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Kristina is the name i'm a self taught artist iv'e been a featured advice columnist 9 time’s

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how do you delete a xanga can someone send me the link

well first thing is first make sure you are signed into your xanga there should be a place where it says need help click here and if you scroll down you will see a place where it says your account and it should say delete site that should tell you what to do. sunshine 1232

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i'm forteen and i have never really had as serious boyfrined. Is there something special to look for in a guy? How do i know if hes the right one??? help please

well i think the most thing i would look for in a guy would be that they like you for who you are and not for what you look like and how much money you have and if they love you it wouldn't matter to them of how much money you have they sure be muture enough to not judge you by what you look like and it doesn't matter what is on the outside it is what on the inside that counts it is what you feel in your heart. sunshine 1232

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i'm 5'1 and i'm really short compared to my friends, its kinda embaressing since i use to be taller than most of them.. what can i do to grow taller? no pills or w/e

well i don't think you can do anything your body grows on it's own and well i think that when your sleeping your body grows you can't do anything to make yourself taller. sunshine 1232

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hey. my best friend has this problem. her parents wont let her go onto this website because of so block thing that my best friends other friend gave to my Best friends mom. she likes this site. and wen ever shes at my house shes on it. how should i help?

sit her parents down and tell them that this site isn't dirty or anything it is just a site where you give advice to people that need it and if there is any abuse or things like that. they have people on here and they could get them in trouble. sunshine 1232

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A lot of people at school call me teachers' pet. I don't like any of my teachers, nor suck up to them. I only get good grades because I want to get into the Naval Academy. I don't show off or anything.. i think.. so what should I do to shut these bitches up? (13, F, 7th grade)

well no i think you shouldn't say anything to them you don't have to prove anything to them and they are jealous that you get better grades then them and the only thing that should matter is that you really want to get into the naval academy and that you are doing everything you can to get into that school. people say things because they are jealous and they are not thinking before they speak. sunshine 1232

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There is this guy at skool he has a girlfriend (his girlfriend is my friend) but I don't think that he likes her. He is always looking at me and like walking by me and smiling ( we have a very big school so there are many different ways for him to go) I really like him. Does he like me? What if he does will my friend be mad?

well a boy may like you but they don't show it i think he likes you well if he dosn't like your friend then he is all yours and i think she will be mad at you for a couple days but she can't stay mad at you forever you have to become friends again. sunshine 1232

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i have a bf and icant tell him why i love him i mean its heard because i dont know what to say i mean i love him i sware i havent ever had this of a stong feelings for a guy as i do for him what should I do PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

you could say to him i love you because of who are and not how you look or how you act and i hope that our love will always be forever and i will always love you no matter what happens that is what i think you should do tell him how you really feel and express your feelings. sunshine

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people never ask me questions in my inbox. how do i get them to?

well you can't really get them to like force them it is if they want to ask you a question but only you like in person you just have to wait and well i guess hope that somebody asks you a question don't feel bad i have no inbox either. sunshine

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theres this random guy that hates me for no reason...he says im annoying but i dont talk to him...and yesterday he threw an egg or something at my window...what can i do to get him back so that i wont get in (much) trouble?

well find out where he lives and then just tell him that he is stupid and then tell him to leave you alone and then if he doesn't leave you alone then get your parents involved then call the police get them involed they will take care of it they are part of the law

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Ok this is weird but i want to get my ear pierced and my friend has a peircing gun. But my parental unit had a problem with it. But i am 17 i should be able to pierce my own ear. So the question is should i just go pierce it and come home to see what happens or not?

well no because you should go get it done by like a tatoo palor if you get it done by your friend then it can get infected but if you get it done by a tatto palor then it might not get infected.

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i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice?

well i would just say mom i got my period i mean she can't get mad at you plus you didn't do anything wrong she would probably tell you what to do unless you know it already.

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what's the best way to get word out about a club? even if it is a slightly academic one? it's a lot like debate, but it's still different.

please and thanks.

make flyers and posters and hand them out to everyone you could start a rumor but that isn't the best road to go down but it is worth a shot
sunshine

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What are some good excersises to getting a six pack? (im a girl)

sit ups just work out more often and crunches.
sunshine

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I'm overweight... I participate in a lot of sports and i think i get enough excercise... i could be doing more... but my big problem is sweets... its like an addiction... i just cant seem to stop eating them!!!!!! does anyone have any ideas on how to help me eat more healthy?

well try fat free things and low carb things you could have sweets but cut down and like once in a while it is ok but not to much and don't eat to much junk food either it will make you FATTER.
sunshine

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right now at my school we are going through a 'war'. it is split half and half. i dont like the people on the other side but there is one girl that i like over there. i will lose my reputation as a jock if i talk 2 her. do i talk 2 her and lose my rep. or do i keep my rep. and lose my chance with her

well i would speak to her i don't think your reputation matters because well if you like that girl as a friend then i would go over to the side and speak to her get to know her better forget about the war and sides in life you have to take chances.

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I have a dog right now who is 7 years old - in human years. My brother and I really want another dog - a puppy- probably the same kind as the 1 I have now. But I just can't convince my parents!! Any ideas???!!

well you and your brother can raise money to get the dog but donot spend your money or you won't have enough money to buy the dog or you could even tell your parents that you think it would be nice if your dog that you have now to have a another dog as a friend. sunshine

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i have a question. if you wear skater clothes but you dont skateboard or you used to but not anymore are you considered a poser?

well lets see here umm no a poser is somebody who wants to be like someone or trys to be like them like copying them. sunshine

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 8 months now and we havent had sex... it'll be 8 months on Jan.4th, and i was over his house yesterday when his parents werent home and he tryed to have sex with me, which he does all the time, and he got pretty far until i said no because his little brother was home and i didnt want him 2 walk in on us... but anyways getting to my point, should i have sex with him? plz help me im so confused, and i really dont no what i want to do either... oh just so you know im not a virgin either... and neither is he.
Love always,
**Court~**

well ok i think you to should try it and then at least you could say you tryed it then don't do it anymore after that because just like with smoking once you try it once you become addicted and well that is bad try it once that is it you don't wanna become pregnant do you?

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okay, i know everybody says your beautiful no matter what, but i dont feel that way. I feel as though im an ugly duckling. i mean im fat, ugly and i just dont feel like i am beautiful. If anyone has any tips on how i can feel more better about myself..then please help!! Cause i dont feel good..i feel alone & i feel like killing myself but i wont.

well don't kill yourself get some self esteem because right now your self esteem is not high you have to think beyond the box or outside the box well you could lose weight by eating good foods and well maybe running around where you live don't feel alone you have your family and freinds you just have to think i am beautful and that nothing anybody says will stand in your way and walk with your head up high and if you don't like something about yourself then change it.
remember change is good.
sunshine

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What does it mean when you link a screename in aim?

well it means like if you have more then one screen name you could put like two of your screen names on your list instead of one. oh yeah.... like one buddy list window i think more then two screen names can be linked not sure...
but hope i helped sunshine

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