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there's this boy that i really like but i dont think he likes me because he doesnt want to talk to me but i think because he knows i like him he looks at me sometimes when we're at lunch and we walk pass so wat do u think is happening plz help (link)
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Please, take a look at this. I think it will help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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what are the names of some good pop/rock bands??? (link)
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*Paramore
*Fall Out Boy
*Panic! At The Disco
*Green Day
*Kelly Clarkson
*Backstreet Boys
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does anyone know these lyrics like i cant think of the song all i can remember is its a guy singing and there like "you and i had something but" and then another part was like " i had my intentions" and thats all i can remember hahaha does anyone know what this might be? (link)
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Try using this, it might help you find your song.
http://findmeatune.com/
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So I used to use Yahoo Photos for selling my things on eBay. Because I can make several diffent albums at once so that I can show good pictures of all my current lots at once, each in their own album.
Is there another program thats sort of like Yahoo Photos?
I don't think Photobucket is... maybe I'm wrong.
ANyways thanks! (link)
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I've HEARD this one works great, I hope that it works for you. =)
http://www.smugmug.com/
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do you think black boys by bashy is a racist??
have they really banned it (link)
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1) Absolutely not, if you haven't seen the lyrics, you should look them up. They're quite inspiring, actually.
2) No, it's been awarded - not banned.
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Ok well I'm meeting my heroes twice in a day, so me and my friend decided for kicks we'd dress all 'punk/emo' the first time we meet them then girlie the second time.
I've got the punk bit down, but not the girlie. On Sunday me and my friend are going shopping for the clothes. Obviously I don't want to buy really expensive clothes as I'll never wear them again. So I'm thinking of going to one of those second hand shops poor people and old ladies shop at. They may not have the most trendiest clothes but I'll be able to find something.
So...what sorta clothes should I look for? I know it's hard to say because they dont have online catalogues and it's hard to know what clothes they will have but what should I be looking out for?
Also, I'm thinking of buying a long skirt and then just cutting it to what length I'd like, so it's just the top I'm looking for.
What styles colours etc? Also, I'm not trying to be anti-myself it's just a true fact, I'm a little bit chubby so it can't be something like, sexy :P
Thanks in advance. (link)
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Here are the stores I recommed:
*Dots
*Target
*Steve & Barry's
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I have a meeting with my school counselor. I want to ask him about scholarship opportunities in our area, but I get nervous really easily. Does anyone know of any questions I can at least start out with? or any essential information I should get from him? thank so much (link)
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The only place I know that is absolutely legit, is the Princeton Review. You'll have to start an account, but trust me, it's worth it and it's free and easy - very quick, too. It tells you ALL about college information, high school..just everything you need to know. And yes, that includes scholarships. Once you start an account, there will be a place to find out about scholarships.
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how do you tell if a guy likes you? Guys and girls can answer. im 13/f (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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Okay, well first off I should probably clarify - I don't really have a lot of guys. I have more like three, and I don't HAVE any of them. But I like all three of them, and I know at least two like me back - but that's not my problem. My problem is my best friend. She's always been a flirty person. It's just who she is and it doesn't really bother me - until lately. She isn't even friends with the boys I am, which is partially why we're such good friends, because we don't go around stealing each other's boys [by we I mean her, I couldn't steal a boy if even if I tried]. But lately, she's been around when I'm with them and she's been talking to them and flirting like crazy. And what bothers me the most is that she has at least ten guys wanting her. Why does she need to get more? She even has a semi-boyfriend. I don't think she can help it because that's who she is, and I've tried to talk to her about it but it doesn't stop. I don't know what to do. It's really getting on my nerves, though, and I don't want something like that to hurt our friendship. What can I do? (link)
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I think you need to talk about it with her once more, and only once more. Let her know that it really upsets you when she does this, and you can't take it anymore. And if she doesn't stop, you're afraid that your friendship will be ruined - and you honeslty, do NOT want that to happen. Try letting her know that, and be sure to express all of your feelings. It might make her understand your feelings more, at least, it should.
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Do you feel it's okay to change your significant other? Let's saying, you liked to drink. Do you think it's okay for your bf/gf to persuade/threaten your relationship for you to stop? Vice versa. Do you think it's okay for you to tell them to stop or make them feel guilty because you don't like it? What if they only drank on special occasions or every other week/month. Is it okay to control them?
I'm curious on your thoughts :] (link)
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I wouldn't say that controlling them is the answer, and I don't think there is anything wrong with drinking in moderation - as long as you know when to stop. BUT if you do stupid things/bad things while drunk, or a mean drunk, then I think that person has a right to confront you with it and make you make a decision. Of course, this is depending on the person - if it's your boyfriend/girlfriend, if you're serious and are living together or any of the other things I mentioned - I can understand that.
Like me, with my parents, I've lived with drinking my whole life. My dad drank and he died from it, my mother started shortly after and I think I have a right to say something about it because she has a drinking problem. There's a difference between drinking and knowing when to stop - and drinking and you can't stop, then you have a problem.
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Uh, oh...(maybe) three in a row!
I was listening to the radio yesterday, and the host said that there's a rumor (or maybe not just a rumor) that Britney Spears is pregnant for the third time. He mentioned that it should be "illegal," as a sort of half-joke...but is it true or not? Is she pregnant again? Just curious. (link)
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The rumor is going around, I personally do not believe it. And there isn't any real evidence as to whether or not she' pregnant, it's only speculation.
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Ok, well I'm looking for some cute hairstyles for a night out, except I have pretty ordinary hair. It's natural on top, and blonde underneath. I have two layers, and the longest layer goes about halfway down my boob, so I don't have short hair but it isn't that long either.
The only 'tools' I have is a hairdryer, straightener and crimper. I have a lot of hair ties, a few clips but I can get some more.
Even just some links would be nice, thanks a lot in advance :P (link)
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Hi, please take a look at #3. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=519359
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16/f
Hi. I only like guys who don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, and are nice, smart, and a virgin... but it seems like there are no guys out there at all who fit my description. So I'm just wondering, are there any many guys who are like that? Or are my standards too high? (link)
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No, there isn't anything wrong with that. In fact, mine is kind of the same, except the virgin part. I don't really mind because well, whether he is or is not - he ain't gettin' nothin' from me, haha. Anyway, there are guys like that, but unfortunately, they tend to be few and far between.
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hey well me and my friend went up to the library at our school last week and my friend was stealing things from peoples bags and i was just standing there and i was too scared to say anything to her about it because she would bash me but now she got caught and the deputy principal was asking me about information and i told him everything but since i was there with her i might get suspended from school! i dont know what to do please help me :(
thanksss
x (link)
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Your friend doesn't sound like a true friend, to me. If she would "bash you" for saying something when she is doing something illegal - and she would blame all of it on you...that's not a real friend. I would get as far away from this one as possible.
You've already told the principal all of the information, so unfortunately, there isn't much you do. I'm sure you've already told your parents the whole story, it's good to have them behind you. All you can do is be honest and if you have any proof that she was the only one stealing, you can use it against her. However, I'm assuming you don't have any, except for seeing it happen. Which you would think would be enough, but it really just leads to a "He said, she said."
I wish you nothing but the best of luck, and I sincerely hope you don't get suspended from school. If something like this ever happens again, either speak up or get away from the situation. You can't be blamed for something, if you aren't in the same place.
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What are some places online where they let teenagers write for magazines,websites, etc.? (link)
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*A Girl's World
www.agirlsworld.com
*WhateverLife
www.whateverlife.com [Click on Magazine]
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I need help on losing weight. (healthy ways)
What should i do? (link)
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Please, take a look at #2.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=520299
P.S. Be sure to eat all three meals, a day. Do not skip any of them, they are very important. Especially, breakfast.
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ok i want to get my girlfriend a necklace and its 100$ and she said its way too much is it? we been goin out for two months now, but we knew each other for years, and we been good friends too and we been through a lot together, and i love her with all my heart. (link)
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I'm not sure, I think this is really just an opinion. I think it's okay if you really want to buy it for her, and can afford it.
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Do you gain Tariff points ONLY through your A-Level grades (and single AS grades)...or is there another way of gaining them?
I have a table explaining how many points each Grade is worth, like an A is 120 points, but i was just wondering if there are any other ways of getting them too?
Thankyou. (link)
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I honeslty do not know, but I looked this up for you and hopefully, it will be helpful to you. =)
http://www.ucas.com/students/ucas_tariff/
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hey i like this guy in my class but hes my best bud and i want to know if he likes me too without ruining our friendship i need some advice!
(age:10) (gender:female) (link)
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Hello, the link below will help you out.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
As far as ruining the friendship, your friendship can end anyway. Anything can ruin it, and hey, it may even be ruined if the two of you don't date. That's if he feels the same as you do. So I wouldn't let that influence your decision, considering your friendship could end at any moment for any given reason.
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Is it usal for it to start heavy?? (link)
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It's a perfectly normal thing, it's a bit different for everyone, however, this is completely normal.
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