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boyfriend trouble
i really like this boy!
Hi my name is Jessica Im 12 yrs old and i really like this boy. We dated for about 8 and a half months then we broke up. But I went out with another boy about 3 weeks after we broke up but i realized when i was going out with my new b/f that i missed my ex so much so i dumped him now i want my ex back and now hes saying he doesnt know if he still likes me and maybe he might go back out wth me. What should i do
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well try to stay close as much as possible n give him sometime to think...(not a lot just a lil) n then ask him how he feels if he says he dont know still then move on...u cant b lettin a kid leading u on like dat...just move on n live ur life to the fullest...u'll meet plenty new guys that u'll like a lot...give ur life new opportunities by meeting new ppl :-D u never know where that special one is...good luck xoxo effy
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Don't wait for him...you shouldn't have to WAIT that long for a boy...if he doesn't even KNOW if he likes you know I wouldn't wait on him because meanwhile there's other guys out there who maybe batter for you.
Then again if you REALLY feel like you would wait forever for him...that's your choice...
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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WoW! I went through the EXACT same thing when I was about 13! What I suggest is that you spend sometime by yourself and decide who you really want to be with the most! Dont think about their feelings, think about yours. So, call a timeout with your boyfriend and get a little alone time!
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If you really like this boy, then give him time to make up his mind. But, remember taht you are still young and you have your whole life for boys, so don;t just sit around waiting for one. Good Luck! :)
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Well you should let him think about it a little bit. I mean you guys did break up and then go out with someone else, he just has to feel like he can trust you, and that he still likes you. Im pretty sure he does still like you, but he has to realize it. Do not constantly ask him if hes made up his mind, until he does just be his friend and talk to him as if you two are just friends then he will realize that you still do care for him and that he wants to go out with you again. Thats my opinion, I hope it helps!
*Amanda*
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Well, first of all, 8 and a half months at 12 years old is kinda a long time! I use to be in your same postion, and first and foremost you need to know that what's really meant to be is just going to happen! You can't force things like that! You are so young and I know right now it may seem like your ex is the only guy that's ever going to give you those butterflies in your tummy but you really never know until you give some other guys a chance! It's okay to still like your ex..and still want to be with him..boys aren't always as sure as we are..so what I think you need to do is just kinda tell your ex.." You know I really care about you, and I really like you and you make me happy and I want us to work..and I know that you're not so sure so I'll just kinda back off for a week or so and you can tell me what you want and what makes you happy then" Say that to him..and if he tells you within the week then you know he cares about you and you'll get an answer..don't bug him about him though..just let him come to you..don't be too pushy with him Just give it a lil' time..and if it turns out that he doesn't want to be with you..well that's okay there's lots of other fishes in the sea..and it'll be his loss..and who knows if y'all are really meant to be maybe one day you will be back together!! :) Good luck and have fun!!
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go bak out with ur ex if u still like him
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