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bi best friend, air force
I'm in love with my best friend, and she loves me back, in that way. We're both bi, and we would get together(probably not sexually for now, like kissing would be where we stop. we're religious). Unfortunately, she leaves for the Air Force in June. and she signed the contract(before she knew about me) that she'd engage in NO homosexual activity. What do I do?
P.S. We're not DATING yet, because we don't wanna screw up the best friends thing for a fluke.
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hey, well im almost positive that the contract doesnt apply until she is actually in the air force in june. thats discrimination tho.
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you could always go to court. i didnt even realize they were allowed to make you to sign something like that. either way, im pretty sure it wouldnt apply until she actually joined.
seriously though, i knew there was discrimination in the militaries, but i didnt realize they were actually making people sign contracts.
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You wait it out, if you can. As soon as she gets out, you can be together. Don't let any of her superiors know-- that would be awful. She could end up being dishonorably discharged and it's really hard to get a job almost anywhere after that.
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As much as people can be against descrimination, the government can do whatever they want, especially since Bush [[and republicans in general.]]is against homosexuality.
--Very sorry about that.
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