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well, i've known this guy for awhile but recently we started talking. we hung out for the first time in school Friday and likee were all close bcause he was saying how he doesn't want any hookups anymore and wants to get into a serious relationship and he said he thinks i'm the right girl. So yeah we talked on the phone for a couple of days he would call like 2x a day maybe but he hasn't called me since saturday.
i don't think hes waiting for me to call him, because hes not shy about calling.
i don't think i should call him because even my mom said i was look like an idiot, and that if he wanted to call me he would. i just don't understand what went wrong!
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Well honey I think you should just calm down! Guys sometimes tell girls that they love them because they want to get in your pants and it's called being used. I disagree with the others because a guy has said that to me before and then after that he ignored me and really didnt want anything to do with me and I asked him why he said he loved me and he replied that he was using me and he also said he was very sorry. He might really like you though because the guy that used me didnt want to even talk to me on Myspace so I think he might be thinking about it and when he's done I think he will call you and tell you how he feels. See he's being put under alot of pressure right now because he's used to a non serious relationship. I really can't tell you if you are being used or he likes you and he just needs time to think about everything you know gather your thoughts? Well I really hope he likes you and you have a great realtionship! Much LOVE!!!!1
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It doesn't necessarily mean something went wrong. He could be busy for a few days, you never truly know the other end of the line sometimes, like in this case. I sent an e-mail to one of my best guy friends who I liked at the time MONTHS AGO - yet he never replied. He never IMs me anymore either. Not sure if he's scared, but maybe I never WILL know. But if he really wants to talk to me he'll find a way to, and I know that. Eventually he'll wing it. He supposedly used to like me in 6th grade, but he transfered. If we were meant to keep in touch, we would've. End of story. No, you wouldn't really look like an idiot if you called him. I think you'd look a little desperate maybe, yeah. But not really that bad, if he calls you for a while there's nothing wrong with you calling him back, but don't be too blunt. I just suggest you wait until you're in a relationship until you call him. That's just the way I think it should be, you know? 'Cause if you're not you'll look like you're out for commitment and that's not always a good thing depending on who you're interested in. Wait for him to call, if he likes you, nothing will stop him now if he could do it then. If he's not shy, he'll call when he needs or wants to. But it's natural for you to worry about his feelings for you after all, you don't just call someone several times a day regularly then stop. It's not right. I mean - it's just odd. So if you lose touch for too long and you want to stay in touch -- call him. If you want to be mysterious but still chat -- IM him. It's better that way and he can't hear the nerves in your voice if any ;)
Much Luck.
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Hey, well im not sure whats up with him. You definately shouldnt call him unless you absolutely have to. When i say have to, i mean theres no other way of communicating with him (aim or myspace). You have to be straight forward with him and ask why he has stopped calling. Remind him that he said that he thought that you were the right girl to get into a serious relationship with etc. If he takes it back, let him know that he should have told you instead of just stop calling you. He needs to be put in his place if he has a bad reason for stopping the calls. But dont blow up on him right away, let him get the chance to speak because maybe there is a good reason. Good luck.
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