It's not that I'm bitchy, just that I'm right. Sorry if you're too stupid to comprehend.
About me? I'm in an interracial relationship- have been for overs year. He's black; I'm white. We're pretty rad, if I do say so myself.
I live in Florida. I'm a high school graduate. I like to knit. I don't take my own advice, simply because I'm stubborn. I have a big family. Also,I have a experience with children and babies. I like to party party party and get wasted. I like to smoke cigarettes. I like to snuggle. That's all you need to know. :)
++I don't answer questions nicely [if at all] to thirteen year olds, no matter their problem.
++I have also stopped answering the whole "DOES HE LIKE ME?!?!" questions. Communication is key, people. If you want to know, ASK.
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some ppl. have scrolling words on top of their pages... what site do they get it from? cuz i want it too...
I'LL RATE. (link)
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[in agreement with the person below me] they are just marquees, but if that site she gave you doesn't help you, go to:
http://www.funky-chickens.com/marqs2.shtml
that has codes for things like that.
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Sheet music. I need some online, for free. FOR FREEEE. That I can print out. Is there any? (link)
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Sure you can, it depends on what youre looking for, though. some sheet music you find online you have to download, like in your adobe reader and then print out-- but it works just as well.
http://www.8notes.com/
http://www.musicnotes.com/
http://www.sheetmusicarchive.net/
it all depends on what youre looking for. and if nothing else, google, 'blahblahblah downloadable sheet music'-- that's what i do, and i always end up with a million things to choose from.
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ok, my girlfriend and i have been dating for 4 days and tonight we went to see a movie. well during the movie she leaned her head on my shoudler so i leaned my head on her head and we held hands, usual stuff. how can i tell when she wants to make out or not? im not the type of person who is straight up so i dont like to ask. wut r some physical things that can sign she wants to make out? please help me. (link)
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Hm, well, I don't really know your age, but from personal experience, my boyfriend and I waited a month [ha-ha, long time, i know] before making out.
We were in a movie theatre and my head was in that little crook between your neck and shoulder and he kissed my hair, and then in a minute when I shifted, he kissed my temple and my cheek, and I turned my head and he kissed me.
Do something subtle like that, if you can't flat out ask your girlfriend. although, i would have preferred him just saying, 'i wanna make out with you.' but it's totally up to you.
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for some reason i cant get music to play on my page. i have gone and changed the settings on my page so music can play automatically but when i put a song on my page it doesnt play until you press play. is there any other way of getting music on my page. no video because the song i want doesnt have a video (link)
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Mm, some of my friends have that problem. And as far as I know, if you've changed the settings, there's nothing else you can do, besides finding another song or just pressing play.
Sorry,sorry.
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wow i cant get over ur column! your so real and you speak your mind and u should know how great that is!!!! (link)
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Aw thanks! This made me feel all happy inside. :]
You should add me to your fav. columnists, if you havent. I'll add you back.
--Have a good day.
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my friend is wicked clingy. i can't go ANYWHERE without her up my ass. the thing is she has loads of friends that she hangs out with but when i try to hang out with other people, she tries to make me feel really guilty about it. i want to distance myself but i'm not sure how. help. :( (link)
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Tell her you need your space. If she really is your friend, she'll respect you-- if she's just trying to work her way up the popularity scale, you might lose her as a 'friend.'
Be upfront and honest with her. Nothing's worse than hearing from one friend that another friend thinks you're annoying and blah blah blah.
If she can't get with your program, she isn't cut out for it.
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I'm in love with my best friend, and she loves me back, in that way. We're both bi, and we would get together(probably not sexually for now, like kissing would be where we stop. we're religious). Unfortunately, she leaves for the Air Force in June. and she signed the contract(before she knew about me) that she'd engage in NO homosexual activity. What do I do?
P.S. We're not DATING yet, because we don't wanna screw up the best friends thing for a fluke. (link)
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You wait it out, if you can. As soon as she gets out, you can be together. Don't let any of her superiors know-- that would be awful. She could end up being dishonorably discharged and it's really hard to get a job almost anywhere after that.
EDIT::
As much as people can be against descrimination, the government can do whatever they want, especially since Bush [[and republicans in general.]]is against homosexuality.
--Very sorry about that.
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ok so i feel super stressed im a sophomore and im so worried about college, like im not special enough i have nothhing that sets me apart from others.
also i just feel so worthless and useless like i have no purpose and noone would notice if i dissapear.
i've been thinkin about death too, like how easy it would be just to kill myself, then i quickly come around and realize i dont wanna die.
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First off, no death. Kay? No. Not an answer; not even a choice.
College is in at least two years for you, take a breather. As long as you're passing all your classes so you don't have to repeat them, there's not much more you can do than make the grades.
As for telling someone like your mom, start with something more subtle.
"Mom, I'm bored. I need something new to occupy my time. Something I can be proud of."
That sounds a little better than, "I'm bored with life, I'm worthless and want to die." Right?
Join a club, a city or school sports team, write a story, paint a picture, go to the mall, hang out with friends, watch a movie and cry your eyes out, stay up until three at a friends house. Read a Calvin and Hob's comic book [they're insane, I promise]
Be a kid for a while.
I know it's hard-- it's hard for everyone. But remember, what goes down must come up..
And, when I [cause yes, I've thought about death my fair share also.] contemplate death, I think about, 'What would happen to that gorgeious babe i'd marry if I was alive.. I couldn't kill myself until at least after that..But then, why would I want to?'
I dunno-- it helps me. Maybe it'll help you?
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I went on a trip to Boise with my pep band this weekend. On Friday the we all went to the mall and I hung out in a group with Kord and Becka. In the first store Kord and I started looking at watches and such, so Becka said she'd meet us in the Gap when we were done. Becka wasn't at the Gap, so Kord and I wandered around looking ofr her for about an hour and a half. We were talking the whole time and going into other stores and things, but we were looking ofr Becka. We got hungry, so we went to eat at the food court together, and when we were done we found Becka. We walked with her for a few minutes, but she got sidetracked and we said we'd meet her at Build-a-bear. He built a bear and I built a bear, and we registered them together then sat on the bus back to the hotel together. We ate dinner with each other and after we went to a movie and he paid for my ticket. We've been on a date before, and it didn't go well, so I'm loathe to try dating him again, but I had a lot of fun and I have to admit it felt very date-like. So, was it a date? 16/f (link)
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In my opinion? Not really.
You happened to be on a school field trip, hanging out at the mall together. You didn't get dressed up, it wasn't preplanned, it was merely coincidence.
But if you had fun, try having another casual 'hang out' instead of 'date'. Sometimes 'dates' put too much stress and pressure on each party.
Or, maybe you're just meant to be friends.
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Okay I think im depressed, my brother is and Jason {my other brother} was but wasnt treated cause my mother doenst love him. Okay I hate my life. My parents are horrible. My mother loves my brothers more then me and you cant say its middle child sydrome cause im the YOUNGEST! So ughh. And schools no better but my dad is horribleer then anything. I dont know if we can swear on this but he calls me a stupid little B and jerk and other names like fat and anything and does it all the time. he yells a lot but doesnt hit me so it just sucks to be here..... how can i tell if im depressed? i sleep a lot and eat a lot... i never smile and get mad easily
tell me if you think im depressed and how i can tell if i am (link)
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Oh honey. I have depression, and it's awful. But you need to know [which was hard for me to understand] that it's not your fault. You can't control it, okay?
When I was first put on depression medicine, Cymbalta, I thought that I could do things to make myself better for good, so I wouldn't need the meds or couseling they wanted me to have.
And while you can do things to make yourself temporarily content, you can't fix yourself for good.
http://www.cymbalta.com/depression/understand/understand.jsp?reqNavId=1
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okay so i hang out with a lot of guys. but i cant really help it. i just get along better with guys. girls start too much drama and i hate drama. so some girls at my school think im a whore and are startin rumors that im doin stuff with all the guys i hang out with and that im cheatin on my boyfriend. but thats so not true. these guys are like my brothers. i wouldn't do anything with them. and i would never cheat on my boyfriend! he means the world to me. and he understands that i have a lot of guy friends and he's okay with it. he knows i wouldn't do anything with any of them. but i dont want that kind of rumor about me to spread. i mean. everyone at school knows im not like that. and my boyfriend and all my friends were like dont worry about it, they are just jealous that all the guys talk to you and not them. but idk. what do you think? (link)
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lol
Hun,
Did you get a copy of my life story?
I say, get the rumors go. People are going to talk about you behind your back no matter who you are, how you dress, who you're friends with or how you act.
I totally agree about the whole girls starting drama thing, that's why I have alot of male friends.
Last year::
At first, my boyfriend was uncomfortable with it, but I told him that my friends came before him, no matter what, and he got used to it.
Like, two months later I got the stomach flu, and I stayed home for a week throwing up, and when I came back to school, I found out that the majority of my grade thought I was pregnant, and people were actually placing BETS on who the father was- my boyfriend or one of my best friends.
Everytime someone asked me if it was a boy or girl, or who the father was, I'd tell them a completely different story, just to watch them compare it with a different version with their friends.
Moral of the story? I didn't take it seriously, and neither should you.
I wouldn't doubt it that they were jealous of you, especially if your guy friends are good looking.
..And I've also learned that they're nice and protective when you and your boyfriend break up.
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i personally dont see what is so bad about drugs! maruana(sp) and weed and everything. i would never try it because my parents would freak out, but why is it illegal? all it really does is make you high, which is exactly what alchahol does! if drugs are illegal, alchahol should be aalso!w/ what is the difference? someone please explain to me and why drugs are so bad? (link)
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I agree with the below user, drugs not only kill your brain, they kill your liver [the filtration of your blood.] and stuff like chewing tobacco gives you mouth and gum cancer. Cigarettes give you lung cancer.
check out this site: http://www.nida.nih.gov/DrugPages/DrugsofAbuse.html
marijuana gives you a "cough, frequent respiratory infections; impaired memory and learning; increased heart rate, anxiety; panic attacks; tolerance, addiction"
PCP gives you a lack of appetite [and people wonder why/how nicole richie got so skinny?] and depression. Which, eventually, could lead to you dying of malnutrition or starving.
LSD gives you ian ncreased body temperature, heart rate, blood pressure; loss of appetite, sleeplessness, numbness, weakness, tremors
Anymore questions? Check that site, it's really helpful. Or you can just inbox me. :]
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Okay I need some Emo Music-I love bands like Secondhand Serenade, RJA, Story of The Year... Good stuff like that can you give me other good bands that are emoish like them? (link)
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Jack's already given you a good list of bands, but to add to that, some more good bands that kinda have an emo lean are:
Rise Against
Papa Roach
Head Automatica
Gym Class Heros
Good Charlotte [in my opinion, at least]
Avril Lavigne [kinda. she's kinda 'punk' or something these days. it's so hard to keep up with her.]
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It's very possible I am snowboarding this weekend. I've gone skiing before, only twice, but I picked it up pretty well. Not skiing black diamonds yet, but I'm doing decently well on the intermediate slopes. I heard it was easier to learn how to ski before snowboarding so I hope that's true? But I think I will be getting a lesson from an instructor at the mountain for snowboarding... I was just wondering if anyone had any tips for someone who is new to this? Thanks! (link)
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Mhm. It's very, very difficult to snowboard if you haven't completely mastered skiing yet. My brother tried to, and after three days of falling down all day, he switched back to skis.
You have to remember that when you turn to lean in. That's really important to remember.
And, in my opinion, the most important thing is, if you're nervous, scared, intimidated, fall down. Flat on your butt. You'll stop, you'll get your barings and you'll be ready to go.
Have fun, be save, stay warm :]
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there's a new group out called Tiffany Affair. they have two songs-start a fire & over it. i cannot find over it anywhere. checked itunes, limewire, [myspace music only has a preview], etc etc. any where i can get this?? i know it may not be out yet, but my radio station plays it all the time. any ideas?? (link)
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The internet is updated everyday, you must remember that.
I just searched limewire for both songs, and several hundred results popped up for start a fire, but unfortunately nothing for over it.
You might want to remember to keep checking.
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i'm having some issues at home, and i'm really stressed out and just stuff like that. anyway, i really hate crying or being sad around people or talking about my problems... but last night i was hanging out with some of my friends and i just couldn't stop crying! i layed on my friend and just cried... i'm almost positive he knew i was crying...but anyway, i felt bad afterwords so i texted him and told him i was sorry and he won't reply... could he be mad at me? (link)
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Nah. doesn't sound mad, just a little awkward. Sometimes it's hard for boys to deal with feelings, especially girl's feelings.
Give him some time. If he doesn't come around, you might want to look to someone else for comfort.
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has anyone ordered from trashy.com period if so were you satisfied? (link)
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What the girl before me was trying to say, was that you should check out their return policy. if you can return things for free, buy something you like, if you dont like it when you get it, return it.
if you can't return it for free, dont waste your time shopping.
[but there are rules about repeat questions on here.]
EDIT::
If it's repeated AT ALL, it's a repeat question. No one on here has taken a 'nasty pill'. Odviously you aren't even mature enough to order from 'trashy.com'.
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how long does it take for the food in your stomach to go through your intestines and you poop it out? (link)
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Well, not sure about poop, but digestine is about four hours long. So if you eat lunch at noon, by four, you'll need to go to the bathroom and might be hungry again.
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does anyone knopw how i can delete and add songs from my new ipod nano? i reapeat NEW (link)
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:] i just got a new nano. well, for xmas. i've pretty much mastered it.
Have you downloaded itunes yet? That's probably the VERY first thing you should do. then in itunes there's the icon at the top that says 'help' i searched 'deleting songs.'
To remove songs from your iPod:
Connect your iPod to your computer.
When the iPod icon appears in iTunes, select it.
If the disclosure triangle to the left of your iPod is closed, click it so that you can see the iPod contents.
Select the item you want to delete and press the Delete key.
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im looking for this song the chorus goes "sending out an sos..sending out an sos" over and over again. (its not the one by the police or incubus.) who sings it? (link)
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not the police or incubus?
well, matisyahu did a cover of it. it was pretty great.
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