ok. ive liked this guy for a couple yrs now and i thought he liked me too. but ever since he started talking to my friends online, all i ever hear is how he likes them and how hott he thinks they are-- but he's never even met them! sometimes me and this guy (he's also my neighbor) walked around the neighborhood at night and it seemed like he liked me as more than a friend. but other times im jsut treated like the "annoying next door neighbor". ive tried to tell him how i feel by writing a note, but he read it threw it away. i know he knows i like him but he doesnt even acknowledge it in any way. i dont know what to do about this. it seems as if he ignores me when im around him; i dont know what to do!
Derfel answered Friday July 2 2004, 7:45 pm: To be honest if he is refusing to communicate theirs not a lot you can do. My advice is very simple. Either ignore him (not all together - speak to him, be polite but nothing more) or contort him face-to-face, tell him how you feel and ask him to be clear with you. Good luck
Derfel
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sweetie4143 answered Friday July 2 2004, 7:30 pm: Try ignoring him for a few days... kinda blow him off nicely. Chances are, if he feels anything for you, he will start talking to you more and more. Then, slowly, you start to talk to him more and more. It worked with my boy friend and we've been going out for 10 months :) [ sweetie4143's advice column | Ask sweetie4143 A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Friday July 2 2004, 7:03 pm: Trust me if a guy likes you, and especially if he knows you like him back he will let you know some how. But by this guys actions, it seems as though he is not interested in you. You say he threw away your note and he treats you like the annoying next door neighbor or doesn't acknowledge you, then what should that tell you? Maybe he did like you before when the 2 of you used to take those walks, but now he's sending mixed messages and that is messing with your head. You don't deserve that you are better than that, and you need to move on and find someone who will appreciate you. Good Luck! :)
Shortie8959 answered Friday July 2 2004, 6:06 pm: this guy is being a huge poohead. u have 2 realize that. quit hanging around this guy, it doesn't seem like he really likes u. thx. hope i helped. rate me plz.
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