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is 100$ to much for her.


Question Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 9:46 pm

ok i want to get my girlfriend a necklace and its 100$ and she said its way too much is it? we been goin out for two months now, but we knew each other for years, and we been good friends too and we been through a lot together, and i love her with all my heart.

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WittyUsernameHere answered Wednesday November 28 2007, 9:33 pm:
The thought behind the gift is what matters.

Honestly, if you can afford it, buy it. Tell her that its not about the money its about the fact that you saw that necklace and you wanted to see it on her, and cost did not matter to you. Explain if you have to that money is not something you want to keep track of, and that you don't want her to think she has to spend equal money on you, because thats not what it is about.

Tell her that if you can do something for her, and you want to do it, you will. And that she shouldn't worry about it, because its just how you express that you care for her.

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CandyxCanez answered Wednesday November 28 2007, 3:39 pm:
Well that is a lot of money, not that much but it depends on how much money you have. And maybe she was planning on getting you something smaller than 100$ And does not want to feel stupid if you give her something 100$ and she gives you something idk like 50$ If you get the point im trying to make.
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advicer answered Wednesday November 28 2007, 3:20 pm:
It depends. Most people probably wouldn't spend that much after only two months together. You can spend as much as you want, as long as you can afford it and everything. She's probably just saying that so it doesn't seem like she just expects you to give her gifts that are that expensive.

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Brandi_S answered Wednesday November 28 2007, 2:59 pm:
Since you have known each other for so long, etc., then it is really up to you. Get her something you WANT to get her.

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P.S. Next time, don't tell her how much your gifts will/did cost. Then you won't have this problem again.

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LagunaBabe answered Wednesday November 28 2007, 2:43 pm:
I'm not sure, I think this is really just an opinion. I think it's okay if you really want to buy it for her, and can afford it.

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