about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

ok i have this problem i like this certain guy and i want him to notice me but he don't and i an starting to get really pissed off.by the way i think that his girlfriend is a bitchy snob and i want to get her bac

i think for the time being leave this guy alone i mean he has a girlfriend and you need to respect that fact and give him space. i mean you wouldnt want another girl tryin to break you and him up (if u guys were togeher) so just back off for now and leave him alone.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Recently me(14f) and my boyfriend(15m) broke up. We had plans to go to homecoming together, and everything so now that we are broken up I pretty much have NO date for homecoming, I do know a few people that like me... But I don't think any of them would want to go to homecoming on such short notice, but my friend wants me to go with their (her and her boyfriend) group of people including his extremely hot single brother, that thinks i am "Beautifully Stunning" so do i just see if he wants to go with me or sit this homecoming out? Please help xo

my opnion get your butt off the coach and go to homecoming! dont let a guy ruin everythign for you. i mean come on.look at how many guys are out there. dont just forget about it just because one guy became an asshole to you. go with your sister "hot single brother" and make the best of what you got.. i hope you have fun and good luck.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok so I've known this guy (we'll call him Jay) for about 3-4 months now and I reallllyy like him!! And one of his friends told me the other night that he liked me too and was wondering if I was feeling the same. And Jay asks for hugs from me alot and he really sqeezes me hard and he won't let go for a long time, you know? but I don't know if he's for real or if he's just doing this..and the other thing is his girlfriend from 3 years ago is around him alot..and he dosen't really talk to her but shes REALLy pretty..and he still might like her. maybe not. And today I was really mean to him because I didnt' know how to react to him liking me you know? no hugs, yelled and him, and yea i really regret it now. but i need help on what to do!! i rate 5's!!

i think you should go talk to him and explain to him how you feel. if you dont it will be like your pushhing him away and he will stop likeing you.. if eh likes you and you like him back the go for it and hook up.. there is nothin holding you back.. and about his ex dont pay attetntion to her. i mean she had her chance and lsot it. remember looks arent everything. she might just be a pretty girl and be very mean and stuck up on the inside. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey !
i have 2 screen names linked,
and i was wondering do you know how to have one screen name away, and the other not ?!
and if so, how would u even do that? lol
thanks so much if you can help

i wish that would work but you cant do that. but what you can do is turn invisable on one screen name which is the eye think on the aim buddy list and only use one screen name. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey one of my best friends recently told me that he liked me and i like him too and we always tell each other evrything and we always stay up talking so anyways he told me he liked me and i like him too! but he is my best friends boyfriend and he told me before he told me he liked me that he was gonna breakup with her and now he's telling me he wants to go out with me and so do i but i mean if we go out my best friend will hate me! what should i do??

you have to think if this guy is worth it. you got to think is this guy really worth wasting a friendship for?? in my opnion MY FRIENDS come first then my CRUSH.... you need to back off this guy because he is (for the time beenin) ur best friends boyfriend. i mean i dont think you would like it if you were goin out with a guy and ur bestfriend liked him and he liked her and he broke up with you to be with her. i know that would get you very mad...hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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does anyone know how i can burn the songs i download on limewire?

it is really simple.. you go to your library on limewire then click on shard folder then go to file explore.. then a box should come out. you then find the song you want and left click on it and click add to burn list. of course you need to have a windows media player to do this.. hoep this helps and if you need anythin else dro it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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what is hte best type of birth control. my fiance and i want to have sex but i told him not until i am on birth control. he said "we can use condoms" and i told him no, b/c i don't want an accident. im 18 and i dont need a baby right now. he understands, but i want to have sex with him so bad. that is why i want to get on birth control, but i dont know what kind of birth control is the best. i have looked into the different kinds and i am down to the pill, the monthly shot, and the three month shot. which is better or any advice on which one is hte best one to use. what are side effects and thigns like that. please help me out!

if i had to choice i would choice the pill. yea the others one stop ur period but i had a friend that took the shot kinds and when she got on her period it bleed a lot and more then 4 days... hope this helps and have fun..
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey I'm 15 and decided to do a presenation on that book. For those of you who have read it...any ideas? I would have to pick out certain selections and read and all that stuff. I just don't know which parts to choose. I'm looking for something that stands out and that would actually make people wonder and think. I'm not looking for sites or anything, I've read the book. Will rate - Thanks.

hey just like me i choice to do a report on that book(i am 14) and i think the most important part that would shock people is the chapter that he explain to everyone who he is abused by his mother...i think it is the second chapter where he tells the readers that.(its called the fight for food) if i am not mistaken.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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how long should a tampon be in ur body? like if i am at school from 7:00 to 3:10 which would be 9 hrs!!! du i need to change my tampon in skool...probably but i am not sure! pleese help i rate high!

oxo * oxo

yes you should change it every 4 hours.
*~Stephanie~*

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Why is my hair falling out?

Growing up I always had very thick and abundant hair. But now it's starting to fall out- and I'm only 14...

I dyed it about 3 months ago and it is just beginning to fall out.

Help... I love my hair!

what you can do is go to a salon and let them put hair treatment in it which helps the hair grow more and fall less. it doesnt cost that much either. (10-30 dollars)
*stephanie~*

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Is there any way on aim you can sign on more than one screen name at a time?? If yes, how??
Thankss
Ill rate 5's
HELP

yes yu can.. you have to link them together... you go to my aim and then mage my screen names. i have 3 of my screen names linked together. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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You know how most girls like dating guys that are older than them. Some girls at my school like dating younger guys. And I was just wondering how many years apart do you think is 'too old' or 'too young' to date?

-13/f if your wondering

-Sorry I didn't know what to put this under.

i personaly have dated guys 3 years older then me but i wouldnt recommend it. i think 2 years older is good. i think 3 years younger or older is tooo much.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay.. so me and my boyfriend went out for almost 3 years.. we broke up on september 23rd.. and like ive been upset ever since then.. like i just wanted to take a break .. and he got all mad.. and we broke up..., and he had 2 GIRLFRIENDS since then.. and we broke up on a friday and he went out with one girl the next.. i was so upset.. like maybe he didnt love me.. seems like it right? well he was my everything.. and i cant get him off my mind.. he was so sweet but now hes a total jerk.. i mean he use to cry over me how cute is that.. can you please give me some advice i need some real bad.. i know i didnt exactly have a question but can you tell me how i should take care of this and stop being so upset..!! THANKS SO MUCH!!!

honestly he still isnt over you. think about it has only been a week and he has had 2 girlfriends and he couldnt keep any. think about about why he couldnt keep them?? maybe because he LOVES you and CANT replace you. my advice is to talk to him and exoplain to him how you feel and talk things out and maybe you can try working things out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Seriously, why is it so damn hard for people to spell correctly?

i dont know..lol.
*~Stephanie~*

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What are some songs that are about being sad because of the death of a friend? Thank you.

all i've got - the USED
be my escape - relient K

that is all i can think of right now i will edit when i think of more.
*~Stephanie~*

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What are some other ways a girl can get herself horny besides fingering herself?

getting a delido and using it.. or try doing soemthign different instead only figuring yourself. like you can move it or soemthing. just try something new.
*~Stephanie~*

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i need some help with something?
here it is.

its about a guy from my school i like him but, well see i met him on my bus and hes from el salvador and from then on he always says hi to me in the halls and he thinks im pretty and he always wants to talk to me after school cause he found out i liked him, but i get all scared and i just get butterflies in my stomach when he comes towards me and i tell him i dont like him but he knows im lying. well this week he came and grabbed me by the arm and telling me he wasnt gona let me go till i told him i liked him but i didnt and he finally let go well anyways he has been asking everyone to ask me if i like him and i do but see he has all these friends that are girls and most of them are his ex-girlfriend and this week he kept following me with one of them hugging her and so i left and he came by me again and i left and he kept doing it and to me i think he was kind of being a jerk and his ex's dont like me i can tell but the next day he asked someone to ask me if i like him cause he thinks im pretty so yea what do i do

find a plaes where you two can talk all by yourself and then explain to him how you feel. about his ex's they are only jealous because they cant have him anymore.. dont hide your feelings because then he might just give up and look for another girl.. so you need to take your chace and go for it. dont let him slip away from you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey.
Today I had a couple people come over, just to hang out, and I asked one of my best friends to comeover but she said she couldnt because she went out to lunch with her brother. So I said, "Oh, well when you get home call me so you can comeover." and she said ok. She never called me back so I just kinda forgot about it. Then I found out she saw our two other friends there and they asked her to go to the mall so she went! I asked her to comeover wayyy before they asked her to hang out! Ugh it just gets me so mad because I also told her yesterday that I wanted to hang out with her today and she said YEAH! I don't know if I should be mad at her or not. What do you think?
Thanks!
--> Jenna

you ahve the right to be a lil upset but Dont go over board with it i mean maybe she just forgot. just like you forgot that she was supposed to call yyou back. talk to ehr about and tell her what you found out and explain to her how you feel.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have this friend and recently his girlfriend broke up with him. He's a total mess and he keeps tellin' me he's over it but i know that's a lie. he's being a frickin' physco! help!

you need to get his mind off of the girl and cherr him up. dont bring up anything about ehr. just you go out with your friend and have fun together as friends to get his mind of of the girl.
*~stephanie~*

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Are weed and pot the same thing?

yes
*~Stephanie~*

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