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I'm in High school and I should be in collage soon. I have good grades and me parents think I should go to collage but I want to get married and have kids after highschool. I don't see the point in spending all that money if I am not going to work. Should I go anyway to please my parents? (link)
G o T o C o l l e g e !


how can i become flexable without taks qymnastics? (link)
a really successful stretch routine:

sit down on the floor first, and have you legs out in front of you stretch out and touhc you toess, slowly count to 30
and then stretch your right leg, and have your left leg bent sideways. reach to your right toe, count to 25, and then do it with the other leg

then stand up and bend down and touch you toes, hold it for 30, and then cross your left leg over your right, bend down count to 25, and switch legs
then pull your quads (basically, pull your ankle to your butt)

you should feel a major burn -- its good to feel that


my friends birthday is coming up and i need some ideas for her birthday present. she is 14/f and LOOOOVES things that are black and white checkered and jsut plain black and white stuff but i have no clue what to get her, help is apprecated, thanks!! (link)
black and white checkered vans
purse (blakc and or white)
black sunglasses with white rimming
a zebra print hat or something
a clapper (you know the things that movie directors use)
or a black star earing with a white star earing for example, mix and match


okay, this is really creeping me out now. My dad measured my height and he noticed that my right foot is bigger than my left foot. I've played soccer for 6 years and i'm a righty... is it because of this? heres a picture
http://img243.imageshack.us/img243/7691/myfeetzr6.jpg

Please help! how do i get my feet the exact size?? thanx (link)
I tried to reasearch, but no luck. I think it's fine. Do you still wear the same size shoe for both? Maybe a doctor could tell you. I think it's normal. It' just the right hand is a little larger than the left.


i want to know if anyone knows how to make your hair shiney. not like greasy shiney but my hair is dull and i want to know if any one knows any tricks that are good. not like hair line products but more of a home remidy or something. thanks! (link)
i use bed head shining products. they are good


i want to know if anyone knows how to make your hair shiney. not like greasy shiney but my hair is dull and i want to know if any one knows any tricks that are good. not like hair line products but more of a home remidy or something. thanks! (link)
I'm gonna change my answer, okay! So reread my advice!

Here's what I use to make my hair shiny; it works great.

SMOOTHING CONDITION (The top is green)
BY PAUL MITCHELL

SUPER SKINNY SERUM

Smoothes and conditions unruly hair

Price: About $7.00
You don't need a lot!!! So it'll last you a while. Just pump it once, and it works great! If you use too much, your hair feels really greasy, so use a little. It makes it shiny, just like me.


How do you clear the memory card? I tried to take a picture, and the screen went blue, and it said "the memory card is full." I uploaded pics from the camera on the computer, but it still said that. (link)
You just delete each picture. What I do is Menu, I thik delete and it says all or something like that. I click all, and it's all done!


There is this dance and I am going to go with this guy, the dance is in 2 days, and I said yes to him yesterday, today he gave me a hug, do you think he thinks we are going out?? Also, he is a wigger and that is not my type, and he is on my nerves...WHAT TO DO!!?!?!?! (link)
You aren't going out. My friend was asked to a socail dance, but they weren't going out. I don't know what wigger means, but there's more things about him that you might like. Wait and see and learn about him.


14/f.my mom and my neighbor go walking 2 miles or more every night. last year i started going with them, but now i'm starting not to. i know that it is good exercise, but i'm just kind of embarrassed to be seen walking with my mom and my neighbor. i know that sounds mean but its true. sometimes we walking laps around the neighborhood and sometimes we walk outside the neighborhood where other people and people i go to school with can see us. what do i do? and i'm not going to tell my mom that i'm embarrassed to walk with her, that is just too mean. (link)
She's your mother. She loves you and of course, you are embarrassed walking with her. So what! I'm 14 and I walk with my mom. Many of my friends love their mom and will love to do that. Do you like your mother? Some people don't like their mother really and dont get along, they get embarrassed. Don't worry about what your friends say and people from your school. Over the years, I've learned to make the insults compliments. When someone says something mean, just tell them Thanks or something like that.
Hope it helps.


Age: 14
Gender: Male

Okay, so there's this girl I really like (E), and this other girl (B) my best friend likes. My friend really loves B, he's told me a million times, and he's loved her for a really long time. I've loved E for a long time, not as much time as my friend has liked B, but still pretty long. Ever since I told my friend I love E, he's been nicer and nicer to her. Which I wouldn't mind if it was just the friendly type of niceness, but it's not. It's the "gotta crush on ya" type of niceness. I've asked him about this, and he says he's treating her exactly the same as he always has, but I've noticed a difference. I just am really confused. Do friends normally do these kind of things?

Thanks,

-Fyce (link)
Yes, friends do it. Here's an example.
Down the street, my best friend has an older brother. His ex-girlfriend's friend began to see my best friend's brother. All and All, my best friend's brother went out with his ex-gilfriend's best friend. Trader, I think.
Guys are like that, and girls too. He might like (E) and (B). If that happens, you become jealous, like the guy I like, someone likes him too and she's actually my friend.
Talk to your friend and if he's a good friend, he'll tell you the truth. The thing, just wait until it happens. I have nothing to say except try to talk to your friend and figure out what is he actually doing.
Sorry! :S


hey im 13-f and i love my mom more than anything. shes older than most moms thi-shes about to turn 55.. i no most moms with 13 year old kids are lik in there 40's... my mom has great health.. she doesnt do drugs she excercises almost everyday and she eats right. im just scared of her getting older.. i just always want her to be young which i no isnt possible but i always want her to be able to have fun and be mobile and everything. i guess im just scared of death and her getting older.. just the thought of her being like 60 and me only being 18 scares me. cuz im scared that she wont be able to excercise as much.. i dont know.. and i always like do the math like ok when im 20 she already be like 62.. and shell be 80 when im only like 38 or somethin.. i just love her more than anything and i dont want anything to ever happen to her. i just need like a pep talk or somethin idk... just help me. please.. i just love her sooo much
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Wow, I agree with you too. I thought I'm the only child with an older mom. I'm turning 14 in September 13 this year and my mom is I going to be turnig 55 or 56. I love my mom so much; she's the whole world to me. I hang with her, I do everything with her and I love to do things with her. I still think when I'm only 20, she'll be in her early 60's. My dream is that she'll be their for college and when I have my first apartment and stuff. There'sa lot of more things going to happen in my life, and I want my mom to be their. I would love to pay a trip for her to go to England just her and I in the future because we plan that. I love her so much, and I'm afraid she'll pass away before I even get to college. The thing is, it's fate. You'll have to live it just like I. Just remember the positive things and there's a reason she pass away. It will be the hardest moment too. The thing is, I'm adopted! My real mom is chinese and my adopted mother (i've known her 10 years) Even though she's not by blood, in the past I think I was her mom too.
Hope it helps and I will know someone will sob with me.


13/f
i really want to start straightening my hair. i already know which straughtener im getting..my friend has it. its a conair ceramic one with 30 heat settings on it. is that a good one to get?? would that damage my hair if i use it every day?? and if it would, how can i make it not? (link)
I have the Conair too.
You may do it everyday, but it's not a great thing.
During a week, stay away from the straigherner at least 2 times or even once. You are able to do it every day but one day, keep it normal.
But I'm not sure it'll do too bad with your hair.


hi i'm 16 year old girl and i am thinking of going out with this guy who is 18. i live in massachusetts, is it illegal if we have sex?
help please!
only answer if your positive :) (link)
It isn't illegal to have sex. Through my eyes, you are too young. You are only 2 years older than me, and you are planning to have sex?
Before doing it, answer these questins below.

1. Are you old enough?
2. Can you stand the pain?
3. Are you able to take care of the consequences.
4. Do you think you are ready to do it?
5. Do you know a lot of things about sex?

If you know everything positive, you are able to do it.


i know this is really weird but are there any bras who can make your boobs look smaller? (link)
Push up bras push up your bra to make them bigger, correct?
My sister is really bust and she sometimes uses a sports bra because it snuggles them down and it's comfortable.
If you like the look, a camisole might help.
This might be a hoax, but maybe you can wear a smaller bra than your regular size.

I hope you find the way!!!


Ok well school is about to start and of course there are gonna be cheerleading tryouts. I`m perfect for cheerleading but there is a little problem. I don`t know how to do cartwheels at all! I know I`m not gonna pass the tryouts unless I know how to do some moves with cartwheels in them.

Well, what I`m asking is does anyone know any tricks to help me keep my balance and help me do a cartwheel. A site with some techniques will be great. Thanks (link)
Spread your legs out at least 2 feet apart. Raise your arms like you are an x.
With your left arm and bring it to the ground and swing your legs in that way and while your left hand on the ground, set your right and you should be able to do it. If my instructions are difficult to understand, e-mail me.
Here are some sites.

http://cheerleading.about.com/od/gymnasticsandtumbling/l/bl_cartwheel.htm

http://www.wikihow.com/Do-a-Cartwheel

http://www.dance.net/read.html?postid=995202

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/?qid=20060628151220AAoOrKR


what store can i buy a pair of bermuda shorts at? i want a pair for around $20 and they have to be available in small sizes because i'm a 00.

thanks guys! (link)
Hey, I found my match! Right now, I'm wearing a 00 cargo pants. I thought I'll be the only one that isn't anerexic(sorry my spelling is so bad!)
I've seen at Old Navy some really cute Bermuda shorts, but fall is coming in, so they don't have them. You will not find that many shorts nowadays because their are more pants are being soled.
Sorry I'm no help now, but look at Old Navy or Gap when spring comes; you'll find tons because they are in style now. Did you know Areopastle has 00 and 0! There's 00 short, 00 regular, 0 short, 0 regular, and so on. There's a lot of shorts, regulars, and talls. I hope you will find what you want!


ok i am in a long distance relationship but he is more experienced then me both of us are virgins but i've never even kissed a guy what can i do to get more experience before i meet him??? please help me (link)
You can kiss a pillow and practice, lol. I'm just kidding though.
If you want to be more experience kissing, you want it to be with the guy you like.
Why don't you have your experience with the guy you like. If I was you, I'll just wait for him and experience with him.

I'm sorry my information isn't very good.


where do people get the add&message buttons on myspace, like the ones on this page: http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=44489852

thanks (link)
its private so i cant see it.

but certain myspace layouts have them, so google myspace layouts


What exactly does "crunk" mean?

I assume it means getting drunk, or high...but I am really not sure.

Guess I am getting old! (link)
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=crunk

it has all the definitions
basically it means to go out and get drunk and party


how do you change your default picture on facebook? (link)
you go to edit profile (on the left side) and then theres a place that says picture (and then you just upload a picture of you)




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