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could anyone explain to me how to create the smokey eyes look? thank you :) (link)
http://kevynaucoin.com/lessons/?dramaticeyes


Where can I get rubber flip flops that are cheap but really cute! (link)
old navys are $2.50 but also payless i guess and delias, ae, a&f, and wet seal, gap and forever 21


my bedroom is going to be tropical themed and i would like a palm tree looking plant in my room does anyone know of a plant like that?
thx (link)
indoortropical.com has so many indoor plants that are pretty cheap (most are like $20-50)

http://www.indoortropical.com/palms.html those are indoor palm trees :)


I'm reading "A Tree Grows in Brooklyn" by Betty Smith and I stumbled across a strange paragraph:

"It so happened that Professor Alegretto had a slight peculiarity concerning his girl pupils. He made them take off their shoes and stockings and stand in their bare feet while they sawed away. Instead of beating time or correcting their fingering, he spent the hour in a revery staring at their feet.

This made Evy jump. She knew nothing of Freud, and her scanty knowledge of sex did not include any of its deviations."

Back in the Victorian Age, were men like, sexually attracted to feet? (link)
for everything out there, there is a fetish. feet fetishes are not just a male thing either, many women are just as into feet as men who are the same way. the thing about fetishes is they can get pretty bizzare. some people are into tying each other up and having sex, some are into sex with animals, and even some are into pee, poop, and vomit being used for sexual stimulation. a foot fetish is pretty tame in the grand scheme of things if you can think of something, anything really there is someone somewhere who is into it. some people like red hair on people, some people like body hair, some people like no hair, some people like sex on a helicopter. i mean anything and evetything is a fetish and if you can think of something there's a group of people somewhere who are into it.


i kinda want sex now but i want to wait till marige. and i want to not be a freakin virgin
should i have sex or wait till marrage? (link)
you can have sex now, but only do it if you guys are both like in love, like after you guys do it, he will not break up with you after a week.

if you want to, you could wait to get married


Does anybody know where to get skinny jeans at? I mean, I've looked at a bunch of stores but can't really seem to find any, and the ones I see in the magazines cost like, $200 bucks which obviously isn't that cheap, haha. Help? (link)
if you got o a mall, basically any clothing shop sells them cuz they are kind of in right now.

so that means delias forever 21 , wetseal, ae, a&f, lvlx, etc.


Heres a picture of my eyes-

http://img246.imageshack.us/img246/3199/beckaeyesly7.jpg

can somebody tell me what kind of make-up would look cute on me? oh and somebody tell me if my eyebrows are weird (crooked) and some ideas how to do them, i dont want to wax them but i'm horrible at plucking them out. please help me!! (link)
black eyeliner or smoky eyes would look good
your eyebrows are nicely shaped, they are just a little bit too thick at the end (all you do is pluck under the end, its easy)


Hey there ppl-I need help!You see.I really want to make a new xanga,but I dont know a good name.I have red curly hair,i like cherries,I like to sing and dance.PLEASE HELP! (link)
cherrychick
damcingchick
redheadshavemorefun
singbabysing
dancebabydance


just a few ideas.
than you can add like xos if you want and numbers


Hey iam a 17 female and Iam doing a project where we have to create a room and we are working in teams and my group decided to design an entertainment room and we have a budget of $5,000 we can spend and I was wondering if you could give me the names of some sites where I can find how much these items below cost.

The things iam going to put in the room:

1.tile
2.t.v.
3.dvd player
4.computer/computer table
5.sofa's
6.a mini fridge
7.beanbags
8.stereo system
9.playstation
10.pingpong table
11.pool table

I need the names of these sites by tomorrow the sooner the better thank you! (link)
1) depends on how big your room is
2) $200 is the cheapset one thye go up to 1000-5000, but since thats basically your buget, gotwith a 200 one
3) about 50 dollars
4a) the cheapest computer on bestbuy.com is $350+ but thats a crappy one
4b) desks cost about 250 dollars
5) mine was about 650 for a loveseat
6) 25-50 cheap :)
7) 30-40 dollars
8) stereo is $100 but boomboxes are about 20 only thoguh
10 & 11) both cost at least 800-1200, i would suggest only one (plus how big is the room going to be?)

ebay.com (for minifridge, bean bags)
ikea.com (desk, beanbags, sofas
bestbuy.com (tv, dvd,computer, playstaton)

PLEAASE RATE HIGH I SPENT T=SO LONG DOING THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!




i herd somewhere that if a guy does you from the back you cant get pregnet.is that true? and if it is does that meen your still a virgin. alot of people on adviceators say having sex is inserting the penis into the vagina so is it not considered sex if he inserts it in the back? thanx to all that answer! (link)
if it goes into your asshole, you cant get pregnant.
you could consider your self a virgin if you wanted to, or you could say you had sex, becasuse some people consider that sex, where otehrs dont


I babysit a 3 year old and she makes a lot of messes! After we complete one thing she is already on to another mess before I'm even done cleaning up the first one. Any ideas? Also if you have any fun games to do that wouldnt take long or wouldnt make a mess! that would be great! thanks! (link)
ok what you do is you make cleaning up into a game, like lets see who can put the most toys away.
you have to let her win, so if she puts away five dolls for example, you should put away 2-4. this way its a game, and you get help cleaning up.

trust me it might not seem like it will but it WORKS!


how can i make sure that 1st time i makeout with my boyfriend is as perfect as it can be? (link)
This website has lots of info on kissing, including do's and dont's and other stuff. You should check it out: http://www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool/, and another website, for first time kisses, is http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm hope that helps some, good luck.


im stupid about all this stuff but if you would answer, that would be nice. when you have sex for the first time, is there something in the vagina that like breaks? and im not talking about the wall of the vagina cause i know that stretches (link)
There is the hymen (dont know if i spelled that right) that breaks in the vagina, but for most girls, its already gone from using tampons, horseback riding, and other active activities.


does anyone know where i can get a khaki green color jacket that kinda looks like this
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Outerwear&product%5Fid=2029975353&Page=2

or

http://www.wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1400&size=&style=36252398&color=3&token=

or

http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Outerwear&product%5Fid=2031251679&Page=2

but maybe a little bit more too it like beads pearls or even something that just looks like this thats short sleeve and green id really appreciate it
ps no lines running on the jacket like in the pictures (link)
welli would say forever 21 and westeal of course, cuz hose are the shop websites. its good because those shops are so cheap, like amazing cheap.


thanks in advance sorry if its long.

okay so me and this kid lets call him jack. we got into a fight and he was like i dont care dont talk to me.

then my friend brooke was talking to him and she was telling him about how she got into a fight with this kid chester. and he was like well you should talk to him. cause he was giving her advice. and then brooke told jack that she called chester and he got mad and said i dont care dont talk to me. and then jack said he'll regret it. and brooke was like why do you think that? and he was like "he'll see dont worry" so yeah..

does that mean jack regrets saying it to me? or did he just say chester would regret saying that to brooke randomlyy.

thanks in advance.. (link)
i think he ment by "he'll regret it" that if he got into a fight and said somthing like that he would regret it. if he wont talk to you try and get another friend to talk to him.
good luck.


im going to do a tropical theme in my bedroom when i move into a new house.does anyone have any good websitesi could go to?
thanx,
Jaime (link)
you can put one of those plants with the long thin leaves somewhere, and im not sure if you would like to, but you could get a fish tank with tropical fish, it would relaly brighten up your room. or you could get a parrot maybe


Alright, I have this friend Jeff, and he's like one of my bestest friend but he's just always so sad. And for like, usually no reason. I'll just be talking to him, and he'll just be like "mhm" "k" "yeah". And then if I don't talk for like, a second he's like "you're not very talkative" so I start talking again, and he does the same thing. And tonight, me and my friend Alyssa and him all went into a chat cause we all talk to eachother, and he doesn't say anything the whole time and I'm like "you can talk, you know." and he's like "you guys are ignoring me." and im like,"you said like, one thing and that was no." I don't know, it's just like he thinks he's boring to talk to and we're ignoring him and everything. And I always tell him to talk about something, and he's like "I don't wanna talk, I don't wanna type." It's like everyone else always have to come up with conversation, not him and I'm running out of ideas. And tonight he's like,"Me and her [me] never talk about anything, but we have stuff in common." and im just thinking,"WTF I TALK TO YOU EVERY SINGLE DAY AND I BABBLE ABOUT WHAT IM DOING OR WHATEVER COMES UP OFF THE TOP OF MY HEAD." And I'm just getting aggrivated, what should I do? His depression is making me depressed.. and ticked off. HELP?! (link)
talk to him, maybe he just needs to talk 2 someone. also, have some fun, dont just hang out and talk on msn and that, invite him and some other friends over for a water fight (on a hot day) or something like that.


im fially going to have my own bathroom but i can't decide on a theme. anybody got any ideas?
~Jaime (link)
well i personally thought that a pirate theme would be really nice, and you can put shells and sand on the window seeal, and a pirate weel on the wall. i think htat one would be hot


16/f

i wish i would have more friends...all the so-called popular people at my school make me feel so retarded! they talk to me and stuff but i never hangout with them- i DONT want to be like them... i mean im not a geek at all but im not someone you would call popular. im a prep. i have my few close "girl" friends. not many guy friends i dont know why? but i feel like such a loser when all these people go out and hangout every single day but the stupid thing is they have to drink or get high to have fun which is stupid to me and thats why i dont care about hanging out with them. but everyone is out partying and hanging out -even the people who dont do drugs and stuff and im just sittin at home with my mom and on the computer! i never know what to do. i dont have many friends i can call. im not able to join a club or a sport (dont ask why). i am getting a job soon and school is starting up in a couple weeks. for some reason im getting really depressed over this..ive never had a boyfriend but most people tell me im so gorgeous or hott or beautiful and sometimes i believe them but i just dont know whats wrong with me!!

any suggestions to turn my life around? and just have more fun. my brother is 19 and he even makes fun of me and says im a loser and have no friends and just sit at home and i know its true and i hate hearing about it. (link)
try and talk to people more, get to know more people better, then ask if they want to hang out sometime.
good luck.


I'm about to buy the ringtone package thing from http://www.freeringers.net/realmusic.php and I was wondering how do the ringtones get from your computer to your phone? (link)
well first you have to upload it on to the site: so if you have itunes, you just upload it on to the website. then you press send to phone and you will recieve a text message and you just download it and save it to your cell phone




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