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For Halloween Im gonna be a tree. its different and i was gonna wear brown shoes, pants, and long-sleeve undershirt and green t-shirt on top and spray my hair green. what are some ideas to make my costume funny and unique? (link)
you could get one of those afro wigs, spray paint it green (like another person suggested) and stick one of those fake birds in it. you know. the kind that look real. you can get them from craft stores.


i'm trying to learn how to play guitar by myself. and i really need sites that can help me learn how to play guitar and stuff. anything online will be really helpful. no, guitar lessons isn't needed. i'm not serious about learning how to play a guitar, i just wanna learn how to play several songs in it and stuff. so please help! (link)
hey thats actually just like me, wanting to learn how to play it online. the thing is, NO websites barely work, the ones with diagrams and stuff. what you should definanetly do is go to youtube.com, andtype in learn guitar. it teaches you how to get the notes, and then they can show you how to play songs


The bar scene is beginning to make me sick.
I really wanted to try the whole "interweb dating" thing, so I did! I met someone from MySpace and he completely hated me. You might say "Oh Erica, you're clearly exaggerating."
No. If this guy had a machete, I wouldn't have a head.
I want to date. Any advice, oh hell, just any response whatsoever, would make me happy. (link)
hey i'm in the same boat. once you're done with school finding dates is nigh impossible. i'll see a chick somewhere and she'll be with her friends and i'll find out she's 15 and that will be that. so i'll meet a girl online and we'll date for three weeks or so and that will be that. the fact is at this age either people have been with someone for years and are looking at marriage or are barflys getting drunk at clubs and going home with someone different each week. and those of us who are tired of it and just want to meet someone are sitting around with fishing poles in the water waiting for a bite. and when we find one she's either psycho, unattractive, or mean as hell. but giving up and being the crazy person with a ton of cats. or going back to the club scene until we're 36 acting like we're 21 isn't much of an option.

so you gotta keep on playing the field, maybe you'll get lucky. just keep at it, you'll find someone good.


The bar scene is beginning to make me sick.
I really wanted to try the whole "interweb dating" thing, so I did! I met someone from MySpace and he completely hated me. You might say "Oh Erica, you're clearly exaggerating."
No. If this guy had a machete, I wouldn't have a head.
I want to date. Any advice, oh hell, just any response whatsoever, would make me happy. (link)
i like making people happy. so heres my response. oh and definitely dont try the whole ad in newspaper thing. :)


okay i need to know if grls have their period one last time before they stop for the 9 months of pregnacy? (link)
http://www.drspock.com/article/0,1510,6004,00.html


okay way back in the beggining of july this year, i found a quarter sized drop of brownish/reddish blood. i remember that before i noticed the blood, i had cramps and it was hard to stay still and it would only feel better if a moved a lot and i kept feeling like i had to go to the bathroom sooo bad, and then i didnt even need to go. i havent found any blood since and its now almost halloween. was that my period or did i pop my cherry? i dont remember if i was being active that day when i found the blood, but i play soccer and run a lot. (link)
pop you cherry means you had sex, the very first time so it could have been your period


its all the guys are into in 7th grade. I am at 13 year old female size 34 A. I am very slender and tall (5'4) or so. I want bigger boobs. How can I get them without pills or anything.

*I dont need advice on all that self consicous crud.k?

*And I dont want to have to stuff my bra.

Is there any special food that helps or something. (link)
dont worry im with you on this one
im like the same as you, same height and size, but 14

basically, just wear padded bras, thats all you can do, because pills and excersizes wont work

BUT heres the good news: there was a recent survey (i saw this on the tyra banks show) and it says now that men prefer butts over boobs, but juts by barely (like it was close), but still :)

just wait a few years, i promise you'll get bigger

lastly, thats what it was like in 7th grade, but now in high school, its about the asses


The new My Chemical Romance song... Welcome to the Black Parade.... what is that song about? (link)
haha no way i just read an article on it like 40 seconds ago:

http://news.aol.com/entertainment/music/articles/_a/from-jersey-in-black-leather-and/20061023143609990001


I really hope this question will not be deleted.
I got a lot of hair on my balls
I wanna get rid of them and I dont know how.
I cant shave them, I definatelly cant wax them so I just spend a lot of time trimming them every now and then.
Any other solution? How to shave balls they are very sensitive and get cut really easilly.
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what you gotta do is let em get cold and all shrunk up like they normally do when they get cold, then put on a lot of shaving gel/creme, then shave from the middle of your nutsack towards your pubic area, and do this for the entirity of the sack, it'll be hard to figure out at first but you'll be alright. i shave my pubes all off including the balls and it's not something to worry about just try it and be careful.


okay so im a 14/f and i had sex with a 15/m without protection. now i have been gettin alot of the syptoms of pregnacy plus my period is late by 2 days. so i was wondering if its possible im pregnate and when should i take the test. thanks a bunch! (link)
Well...I hope this teaches you TO USE PROTECTION. Better yet, maybe you shouldn't be having sex at 14. But, I'm not here to lecture.


So, on with your problem. DUH ITS POSSIBLE YOURE PREGNANT.


Your period can be late for may reasons. You're still young so it might just still be irregular. Or, you might be too stressed out. Nonetheless, you did have unprotected sex so there's a huge chance that it's late because of that (not trying to scare you, just the truth).


Pregnancy tests should be taken after your missed period.


If you are pregnant, I hope you make the right decisions and start making SMART choices. goodluck with all that.


Does anybody know where minimizing bras are sold in the NYC area? Thanks. (link)
I don't think Victoria's Secret has minimizing bras. I know they have full coverage ones though. You'll have better luck looking at department stores because VS is more of the sexy/cutesy type bras which minimizing bras aren't.


Hey! Well, I'm 14/f, like 118 lbs, 5'6, and am like a 34 or 36 A. I know that I fit into the clothes at Abercrombie & Fitch, American Eagle, Aeropostale, and Hollister, but I'm not sure if I fit into the clothes at abercrombie. So with the given information, can my size fit into clothes at abercrombie kids because I really like their clothes. Thanks! :) (link)
Pants is a definate no. I'm 5'4 and I can fit pants in abercrombie size 16 but they're too short.


But shirts, yeah you can. If you wear a XS/S in A&F then you can fit a XL in abercrombie. The only problem you might have though, is they might be short as well. But only a few fit that way, most should fit fine. I'm a 34 C and I can fit an XL abercrombie and a XS A&F so you'll be fine.


And yeah, I really like some of abercrombie's shirt too! They're cuter than the A&F ones :)


What are the chances of being pregnant but still having your normal menstrual cycle? (link)
if you get your period, you are NOT pregnant. if you are pregnant, then you will not get your period

its either pregnancy or period, but you cant do both


ok did anyone watch the TNA vedio where they tell you kurt angle is going to TNA. because i swear they say KIRK angle instead of kurt. crazy how they take major talent who was released because of drug problems, and then they dont even say his name properly! did anyone notice this or were my ears playing tricks on me? (link)
yeah same here, i heard them say kirk, and totally agree!


ok did anyone watch the TNA vedio where they tell you kurt angle is going to TNA. because i swear they say KIRK angle instead of kurt. crazy how they take major talent who was released because of drug problems, and then they dont even say his name properly! did anyone notice this or were my ears playing tricks on me? (link)
yer i heard it to, bloody pathetic


i was juss wondering. can ou sleep with tampons in? (link)
you can just as long as you dont sleep for more than 8 hours (because thats how often you should do change them)

also, if you want to sleep for more than 8 hours, than wake up in the middle of the night to change it


i got a good body all i really want is a flatter stomach, its not that big its just got a little fat that bugs me , i wanna be able to wear short tops n not be insecure about it please tell me how 2 make my stomach look hot (link)
20 situps, 20 crunches. thats what you should do ont he frist day
and each day after that, add 3 crunches, until you get up to about 50 and then just do that (you can keep going, but that will be hard)


why are people so deathly afriad of rats? like they scream and the rats wont even hurt them! i like rats.

so why? (link)
like why people are afraid of spiders.

but its also because they are really dirty and carry many diseases

my praents don't like rat or mouses because of their tails, but they dont mind hamsters

different people have their different reasons


hey,

this might sound like a weird question but can someone tell me what an SUV (car) is?

Thanx (link)
really big cars that rae bad for th enviornment because they waste a lot of gas

suv means sports utility vehicle


i am a virgin but u an seriously thinking about having sex soon. on halloween i think might be the time. but my period will be somewhere right in there. so i was wondering if you have sex right before or right after you have your period, is it more likely you will get pregnet or anything? because i dont wanna get pregnet at all! but i think i am ready for sex. and if i am on my period on halloween can i still have sex and all? i know that might be nasty though. (link)
you are less likely to get it after, because when you have your period, that is the blood is taking out the egg, since it was unfertilized.
the day before as well

but seriously, just by a condom, go on birth control, or maybe even BOTH!

you can have sex on your period.

but seriously just get a condom they are really cheap, and babies are really expensive




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