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fear of rejection!
i like this one guy ALOT!! seriously i cant get him outta my head!! and he now knows that i like him and all my friends r telling me just to ask him out n stuff and i dont want to cuz i just have a huge fear of rejection and i mean ya i rilly wanna go out w/ him but id rather have him ask me out and i mean if i knew for shur that he liked me the same way i like him then i would but i dont know if he does so wut should i do??
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just wait a lil longer...if he doesnt ask u out then just move on..i bet there are lots of guys who wants to go out wit u..give them a chance n get to know them :) good luck xoxo *effy*
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Ask him straight up, think ahead of time "the worst thing thats gonna happen is hes gonna say no" But really what do u have to lose, u never know if he likes u until to ask , try and get over ur fear!! If he doesnt like u, oh well, let it roll of ur back, no guy is worth liking, being like that. U never know, he might be scared too, jsut make the first move!!!!!!!! :)
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just ask him, u have nothing 2 lose if he rejects u its his lost
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try ur hardest to get over fear of rejection. U would help urself alot. and the guy will most likely say yes. u need to try. if he says no den its his loss. i hope i helped.
~Amy~
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U should just be brave and ask him. If he says no then, ask him will there evr be a chance of u guys goin out and if he says no then, ask him if u guys can be friends then. I f he says yes to that then, u guys can become friends and get to know he well and then if u guys are good friends ask him out if u get all the signs. 1. he looks at you a lot. 2. he is shy to talk to u even tho u guys are friends. 3. Sometimes when he talks to you he doesn't look at ur face. if u want to know the rest of the signs e-mail me, bye
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the fear of rejection always sucks! But if you never go for it then how will you know if something is there or not? :) I think you should ask him... but in a way that he could never say no!! Some things that my friends have done something like *fill their bedroom up with rose peddles and a note *fill their room up with balloons and in every balloon write something sweet, then in the last one ask him out *or just find something that he's into and just go from there!! GoOd LuCk!! plz rate me
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i am in the same EXACT situation, i know what you are feeling. i would just like be friends with him and like let him know how you feel just not only by telling him but by your actions and maybe you will get something out of him :-)
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I know rejection is tough to deal with, but if you don't ask him out, you're probably going to regret it for A LONG time. Imagine that you don't ask him out and 5 years from now you find out that he liked you, but he was scared too? Wouldn't you feel really bad? You know a lot of times girls put all the pressure on guys to ask them out, when they can be just as shy. And to make it more comfortable, maybe try calling him or talking to him on the internet. any way you do it, ease into it, don't just come out and say "Be my boyfriend please!". Try, "Hey, doesn't w/e movie look great? Hey maybe we could see it sometime?...Like Friday?"
And even if he says no, you'll always be able to say that you were the girl who went and did it, not let her fear overtake her. and if he rejects you, it'll hurt, but you'll get over it! you'll move on and find a guy a little more interested ;)
thankz for your time and please feel free to ask me about anything in the future!
Lani :)
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well what you got to do is that i was the same one and i just sent this kid and email and said that we need to talk about going out cause everyoen wants to or somthing like that and trust me its helps alot
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Maybe you could have one of our friends ask him if he likes u and if he would go out with u! but u no wut? love is all about taking chances and risks and rejection is one of those risks..so just find out if he likes you frum maybe his friend also or something along those lines and i hope you guys work out! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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tell him how you feel first..or get one of your friends to go up to him and ask if he likes you! that always works!!
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