relationship.

-hope that helped!♥

ok im one of those people who like to leave their away messages up while they're doing things and after awhile my laptop will just sign me off. theres no alarm or anything it just like automaticcally goes on standby and all my messages get earased. how can i fix this? (i have a compaq laptop by the way)

I really dislike that. Mine does that too. I would suggest right clicking on your main desktop & clicking Properties. Next go to the Screen Saver tab & then 'Wait ___ Minutes'. Change the number to whatever you want. For example, if you're usually not gone for longer than 30 minutes, put 30 minutes in. If your computer screen goes to the Welcome screen, there's a box next to it to uncheck so it doesn't do that. If it keeps up, here's a site-

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070613164422AA6XcKn

It could be because your idle. Try a few of those things too.

-hope that helped!♥

16/F

I've been trying to look for beginner Dance classes in Toronto/Richmond Hill/Markham, specifically hip-hop. If anyone could help me out by listing some, that would help out alot

thanksss

http://www.helpwevegotkids.com/gui/cat.asp?category=Dance+Lessons

There's lists of all kinds of different dance places. If you scroll down, there's one called Gotta Dance in Toronto. It has hip-hop. I would look through those & call around.

Try checking the phone book too.

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Female

Ok well i was a virgin till yesterday. We didn't finish or go for that long and yes protection was used. I highly doubt I'm pregnant or anything but yes im nervous. Today I got a random clear discharge like a lot and it was like uncontrollable. I dont know if this means anything but of course im nervous

please help and give me tips on how i know im safe and ok

thanks in advance

That's usually normal. It may not have anything to do with the fact that you had sex & it could just be a coincidence. No one can predict if you're pregnant or if the discharge is good/bad because everyone is different. Just keep an eye on it & if you're getting a lot of discharge all the time, you may want to set up an important with the gyno. Not because it's abnormal or unhealthy, just to be careful & make sure everythings okay. It's good to have check-ups just incase. I wouldn't worry too much about it. If anymore weird symptoms come up, schedule an appointment.

-hope that helped!♥

what's the normal age to lose your virginity?

Normal age? There is none. There all different & range from 13-25, except there has been cases older & younger. You lose your virginity when you're ready.

-hope that helped!♥

Hi I was wondering if you could help me spice up my page. I recently got a paid account & I want my column to look pretty like yours. could you get back to me when you have some time? thanks a lot!

Umm I'm not too sure how to explain it. It's a bit complicated & you need to be naturally good at HTML. The codes are a bit different. I would suggest going to Column Settings & making your own style. There's an area that says 'style name' & you make one up & create it. Then it will redirect you to a page with different codes & what not. Basically you use their codes & some of your own to put it together. If you have specific questions, leave one in my inbox. I can't explain it step by step on here. They give you basic codes you should use & you can get different color codes. Here's a website-

http://www.coloryourprofyle.com/colort.htm

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i am

13/f

5"1

and 104 pounds am i over weight?

Nope. You're average. If you want to figure out your BMI [or body mass index], google it.

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Whenever I go out in public.. I kiss my boyfriend, like a few pecks and hug him. People always tell us to get a room..
but it's only a kiss!

Why are they saying that? It's making us look bad around everyone else. It's not like we are having sex right in front of them or anything sexual like that.

Has this happened to anyone else?

Yes! I kissed my bf at the homecoming dance during a slow song. We weren't making out hardcore or any of that. It was a basic kiss & a few girls spread it around the school that I was skanky. People were coming up to me saying "what did you do at the dance that everyone's calling you a slut?" & I told them that I kissed my bf of almost 4 years & they were stunned. Isn't that the stupidest thing ever?? Ignore it. People are immature or just jealous.

-hope that helped!♥

me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. i don`t trust him and i want to so bad. i want our relationship to work out. i know he wont cheat on me but i don`t trust him with other girls. i get so mad when he just talks to one. he`s done some stpid stuff but after we were broken up though. well actually he never did anything with anyone he said things like i wanna fuck you. but never did anything with them or while we were together. but he isn`t going to do that anymore and he hasn`t. the last time we broke he didn`t want to get back together unless i let him talk to who ever he wanted. he said he wants to be able to talk to who ever he wants to and for me not get mad because he isn`t gonna do anything. and i want to be ok with it but im not. and even after he told he isn`t gonna do anything i still don`t trust him. but how can i? anyone know how i can start trusting him?

Trust is a major part of any relationship. Since he did say those things in the past, yes it would be difficult trusting him. You should give him a chance though. People change & he might seriously care about you & not want to hurt you. Just because he said those things to girls in the past, does not mean he would if you guys were dating. & you said he didn't so far right?? Everyone deserves a second chance. If he ever seems distant or shady, then it would be a good idea to talk to him. Just explain to him that you really do want to make an effort to trust him, but that he has to put effort in staying loyal also & you won't get mad when he talks to other girls. If he can prove it to you, then you should be fine. Maybe you do trust him, but it's the girls you don't trust?? I totally trust my bf, but i definitely don't trust random girls. Especially when I don't know them. Talk it out with him. If you want your relationship to last, it has to be 50%-50% & you both have to help one another.

-hope that helped!♥

Why would a guy flirt with you outragiously, show an interest in you, go out of his way just to talk to you if he's in another relationship?
This guy from work had been showing an interest in me since before Xmas. I always caught him staring at me, he'd smile when I entered the room, he'd rub my shoulder, joke around with me, and even my supervisor thought he liked me because he'd smile if she said I was working that night. Well anyways I thought he was single so I started flirting back. He got all freaked out for a while, and never asked me out. Well I found out he IS seeing someone. I think it's pretty serious too because I heard they are going on a holiday. My question is WHY on earth would he be flirting with me and showing such a huge interest if he ia in another relationship? The only thing I could think of is that he is not that into her, but still I think it's wrong of him to do this.

Guys are guys I guess. No one can sit here & tell you why he's doing that. Confront him about it. Explain how you got the idea that he liked you & you thought he was flirting. It should be broughten up with him because it wouldn't be fair to his gf if he really was flirting.

-hope that helped!♥

allright well my boyfriend really wants to go to second base. and im not sure if i do and like he has asked me before and i told him i would rather wait. and stuff but i can tell that he really wants to and lately he has begged me and stuff and i dont want him to like get mad at me for not doing it. and i just dont know what to do.

Follow your feelings. Second base is a big step in a relationship. If you aren't ready [which it doesn't seem like you are or you wouldn't be asking this question] do not do it. You don't want to regret anything later on. If he cares about you & wants to be with you, he'll wait. If he gets mad & keeps begging, he's only thinking of himself & doesn't care that you don't want to. That isn't what a relationship is all about.

-hope that helped!♥

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