In this life, it's lessons have made me the simple kind of man I am today. My Alias is KMC. I was born on January 20th, 1983. Astrologically speaking, I am an Aquarius. The water bearer, philosopher thinker, and the mentor. I will not sit here making myself or you believe that I have all the answers. Because, no one has all the answers. The three primary categories I have selected, I have selected because in my life these three choices have affected me personally the most. Relationships-> Love Life, Technology-> Computers, Miscellaneous-> Spirituality. I have great qualifications for using this website with all of you. I was a peer mediator in college. I'm not going to side with anything or anyone either. I am very fair and look strictly at the facts. I will not let my personal views shield my advice to you. With that being said. Welcome to my little piece of the Internet.
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Do you feel it's okay to change your significant other? Let's saying, you liked to drink. Do you think it's okay for your bf/gf to persuade/threaten your relationship for you to stop? Vice versa. Do you think it's okay for you to tell them to stop or make them feel guilty because you don't like it? What if they only drank on special occasions or every other week/month. Is it okay to control them?
I'm curious on your thoughts :] (link)
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Control is not okay. Unless you agree on it in the BDSM department hehe. Seriously, control is not okay. Never let some one force you or just as you don't want to be forced don't force others to do what they do not. Everyone has a choice and they should not be reprimanded for making their choices.
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Okay, well first off I should probably clarify - I don't really have a lot of guys. I have more like three, and I don't HAVE any of them. But I like all three of them, and I know at least two like me back - but that's not my problem. My problem is my best friend. She's always been a flirty person. It's just who she is and it doesn't really bother me - until lately. She isn't even friends with the boys I am, which is partially why we're such good friends, because we don't go around stealing each other's boys [by we I mean her, I couldn't steal a boy if even if I tried]. But lately, she's been around when I'm with them and she's been talking to them and flirting like crazy. And what bothers me the most is that she has at least ten guys wanting her. Why does she need to get more? She even has a semi-boyfriend. I don't think she can help it because that's who she is, and I've tried to talk to her about it but it doesn't stop. I don't know what to do. It's really getting on my nerves, though, and I don't want something like that to hurt our friendship. What can I do? (link)
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Perhaps, it is time for another heart to heart with your friend. Express yourself a little more sternly. Restate the fact that it makes you uncomfortable, and that you don't appreciate what is going on even though your friend is exactly that..."your friend." A friend would be able to recognize when they are truly hurting those they are close to. So sit her down talk it out and let her know how she has been acting and how it is affecting you and the way you see her acting. Leave nothing out, talk about everything.
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