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I met a great guy. He is so sweet and made me smile everytime he said something...but there is always a catch isn't there!! A few days later he told me he liked this girl as if he had NO CLUE I liked him..sooo..what's the deal here? Should I just lay off and not talk to him now that he is with this girl?
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he is prolly just telling you that to see how you react and see how jealous you would get. i think that if he knows you got mad, he would feel good because he knows you like him. just keep flirting! keep me updated *Bethers*
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Are you only talking to him because you want him to like you? Pssh thats dumb! Be his friend! Stay talking to him, plus, if things don't happen with this girl, maybe he'll look to you next. ;-)
AskMegan
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Don't give up on him!!! I like this guy and he knows it, he likes my friend. but i STILL haven't gotten over him. there's always hope! if ya want any more advice feel free to ask. Good luck!
*~*Jessica*~*
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No. dont just stop talking to him. he may not have known that you liked him. Tell him that you like him and see what he has to say about it all. Maybe he told you he liked the other girl just so you can hook them up or something. but just keep talking to him as a friend atleast.
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Ok some guys can be dick heads! Seriously maybe he either told you that so you'd lay off or try and get you to hook him up with her... he might not know that you like him. Try telling him
Good luck
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hope i helped
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Just tell him you like him, and see what he has to say. He may very like you too. who knows? its worth a shot. good luck! :)
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No! Don't stop liking him! I think you should get to know him more and you should become his best-freind! Then if he does go out with this girl then you'll be there when he needs a shoulder to cry on...when he needs someone to talk to...and when he just needs a freind! Then if they do break up you'll be there to support him and eventuallly he'll realize your great! So just keep your head up!
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i think that you should wait a wile and see wat he does with his to-be-girlfriend...like try to noe more about him before totallie going strait and just telling him how you feel...its better to noe wats under the water before diving in insted of just going ahed and be shark meat...ya noe?
PS...still talk to him...dunt throw away a frendship just coz he dunt like you...ya can still be frends!! ^-^
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no way. flirt all you want. open his eyes!
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Don't stop talking to him just because he likes another girl, he's still a friendly person and you can still enjoy the time you spend with him.
It may evolve into a relationship with him someday, you never know, his thing with the other girl may never happen, or if it does it may not last, like most relationships.
Wait a little bit on that, it's too early to tell.
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Be his friend! That way when he breaks up w/ his gf if u still have feelins for him u can ask him out and he would be comfortable with you and might have feelins for u.
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This just begs the question whether you consider him worth more than your own romantic expectations: if you really like him as a person, I bet you can be good friends anyway.
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If you think he's worth the effort, put your romantic feelings on the back burner for a while, and treat him like a really cool brother. See if you can meet his girl and try to get along with her.
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If you can do this without feeling left out and resentful, and without being a threat to the other girl, chances are you'll gain so much respect and trust from him that when he frees up later, you'll be the first person he wants to talk to.
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You shouldn't stop talking to him just because he likes another girl. You should stay friends with him because then he will get to know you better and he might develop feelings for you. Hope I helped and good luck :)
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you know its kinda funny cause my friend is going through the exact same thing but wut i think u should do is stay friends with him because then he will get to know u better and might begin having stronger feelings 4 u then her but i dont think u should stop talking to him.GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS :)
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Well, thats great that you met someone you like. First off, remember everything happens for a reason and every person we meet is brougt into our lives for a reason. That sucks that he likes another girl and is with her, but you should be thankful that this guy was upfront with you and told you about the other girl. Some guys would have just led you on and not cared. The respectable thing to do (if you really care about him) would back off of showing a crush on him, but don't back off from being his friend. Tell him that you are happy for him and you are really glad you met him and you think he's great. Just be his friend, and who knows maybe things won't work out with the other girl and you two will date. Good things come to those who wait! :)
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