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Question Posted Thursday December 30 2004, 7:37 pm

right now at my school we are going through a 'war'. it is split half and half. i dont like the people on the other side but there is one girl that i like over there. i will lose my reputation as a jock if i talk 2 her. do i talk 2 her and lose my rep. or do i keep my rep. and lose my chance with her

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college101 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 8:09 pm:
life is filled with tuff dicisions. this " War" you are talking about no matter how bad will not go on forever and i am sorry to say this but your reputation won't eather. sometimes things seem so complicated but in the end all you have are good friends. so be yourself, not a puppy to the croud.( if you understand what i mean) and talk to her, if anything you are not going to let the people you hate control you by preventing you from talking to someone

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sunshine1232 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 8:07 pm:
well i would speak to her i don't think your reputation matters because well if you like that girl as a friend then i would go over to the side and speak to her get to know her better forget about the war and sides in life you have to take chances.

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buckems answered Thursday December 30 2004, 8:06 pm:
Sorry ut you sound like you 10!! F*** the est of the kids talk to them! who cares what other people thinhk im like that im every ones freind thats how you popular and people like you your freinds right now are back stabbers and you'll see that soon or later there are very few real good friends!! If they were your real freinds and if you really had a good rep!! they wouldnt care!! Im the prep in my school i dont really give a damn about what other people have to think about me. Just thihnk about it!! If you want to be some one your not go ahead and be that person thats your choice but thats like so uncool where im from!!

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gsngirl7 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 7:55 pm:
Hi! I think you should talk to her. Don't be influenced by what other people think. If you really care about this girl, then it shouldn't matter what others might say. And just think-other people might follow your lead and make peace with the others on the the other side. ood luck! Hope my advice helps you!

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Toxicxoxo answered Thursday December 30 2004, 7:54 pm:
ok well you need to talk to the girl in private and see how she feels for you... if you guys feel the same way try being with her but keep it on the DL then gradualy let ppl know... but you definitly need to talk to her... there is no use in losing your friends if she doesnt like you back... hope i helped ♥ Lexi

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MakalahLea answered Thursday December 30 2004, 7:51 pm:
When you graduate from highschool it will not matter if you were the most popular person in school or the biggest nerd because people outside of your highschool will not have a clue or care. You will be going off to college or work, meeting new people and creating new friendships. You will more than likely lose touch with most of your highschool friends. This happened to me and has happened to most everyone that I know. It is the natural course of life. In other words, talk to the girl. You will regret it if you dont. Best Wishes!

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Advice_x33 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 7:50 pm:
it depends on how much you like her and how much you like your rep..i dont wanna be responsible for your regrets, so you have to make your own decision and follow your heart

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