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ok , im 14 and im 5'9 and im 118 lbs. . ppl r always talking behind my back about how skinny i am or how tall i am ro something that upsets me . evn my friends hav made a comment about me and there not to perfect themselves . sum ppll say im pretty and im tall and im soo lucky and then othr ppl who are way shorter then me say " oh ur to tall thats not ryte . that makes me ssoo mad . but it makes me wonder if im normal . so can neone answer my question? am i normal (link)
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ur normal! u should try modeling...since ur tall n skinny...;) give it a try! wut would ur friends say after that?!?! xoxo effy
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Well, I'm 12 years old and 5'3, I'm only 100 pounds but i look fat, people ask me how much I weigh and I say around 100 and they don't believe me, they think I weight more than that. This really ticks me off so I was wondering if I should loose weight and look thinner or what (link)
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u should exercise...n that's it eat healthy..dont loose weight though...just try to give ur body a nice shape so u wont look fat..n that would b doing exercises!! good luck xoxo effy
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ok i'm really short like 5'0 and I think I'm over really weight I'm about 125-130:-/ and I want to get myself bad into shape. Do you think I'm honestly over weight? Can you tell me some workouts that can help me?
I'm swimming alot now and getting back into doing a lot of crunches every day. But I need more to do. Plus I'm trying not to eat junk food and eat health (fruits, salads, some veggies) although I don't do good with veggies I don't really like them what do I do in that case? (link)
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hey well ur not that bad...i mean u dont need much work...just keep on eating healthy dont eat junk food...n exercise...add runnin in to ur daily workouts :-D xoxo effy
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hey...who likes the song SlowMotion By Juvinelle?!?!? (if you dont liike it tell me your
favorite song!!) (link)
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i lov that song...but i also like other songs...i lov da song "dip it low" by christina now...n i lov eminem 2 he's my fav rapper ;) xoxo effy
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I have long , black hair ( i'm asian ) , and fairly light skin . What colour should i streak my hair ( keep in mind that i'm only doing three thin streaks , because i'll need to hide this during shcool time )
- army green
- neon green
- electric blue
- turquoise
- purple
- any other suggestions ? (link)
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none i think u should get highlights blonde wit a lil brownish n reddish...i think it will look pretty cute...xoxo effy
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confused gurl,
next year me and my bestest friend are splitin up i am so scared that we will forget about each other i dont want that 2 happen.
HELP- =( (link)
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well...sorry to tell u this but while u grow up n u go to diff schools u'll make lots of new friends n lose lots of friends...b/c when u go to diff schools u'll meet new ppl n same thing wit ur friend..obviously she will b closer wit the ones she sees everyday..n so will u..but that dont mean u guys have to stop being friends...but u guys will grow appart eventually...those are things that happen in life n ppl just have to deal wit them...xoxo effy
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okay im 16/f n im a virigin
ive have known ma man for 3 1/2 years and he really wants to do it and so do i.but im so scared b/c its my 1st time and im so scared of gettin pregnant. he told me that we will use a condom and everything but still im not 100% sure.can anyone tell me how can i be 100% sure that i will not get pregnant. (link)
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well b4 u do it b sure that ur ready to make that big step in ur life...n 2 b sure to not get pregnant tell him to wear a condom n while doin it to b carful n to check the condom once in a lil bit ;)...most of the guys can actually control when to cum...so b4 he cum's tell him to stick it out of u...n then cum ;) also when he wears the condom tell him to wear it a lil bit loose so incase he cum's the condom wont break...xoxo effy
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what are your turn ons?
do you prefer bad boys or nice guys?
do you like a guy who calls you every night or a guy who calls you every other week?
with a girl you havent seen for a while, but really like(it was mutual two years ago, but it didnt work out), how do you ask her if shes into you? (link)
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my turn ons are...kissin on the neck,stomache..carresing my body etc...i dont relly have a type...i actually like both "bad n good" guys...i like a guy who calls me everynight....
i think u should talk to her...n ask her if she wants to chill wit u or wants to do something wit u...n then while u guys are out...see how she acts...u will b abel to tell if she's in to u or not ;) good luck xoxo effy
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WHat do guys want in a girl? (link)
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pretty face,nice personality,nice body,2 b comfortable round him, b her self...etc ;) xoxo effy
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I have really big breasts and a really big behind and guys at school and even guys that are old enough to be my grandfather keep checking me out and saying stuff to me, that its kinda annoying. when a guy at school says it, i dont mind, cuz guys at my school are fine, but when a man says it, i feel like slapping him! does anybody know any good "comebacks" that i can say to those guys? (link)
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damn i feel ur pain cuz that shit happens 2 me 2...i work at a library n there plenty of old ppl come...n its like they never seen a gurl b4...they keep on staring n so on...i just get that as a compliment n try to feel good bout my self...so i think u should feel good bout that n take it as a compliment ;) xoxo effy...
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I'm 16 & i admit, im currently head over heels with my best guy friend. He's loyal, truthful, funny, sweet, intelligent, gives me attention, flirts with me, & he's luckily single (actually-- neither of us have ever had a significant other.. which would suprise lots of people because -not to sound concieted- we're well liked & just plain good people.. and he for one is a GOOD catch) Anyways, we're kind of stuck in a rut. I am almost positive that he likes me, and i definately like him. Maybe like isnt even the word.. cause its stronger than that. But neither of us will make the first move. I know for a fact that both of us have gone through a situation where we do try to make the first move with another person & it ends up in a mistake or whatnot. So im afraid we're both too scared to take the initiative. I'm trying to ease my way into it.. taking baby steps & making subtle comments & trying to make him comfortable to make the first move himself. Any of you ever been in a situation like this?? Please help me.. i dont want to lose him & regret not taking my chance!! :o\ (link)
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well...shit if i knew that he liked me n i liked him a lot...then i would deff. make the first move...b/c i wouldnt wanna loose my chances n regreat for not takin the chance...so if i was u i would take my chance...so go for it gurl..wut u waiting for?!?!? good luck xoxo effy
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I am 14 and I am a female. I really like this guy. We were good friends to where atleast I can ask or tell him anything. He likes a really cute girl that everyone likes. Sometimes I go off on him online and i tell him he is stupid for liking her. I only say this stuff because I like him and I am jealous that he doesnt like me. I used to talk to him about about things and he would listen. Now he seems uncomfortable. Hes not shy around me, it is more like annoyed. So I guess what I am trying to ask is, What did I do to make him act like this, How can I fix it, and how do I get him to talk to me like he used to???? Please help, thank you! (link)
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may be he realized that u like him n he dont want to hurt u so he tryinto move away from u...so talk to him n if u wanna just b koo friends like u use to b then make it clear to him that u lov him as a best friend.. ;) good luck xoxo effy
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i like this one guy ALOT!! seriously i cant get him outta my head!! and he now knows that i like him and all my friends r telling me just to ask him out n stuff and i dont want to cuz i just have a huge fear of rejection and i mean ya i rilly wanna go out w/ him but id rather have him ask me out and i mean if i knew for shur that he liked me the same way i like him then i would but i dont know if he does so wut should i do?? (link)
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just wait a lil longer...if he doesnt ask u out then just move on..i bet there are lots of guys who wants to go out wit u..give them a chance n get to know them :) good luck xoxo *effy*
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ok. ive liked this guy for a couple yrs now and i thought he liked me too. but ever since he started talking to my friends online, all i ever hear is how he likes them and how hott he thinks they are-- but he's never even met them! sometimes me and this guy (he's also my neighbor) walked around the neighborhood at night and it seemed like he liked me as more than a friend. but other times im jsut treated like the "annoying next door neighbor". ive tried to tell him how i feel by writing a note, but he read it threw it away. i know he knows i like him but he doesnt even acknowledge it in any way. i dont know what to do about this. it seems as if he ignores me when im around him; i dont know what to do!
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forget him and move on...its obvious he teasin u n he leadin u on just for the fun of it..so forget him n move on...show him u dont give a shit...b/c when u show him u care he prolly feels way to special so show him u dont care show him that u aint interested anymore..n move on...good luck xoxo *effy*
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Ok here's the problem. I kind of have a "thing" with this guy. What I mean by thing is we hang out all the time and everynight he walks me to my door and kisses me goodnight. I know he likes me because he has told me before. The problem is I want him to commit to me. I mean I want him to be my boyfriend! I'm just WAY too afraid to ask him out because I'm not sure of his answer. I want him to ask me out! What do I do?? (link)
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well i would say b patient n wait a lil longer...if he doesnt ask u out dont ask him out unless ur sure he's gonna say yes! while u being patient talk to him bout stuff...try to see wut he likes n how he's like..try to figure out if he even wants to b in a relationship...may be he scared 2 ask u out b/c of the same reasons u have...u never know so show him that ur interested...show him u care ;) xoxo good luck *effy*
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Ok, this guy I met at a party well he likes me and I like him and he told me this and he told me he wanted 2 get 2 kno me better and he also said that he wanted 2 b in a relationship w/ me but yesterday i got an email from him saying this girl he had a crush on 4 a long time asked him out and now they're going out. what should I do? should i email him back and say how i feel? help!!!! (link)
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wow thats harsh...but i say forget him dont even bother...if u like him enough then dont b cock blocker n dont ruin his friendship...+ dont go 2 much after him...dat will make him feel special so...forget him n move on xoxo effy
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Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?
Signed,
Sad and confused!
15/Female (link)
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try to contact him n see wussup...but from experience LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP DONT WORK!!!but its worth giving it a try ;) see wuts gonna happen if it dont work dont worry u'll have lots of b/f's through the yrs ;) so it shouldnt b a big deal :-D xoxo *effy*
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Me, and my friend have been fighting alot. Lets just say her name is ellie, well ellie and me have been best friends since the 3rd grade, so now thats about 4 years of being best friends. but now shes starting to get a little bossy, saying stuff like im getting to comfertable with her family like i dont say thank you enough. that kind of stuff tho i am fine with. but this morning she started to say that i was getting to comfertable again, and saying was acting really bitchy and all i did was i was hangin out with her brother, and her neighbor, but i was leaving her out. But besides this morning shes been fighti with me over a lotta little thing, and im starting to get really stressed out. i dont kno wut to do anymore. PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME. should i break the friendship, or try to work with it. im starting to feel like i cant breathe. (link)
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hi, well i think that u should talk to ur friend n tell her how u feel...may be she will change...n if she doesnt then just try to keep away from her n hang out wit other friends ;) i dont see why she treating u like that..but talk to her n see wussup :) good luck xoxo *effy*
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hi haj u duing
me and my man have been having sex but he scare sme he make ssuch an ungly face when we have sex he likes it hard
is it okay to try it in the ass
i am scared that his dick will have shit all
over
have u tryed it in the ass
aslo when w ehave sex he says im gonna kill u one day during sex
do u think he is threantning me
i am scared help me out give me some advices what to do (link)
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hi, i'm fine thank u...i hope ur the same way...well i dunno how to help u in this one b/c i'm a vergin still so i dont relly have experience wit the "sex life", n everything..but i think that if he scares u then he is not the right person...if u dont like it hard or w/e then u should tell him that u dont like it hard...about the ass thingy i dunno but from wut i hurd from friends n ppl it hurts like shit..so if u like pain go for it!n dont worry bout shit on his dick...but if u wanna b sure bout it then u should go ahead n taste it..(suck it).n when he says he gonna kill u during sex that means that he gonna go hard on u! hope i helped xoxo *effy*
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Is 9th grade a good grade and does it go by quickly? (link)
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yes but its also the yr that u have to work a lot...if u do good in 9th grade u' wont have much problems during the other yrs ;) n yes it passes by pretty quick! damn i miss 9th grade..good luck xoxo *effy*
p.s. it will b ur fav. yr when u grow older ;) (from experience)
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