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my best friend flirts with all of my guys!
Okay, well first off I should probably clarify - I don't really have a lot of guys. I have more like three, and I don't HAVE any of them. But I like all three of them, and I know at least two like me back - but that's not my problem. My problem is my best friend. She's always been a flirty person. It's just who she is and it doesn't really bother me - until lately. She isn't even friends with the boys I am, which is partially why we're such good friends, because we don't go around stealing each other's boys [by we I mean her, I couldn't steal a boy if even if I tried]. But lately, she's been around when I'm with them and she's been talking to them and flirting like crazy. And what bothers me the most is that she has at least ten guys wanting her. Why does she need to get more? She even has a semi-boyfriend. I don't think she can help it because that's who she is, and I've tried to talk to her about it but it doesn't stop. I don't know what to do. It's really getting on my nerves, though, and I don't want something like that to hurt our friendship. What can I do?
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I think you need to talk about it with her once more, and only once more. Let her know that it really upsets you when she does this, and you can't take it anymore. And if she doesn't stop, you're afraid that your friendship will be ruined - and you honeslty, do NOT want that to happen. Try letting her know that, and be sure to express all of your feelings. It might make her understand your feelings more, at least, it should.
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Perhaps, it is time for another heart to heart with your friend. Express yourself a little more sternly. Restate the fact that it makes you uncomfortable, and that you don't appreciate what is going on even though your friend is exactly that..."your friend." A friend would be able to recognize when they are truly hurting those they are close to. So sit her down talk it out and let her know how she has been acting and how it is affecting you and the way you see her acting. Leave nothing out, talk about everything.
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