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flirting at work
Why would a guy flirt with you outragiously, show an interest in you, go out of his way just to talk to you if he's in another relationship?
This guy from work had been showing an interest in me since before Xmas. I always caught him staring at me, he'd smile when I entered the room, he'd rub my shoulder, joke around with me, and even my supervisor thought he liked me because he'd smile if she said I was working that night. Well anyways I thought he was single so I started flirting back. He got all freaked out for a while, and never asked me out. Well I found out he IS seeing someone. I think it's pretty serious too because I heard they are going on a holiday. My question is WHY on earth would he be flirting with me and showing such a huge interest if he ia in another relationship? The only thing I could think of is that he is not that into her, but still I think it's wrong of him to do this.
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People in serious relationships, even if happy, still look around and keep their options open just in case. Some like to test to see if they still got game. I know lots of men that are married and still flirt in a confusing way and then act freaked out because you show interest back or play around. Some people are like that
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Boys will be boys. I'm assuming from what you wrote, that he is totally in to you, since he keeps flirting. It's such a taboo when guys act like that and are in relationships. My guess if that his relationship with her cannot be that strong if he's flirting with you. Maybe they're on the road to break up, but since you said they're going away together they might not be. I've seen guys who are in relationships flirt with other girls all the time. It's probably a boost for their ego too.
Anyways, good luck with your situation.
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Guys are guys I guess. No one can sit here & tell you why he's doing that. Confront him about it. Explain how you got the idea that he liked you & you thought he was flirting. It should be broughten up with him because it wouldn't be fair to his gf if he really was flirting.
-hope that helped!♥
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