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clingy friend
my friend is wicked clingy. i can't go ANYWHERE without her up my ass. the thing is she has loads of friends that she hangs out with but when i try to hang out with other people, she tries to make me feel really guilty about it. i want to distance myself but i'm not sure how. help. :(
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Hi what you should do is confront your freind to stop being so clingy becuase that is the best option! Who gives a damn if she makes you feel guilty, who don't you make her feel guilty then! VICE VERSA! if she was a good freind she would'nt make ufeel guilty! Am sorry but sometimes the truth hurts!
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Tell her the truth. Say you enjoy spending time with her every now and then, but you'd appreciate it if you could have some space to see your other friends. If she really is a true friend, she'll understand and back off. There's nothing mean about it and if she does happen to take it the wrong way, she needs to grow up and realize that she is not the only person in your life.
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Tell her it's pissing you off.. And if she still keeps on doing it, do the same to her. I know that's not the right thing to do and all that, but...
Something like this happened to me in the past and I just went up to the girl and told her that "I wanna do this by myself - for once. I don't do it to you and you hell well know how it pisses me off. So, please...just respect that. For once." She was my best friend, and not just a good friend or anything.
We don't talk anymore, but what the ell =). You can't keep a friend close for more than 3 years if you live in the Middle East and are not from the region.
Best of luck,
Kay
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Tell her you need your space. If she really is your friend, she'll respect you-- if she's just trying to work her way up the popularity scale, you might lose her as a 'friend.'
Be upfront and honest with her. Nothing's worse than hearing from one friend that another friend thinks you're annoying and blah blah blah.
If she can't get with your program, she isn't cut out for it.
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