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Hey Everyone. My name is Barbie. I am 22. Working full time and in college. I'm here to give advice to serious questions, not to share my whole life story. I've not been active until recently. All of the questions I've answered on here, as you see are very old and out dated. I will no longer answer silly questions, but only more serious ones. If you want my opinon, ask me a question. I'm 100% honest to the best of my knowledge, blunt, and to the point. If that's what you're looking for, then you've come to the right place. If not, then my apologies, but you can go to some one else who will sugar coat things for you and make you hear what you want to hear.



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Hi everyone, does anybody know good ways to make money? Thanks, I'll rate the first three that answer a five.

babysit, do some extra chores for your parents, i would say to cut grass but that is almost out of season, but when the leaves fall go and offer to rake them for some people. Or if your old enough go out and apply somewhere. Thats really all i can think of right now. Good luck and hope it helped.

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Well... last night I was at a football game with my best friends. We ran into one of their ex-boyfriends. She has been trying to set me up with him.. but I had never met him before that.
Him and I really hit it off. One of my best friends went to watch the game (his ex) so I walked around with my other friend.
The guy and I were first talking.. and then he gave me a hug and we were walking around with our arms around each other. My best friend left with some other girls to talk to someone.. and left me alone with this guy. While she was gone, he kissed me... Well.. we were kissing when she came back.. and she got mad. I went to find out why she was mad... she said i could do better than a guy like him.

Before I left the game.. I asked him if he wanted to go to our school's homecoming dance with me. He said yes to me.
During the car ride home.. my friend told me I shouldnt go with him because he is white trash. She probably knows him better than I do.. but I really like him. Should I listen to her and tell him I dont want to go to the dance. or go with him and get to know him better?

i think that you should still go with him to the dance. if you really like him, you cant just change your feelings. its not quite that simple. She isprolly just trying to protect you tho. so take her words to heart and just go to have fun!

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Well, last year I liked this guy alot alot alot . He became popular and he'd pay me less attention by the day but he'd stop paying attention when I stop paying him attention . Well now we only have two classes and that'll soon change because, we're coming to a new semester soon . At first in these classes I felt insecure around him . I used and still tell myself that," he isn't man enough to except me and to hell with him . If he can't be man enough to seek what his heart desire is, then he really isn't a man . Forget him " . And it's been working because, I've been interested in three other guys and two or three guys have asked me out but I rejected for some reasons - but not for him . My friend think I should continue this game but I'm tired of the game . Two years and he hasn't owned up to it becuase, two people told me he liked me and he blushed seriously . That was two years ago , but he continues looking at me as though he likes me and did I mention I'm getting tired of tis. What do you think ? I think I really should move on . Why do you think he's doing this . Am I right about him not being man enough . Should I stay or move on . If this helps he was a jock last year and is onw this year . Thanks and by.

i think you should stick with your idea and forget about him and not listen to you friends. but just because he pays you less attn than before, doesnt mean that he isnt a man. Maybe he isn't paying attn to you as much because your not paying attn to him as much as you said you used to. But you could talk to him and see whats up or just forget about him. Good luck and hope this helps.

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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days?

it usually last from 3-7 days.

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i just found out i get my braces in 13 days any tips to help the process?

take some tylenol or some other type of pain killers because they will sometimes tend to hurt you afterwards and just follow all the things your orthodontist and your dentists tell you to do.

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ok me and my boyfriend broke up and we still say "i love you" but then one day he got really mad at say he never wanted to talk to me again..but then he called me 3 dayz later and was talkin to me (that night he called and said sorry about sayin that!) then the last couple of nights he wouldnt hang up til we said "i love you" like he would just say "bye" til i said it then last night i said bye and he goes "bye shut up you know what to say" ...but then he used to tell me about missin out on some other girl...so whats his deal ..can someone tell me or explain his game to me!!...SORRY SOOO LONG!!

he is just trying to play you. when you talk to him next time say bye and let that be the end of it. when he says "you know what to say" be like yea i said bye and thats what it means. Then just hang up with him and if he calls you back tell him your not with him anymore and that your not playing his games. Good luck and hope this helps!

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ok me n my x broke up i still like him and he acts like he still likes me. the prob is..he has a reputation of cheating on ppl before n hes sorta a player. anyway, hes wicked nice n we r friends but he invited me to go to the mall tommorow n idk if i shud go cuz ik wed just do stuff like other times and i wudnt wanna go just to giv him stuff..its not worth it. but i like him too..ikd help

i say to go to the mall with him and if he tries to pull any shit with you and tries to make a move just for you to give him stuff then say "we broke up, remember" and walk away. Let him know that if you do say yes that you want to go only as a friend tho. Good Luck and hope this helps.

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well.. I'm finally with Kevin. We've been together a little over 2 weeks. The more I'm with him. The more I fall in love with him. and I'm really comfortable around him. and I really love him. I don't know what to do. because like in school we hardly see each other. Im a senior.. and hes a freshman. hes suppose to be a Sophomore but he got in a lot of trouble. But yeah ne way.. we see each other in the hall way.. and we say hi.. but thats about it.. Then after school he has football practice. Then after that he goes with his friend.. and I absolutley hate him. It seems like he never has time for me.. and I talk to him all the time. and am usually with him every night. and Tonight is the first night I havent been with him or talked to him. and he tells me all the time he loves me.. but.. I'm afraid hes... I dunno.. falling outta love with me.. or planning to break up with him.. What should I do? I really dont want to lose him. I really do care about him alot.. :( Help someone!!

Sorry soo long.

call him up or when you are with him one night ask him where he sees your relationship going. tell him how you feel. pretty much everything you just told me. tell him how you dont want to loose him and how your afraid that he will break up with you. if he does love you like he says he does then he will understand. and then just try to make more plans woth him more often. But it is only one night he wasnt with you. Its no big. So i hope this has helped you. if yu need anything else, drop one in my inbox. Good Luck to ya hun!

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i have a bf and one of my really good guy frinds i think is crushing on me..i don't like him..but how do i find out if he likes me?

have a friend ask him. And tell him/her to tell you. You can either talk to one of your friends or one of his. But the only thing that might go wrong with this solution is that he might get the idea they are finding out for you because you like him.. if he approaches you tell him that you see him a s a friend only. tell him that you like him too much as a friend so you dont want to ruin the friendship you have with him by getting together. Good Luck

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OK guys.. A really cute guy likes me and invited me to go to his football game tomorrow since he's one of the starting players. I know to cheer for the team and when he does good, etc.. But I dunno if I'd be able to see him after the game. I want to see him but I don't want to wait around for him if he only wanted me to be there for support. So should I wait for him or just leave after the game ?

i think you should wait for him after the game. if he invited you then he will prolly want you to stay so he can hang out with you or something like that. But if your unsure then just call him up or talk to him and ask him if he wants you to stay after the game. ask him if he would want to do anything with you afterwards. Have Fun!!!

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Ok, I'm 14/f
And there is this guy at my church. He is soo funny and he's a really good Christian, which is very important for me, and he has an awesome personality and is very fun to be around. The only problem is, he is really small. He is like 1/2 a foot shorter than me and weighs about 30 lbs less. Beside all this, I really like him a lot because of the inside, which is really what counts, but I'm afraid of what my friends would say if we dated. Because well, I've been known for going for the good-looking guys. So what should I do?

Who care what everyone thinks. IF you like him for him then go for it. Looks arent everything. It matters on whats inside and how someone will treat you not on how hot or good-looking some one is. Dont let your friends pick who you can like. You pick who you like for yourself and dont let other people get to you about it.

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i like two guys. one guy im really good friends with. hes really smart and funny, and hes not really really popular. i mean i guess hes a little bit but not really. im not popular, but im not a loser. im just the average girl. the other guy i like is extremely popular. i could never get him though, so back to the other guy. i really want him to like me, and he doesnt like all the slutty girls. he thinks im really pretty and funny, but i want him to LIKE me. i weigh 135, im 5'3, brown hair with green eyes..any thing i could do to make him like me more? i rate!!

Just be your self. Let him know you like him and ask him to hang out with you one day to give you a chance. If he has told you your are pretty and and funny then it could be a hint to you that he likes you. if you dont want to come sraight out and tell him then give him little hints about it. But you cant make some one like you... the most important thing is being yourself! hope this helps and good luck!

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Okay, i like this guy and he can be SO SO sweet sometimes.. but he really can be a jerk too. He's called me names, and i think he takes advantage of a lot of people... but to me, he's still great, and i try to tell myself that he's not, but it doesn't work! i've liked him for over a year now. right now he's mad at me, and he tends to do this a lot. he like finds reasons to get mad, and he won't even tell me what it is! i don't understand it. i just need help on what i should tell him or what i should do. PLEASE DON'T SAY "GET OVER HIM"... I've heard it TOO many times, and I don't want to hear it again..
--*Thanks for the help. I'll rate*--

tell him to quit being such an ass. If you have come to the point that he is a jerk, nd by your question it seems to be that he is, then you need to try to find some one else that will treat you better than he will and better then what he is doing now. Maybe if you do find some one else you like that likes you and cares for you in return it might not be so hard for you to hear to get over this asshole. I know you dont want to hear it and all but this is all i can tell ya about it! Good Luck! hope i helped

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My Bf is really shy around me..if I try to talk to him or something he just kind gives me a thumbs up..i don't know if he just to shy to say something back or hes just doesn't care..I like him alot!! What do I do?

tell him how you feel about this situation. tell him you need to know why he doesnt talk to you. I dont think that it is because he just doesnt care about you. I think it may be because he likes you alot and maybe doesnt want to mess things up by saying the wrong thing. There could be many of reasons why he doesnt talk to you tho. just ask him about it. Good Luck and hope i helped ya out some.

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Okay I asked a question before about the pill and I was wondering something else....If I do decide to have sex w/out a condom, and get pregnant say five months later....if I keep taking the pill, will it kill the fetus before it gets into the really late stages of pregnancy? If anyone knows any websites with that information, i'd appreciate it a lot...i've searched and can't find anything....Thanks

Female, 16

No hun. the pill is so you dont conceive the fetus. it doesnt work as an aborting solution. here is a website about abortion if you would ever get pregnant while on the pill.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/ABORTION/medicalabortion.html
It is very unusual tho but just in case. Hope this helps you hun!

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I met a great guy. He is so sweet and made me smile everytime he said something...but there is always a catch isn't there!! A few days later he told me he liked this girl as if he had NO CLUE I liked him..sooo..what's the deal here? Should I just lay off and not talk to him now that he is with this girl?

No. dont just stop talking to him. he may not have known that you liked him. Tell him that you like him and see what he has to say about it all. Maybe he told you he liked the other girl just so you can hook them up or something. but just keep talking to him as a friend atleast.

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Im going to get my ears piercing in about a half hour on a 1-10 scale how bad does it hurt? And do you think i should get a double piercing in a few months?

it doesnt hurt all that bad maybe like a 2 or 3. yea when your other ones are completly healed go get the second on eodne. if thats what you want to do go for it.

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OK here's the deal. I smoke cigarettes .. yes I know all the bad stuff about it already and I know I shouldn't do it, blah blah blah. My best friend doesn't know tho. Shes my best friend in the entire world and I hate keeping this from her. A couple of people who she doesnt like know I smoke. She doesnt even know i talk to them. I hate keeping it from her. I dont want to quit. She thinks smoking is really stupid. How can I tell her about it ?

just tell her you started and you dont want to quit. if she is a ture friend she wont care about it. just be honest with her.

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I'm a 17 year old manle, and I have my mood changes just like every1 else, but it seems when i get depressed...it really hits me. LAtely it's hit be pretty hard becos it just appears the everything i do or everyone i come in contact with i just screw up, and i often have this feeling like i just want to get away from it all, just...go somewhere and leave my problems. Are these just normal feelings? and does anyone have any ideas for getting out of these moods? I have no thoughts of suicide or anything, I'm not like that, but i just have these terrible feelings and i just want to get away. someone please give me adive.
P.S. Not sure if i put this in the right catergory.

Yes. These feeling come to everyone. It is part of life. Just get together with a bunch of friends and hang out to take your mind off of the things that are bothering you. Or go out and do something you like to do like dirtbike riding or skating. Do something that really would interest you. Hopefully it will help. It has helped me many of times. So Good luck!

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I havent had a boyfriend in about a year and a half. My friends and family are always telling me i need to get out there and meet someone. The trouble is i dont really know where it is im supposed to go to meet theses said "guys".
Anyone have any suggestions on where to meet a nice guy?
Thanks :)

you can meet them everywhere. If your in school then look for one there. You can look at party's, the mall, a movie, when your out clubbin it somewhere. You'll find one. Dont worry about what your parents and friends say, your personal life is all about you and not what other people tell you to do or what they think about it. Good Luck! hope i helped.

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