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I`m 15 in about a month or so and I think i`m an alchoulic. I want to quit at times, but then again i dont. I didn`t come on here to get lectured, just advice on what to do in this situation. Thanks.
Signed
xx CaM (link)
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Well, from what I've seen, drinking can often result in regret (Damn. Did that sound like a lecture? I hope it didn't). If you're not sure if you want to quit drinking, then at least slow down. Don't drink as often.
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Ok, i am between the ages of 10-15. I know i should be concerned but i am. i really want bigger boobs and i dont know y. can anyone tell me y i want bigger boobs right now.
~really ashamed~ (link)
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It's because you (like several girls) want to measure up to men's distorted sense of beauty. To be more specific, it's women's picture of men's distorted beauty. I can almost guarantee you that you look perfectly fine. Girls are noticed far more often than they think. If it helps, keep in mind that if you do anything to get bigger boobs now, they make look weird later on.
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Okay, its me again but this question is a bit different then the rest...Okay my boyfriend of 4 years thinks that he's a bad boyfriend cause he has a tendency to like check and see who calls my cell phone and everything and I told him that i feel like he has to check on me and like he don't trust me cause he'll ask me about a number if there isn't a name with it and all and i mean I either dont know who it is or its one of the girls on my dance team but I told him how i felt and now he feels like a bad boyfriend when he really isn't he's the best in the world and I tell him that all the time but is there anyways that I can show him that he's not besides just telling him i would highly appreciate this if you could give me some ideas cause i love him with all my heart and i dont want him feeling this way.Thanks a bunch...
-Cass- (link)
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Well, maybe he does this because he's afraid that you're getting bored with the relationship. Try new things with him to reassure him. Talk to him about how much you love him, and tell him about how important trust is in a relationship. I think that's the best way to go with it.
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Well Me and My boyfriend of almost 2 years now are expecting a baby girl in just a few months.The problem is he doesnt have a job yet and has been saying hes going to get one for months now.Hes been looking and everything but still nothing.And everytime i talk to him about it hes always got the same stuff to say and sometimes gets mad about me always mentioning it.I want to believe that hes going to get a job soon so what to i do or say to him? :-/ (link)
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People can appear to be looking for work and still not. He may be filling out and handing in applications, but is he calling the managers, hitting the stores that advertise work in the paper, etc. If he hasn't found one yet, he's not trying hard enough. He's too lazy to work, and doesn't want to deal with the stress of having a job. Talk to him about what he does to try to get a job. If he gets mad, ask him why he is getting mad at you. He really has no reason to be. If he tells you it's because you keep on asking him about getting a job, tell him he has yet to tell you all that he does to try to get a job.
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Ok my username is in lower cases and I want every other letter to be capitalized and lower cased. How do I format my username? I don't wanna make a new one because I have answered a lot of questions and I dont want them to go away. Please help lol! (link)
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You can't. Your user name is probably fine the way it is anyway.
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like last year i went out with this guy. but after we made out he wanted to go father. i brook up with him shortly after that. Now i love him again and HE NOW HAS A G?F what can i do!! (link)
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If you date again, you know it's going to end the same way. He's obviously moved on, so I think you should too. Do whatever you can to think about him less. Get a(nother) job, talk to other guys, etc.
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this guy i liked started becoming my friend and he had found out i liked him and he started to wunna get closer but hes like that with everbody else {{w/e}} but the thing is i said that i didnt like him that way to his ex-girlfriend and she kept saying he liked me. and i do like him but i though his ex-girlfriend was just trying to see if i did and i didnt wunna tell her. now he pretends not to care even to be my friend any more. its breaking my heart and i keep telling my self that the first daii of school ima totally ignore him and act really sad around him. but the thing is it might end up not be acting. help. (link)
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He might be mad at you because you seemed to like him at first, but now you're telling his ex that you don't. Because you know that his ex is still friends with him, telling her you didn't him was almost as bad as telling him. If you really like him, you need to tell him. Otherwise, you need to get over him.
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how do you give a hickey? (link)
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You suck on part of someone else until you leave a mark.
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is any other columnist's writing different?? I mean I go to 'ask a question' and the font is bigger than it used to be!! its different!! is anyone else's like that? (link)
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This website, due to some thinking it looks a little boring, is going through some changes. Personally, I had no problem with the font size before.
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are carrots good 4 u (link)
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No! They are like poison to your eyes.
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ok like me and my ex / bf have been on and off like 15 times and like after every other bf i go out wiht him again and lk im wondering will i ever get over him for the final time
like i know i like other guys and i like the ex to and now were going out again and this guy that i have gotten to like know alot me likes me and i liked him before but he said he will never like me and now he does and like im soo confused i dont know what to do and i dk if ill ever move on this there something wrong with me
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Slow things down. Stop dating him, you're just inviting heart ache. There's nothing wrong with you, you're just still unsure of things. The next time he asks you, think to youreslf, "Do I know for sure that things will be different this time?". I can almost guarantee you that they won't.
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my mother is like so evil!!!!!!! Whenevr we r down town in cleveland and we drive past some colored people she locks the doors but she doesnt do that when wer by whites. she is so races. i cant stand her. it hurts me a lot to know that she has a problem with black people. and she yelled at me the other day for wanting a punkish/gothic style and shes like"you do not come from a family of punks or gths so your sticking to aero and other prepy stores" how do i deal with her. sometimes i feel like running away from home. help me!!!! (link)
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She's not evil or crazy, she's just ignorant. It was how and where she was raised. Parents can be stubborn. Clothes aren't that important when you get down to it, they don't determine who you are. Don't run away, it's far worse when your out there alone. Try to get her to see things the way you see them. If she doesn't listen, she probably never will.
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hey,i had to move schools, so now i'm currently going to my new school, i absolutely HATE it.Except for this one guy...he's new too, and when i saw him...it was like..i don't know..like everything changed.He's in a lot of my classes, and i talk to him on the internet, and a teeny bit at school cause im so freakin shy and quiet.Anyways..i REALLY REALLY REALLY like him.Tomorrow the only class i see him in is math, but it's at the very end of the day, and when i talked to him i said "i'll see you at the end of the day" and he said, "no, i'll see you before" and then he hugged me!!! so, im really confused..i dunno what to do! can you give me any advice?!?!?!Please.
-confused (link)
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Ask him to do something after school. A movie, a party, anything. When you get nervous before you ask him, keep in mind that he likes you. There's not one guy on the face of this earth that would do that if they didn't like the girl.
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Chatspeak is so annoying. How can we get rid of stupid chatspeakers? I'm open to murder... (link)
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Ummm. We can offer cookies in chatspeak and lead them to an empty warehouse, then set it aflame. I think that would work.
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hey, my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 3 months, and then i heard from my friends that he cheated on me by kissing another girl on the cheek...i didn't really give a care about that.He even told me that he did kissed her on the cheek.So we let that pass by us.A couple weeks later, my everyone was telling me that he cheated on me by kissing another girl, except this time..on the lips.That time i got upset...the next day he broke up with me, and i got really upset.He told me that he only broke up with me because he didn't wanna hurt me anymore.All of my friends told me to forget him, but i can't.but now i keep hearing from his friends that he wants me back, and that he still likes me..what should i do? (link)
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I think you should wait until he brings up getting back together, and then have a long talk with him. Just because he thinks about you, doesn't mean he thinks it's wise to get back together. He may be afraid that he'll end up hurting you in the end, and doesn't want to put you through it. If he does want to get back together, he'll bring it up. If this happens, you should probably discuss the reason why you broke up in the first place before you make a decision. And I know how hard it is to get over someone, I'm still trying. It take a very long time to get over someone you love.
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SORRY IT'S SO LONG, BUT I HAD TO SAY IT!!!!
STUFF SOME OF THE MODERATORS ARE SICK OF DEALING WITH (actually im speaking for myself, and i'm not sure but maybe a few others)
the people that ask to be rated, I usually rate them LOW, just because it seems like all they care about are ratings, and they aren't in it for the advice
the people who say I Rate, it's like they're so desperate, that they tell people that they rate, just so they can get better answers, WTF¿?
And what bugs me, are either the non-advice questions, like asking for a screen name(thats what you have friends for)
And, the people who ask the following, I like a guy, I'm Not sure if he likes me, What Should I Do? Uh Hello obvious, TELL HIM!!!
And people who say, My boy Friend wants to have sex, I'm not sure, I almost feel like I'm to young, what should I do? well thats easy, if u have to ask, then the answer's NO
The one thing that gets me is people who say admin please don't delete, HELLO that just makes the admin know that it's a Dumb question
All these repeats, and stupid I Rate, Rate me questions are SO ANNOYING, i just wanted to state that
sorry i know that it wasn't asking for advice, but i just felt like posting that, it just really gets on my nerves, i mean i have done that before, but i've realized how stupid it was!
by the way, if u wanna leave something in my inbox, like a rude reply to this, or just any question, then my name is SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy
i don't care if this gets deleted, i just HAD to post it!! (link)
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I disagree. I think ...Ha ha ha. Okay, I couldn't even get through that. Yeah, I agree.
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I dont understand how all these younge kids come on here and ask for love advice and say how they are in love and "falling" for people. I dont think you kids really know what your talking about. Maybe instead of saying love so freely you all should start saying lust. thats what it really is. (link)
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Heh. I've been reading some of these answers and they're pretty funny. My opinion is that most of the young people who think they're in love, aren't. Most probably believe in love at first sight, which is just ignorant. Maybe crush at first sight, but not love. Some may also think just because you constantly think about someone, that you're in love with them. This, of course, isn't true. If it were, people would be falling in love without even getting to know the person. Do most of you even know the difference between a crush/lust and love? I'm guessing almost everyone who doesn't feel age is a factor when falling in love is still a teenager. This is just my opinion. And I really, really doubt she/he is talking about the love one has for their parents (chuckles).
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Whats the best cd frm Black Sabbath? (link)
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their first "We sold our souls for rock and roll" album if your not obsessed with them. It has majority of their popular songs.
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Hi, MFS here again...
This is not really a question, but a request...
Can we please stop it with the "I rate" and "Rate me!" crap? Are getting ratings THAT important to you? Does it somehow make your life complete? This site isn't a game, people... ratings are not for keeping score. There is no competition - just advice. The ratings are supposed to be for keeping the bad advice off the site, much like we have the moderators in place to help keep the really bad questions off the site.
I mean, when I see a question that says "I rate!" in the body or even subjet of it, it just screams "OMG! PLEASE PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!!!!!" It is getting kind of pathetic, as we're seeing it ALL THE TIME!
Let's give it a rest. (link)
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I hate you, you (Various curse words). I put rate me and I rate because otherwise no one would read what I type. (Rate me good
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Dude, with much respect and much love to the color black, it gets kinda hard to see your column, or maybe its just me...Anyhoo, whats up? Just thought I'd drop by to say hello, and to see if you were still amongst the living. I need some advice, if you don't mind. *Ahem* Here goes. Remeber that last question I asked you regarding all those guys who come up and talk to me, cuz i look older, and in the question i mentioned a guy named Shawn? Well, this regards to Shawn....I really think he has reciprical feeling towrds the way i feel about him....But, I'm too pigheaded and I sometimes have a hard time talking about how i feel, cuz i usually keep things sorta locked up inside, so how should i find out how he feels about me, without just blatantly asking him, because if i did, it would be really awkward, and I'm weird enough as it is, I don't need to go around feeling any weireder, not that it would ne a bad thing, but I don't wanna be weird to the point where I become a mole person, ya' know. Don't worry, hes an awesome guy, and my friends know him, hes not a psyco rapist, and he doesn't just want to get in my pants...but, when i first me him, I didn't tell him how old i was, so he naturally assumed i was in collge, until he asked me what high school i WENT to, and i told him the truth, that I'm still in high school, and I'm a junior...He looked kinda dissapointed, like " Damn!" sorry if this is taking up much of your time, or its just so loooong and borrring, but I need help! Shawns a smart guy, he knows he shouldn't be messing around with any 15 year old girl, but what do I do? And if you answer this, I promise to stop bothering you about my guy problems, and ask you more about random weirdo stuff.
Much Love,
Victoria (link)
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Alright, let's see. You might want to expect the worst if you tell him. Since he is a great guy who sounded disappointed in your age, there's a good chance he'll turn you down. He might not want to date someone as young as you. Sorry for my brutal honesty.
If you want to know the least awkward way of telling him, then get a friend to do it. You said that some of your friends knew him. This sounds very juvenile, especially coming from a guy whose 19, but it's true. A while ago, my friend (The picture) saw that I liked this one girl, so she talked to her to see whether or not she liked me. She did it very subtlely, "You spend a lot of time with 'Storage', are you dating him?" or "Why aren't you two dating?", She said something like that. If you have a guy friend whose also friends with him it might be less awkward. Of course, I wouldn't have picked that method, but it is the easiest. I prefer to talk to the person in person. I would just come out and say it, and aviod the long process of trying to hint around at it. It's always going to be awkward, no matter how you get him to tell you.
Well, it was nice hearing from you again. You can ask for my opinion on "guy problems" any time you want. I'm a guy, so I know a little bit about them. Good luck with whatever you choose to do.
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