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Was it a date?
I went on a trip to Boise with my pep band this weekend. On Friday the we all went to the mall and I hung out in a group with Kord and Becka. In the first store Kord and I started looking at watches and such, so Becka said she'd meet us in the Gap when we were done. Becka wasn't at the Gap, so Kord and I wandered around looking ofr her for about an hour and a half. We were talking the whole time and going into other stores and things, but we were looking ofr Becka. We got hungry, so we went to eat at the food court together, and when we were done we found Becka. We walked with her for a few minutes, but she got sidetracked and we said we'd meet her at Build-a-bear. He built a bear and I built a bear, and we registered them together then sat on the bus back to the hotel together. We ate dinner with each other and after we went to a movie and he paid for my ticket. We've been on a date before, and it didn't go well, so I'm loathe to try dating him again, but I had a lot of fun and I have to admit it felt very date-like. So, was it a date? 16/f
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i think that this was a date. even if it was unintentual, however he didn't object and neither did you. So even if it wasn't a fancy "we both agreed that this is a date" kind of date, it was the start of something that i think you should continue with. If you can have fun and be yourself around him, he's definitly worth trying for. But don't tie yourself to the idea that he's all yours, give it time and don't give up.
love always,
sportsy
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In my opinion? Not really.
You happened to be on a school field trip, hanging out at the mall together. You didn't get dressed up, it wasn't preplanned, it was merely coincidence.
But if you had fun, try having another casual 'hang out' instead of 'date'. Sometimes 'dates' put too much stress and pressure on each party.
Or, maybe you're just meant to be friends.
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