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Dude, with much respect and much love to the color black, it gets kinda hard to see your column, or maybe its just me...Anyhoo, whats up? Just thought I'd drop by to say hello, and to see if you were still amongst the living. I need some advice, if you don't mind. *Ahem* Here goes. Remeber that last question I asked you regarding all those guys who come up and talk to me, cuz i look older, and in the question i mentioned a guy named Shawn? Well, this regards to Shawn....I really think he has reciprical feeling towrds the way i feel about him....But, I'm too pigheaded and I sometimes have a hard time talking about how i feel, cuz i usually keep things sorta locked up inside, so how should i find out how he feels about me, without just blatantly asking him, because if i did, it would be really awkward, and I'm weird enough as it is, I don't need to go around feeling any weireder, not that it would ne a bad thing, but I don't wanna be weird to the point where I become a mole person, ya' know. Don't worry, hes an awesome guy, and my friends know him, hes not a psyco rapist, and he doesn't just want to get in my pants...but, when i first me him, I didn't tell him how old i was, so he naturally assumed i was in collge, until he asked me what high school i WENT to, and i told him the truth, that I'm still in high school, and I'm a junior...He looked kinda dissapointed, like " Damn!" sorry if this is taking up much of your time, or its just so loooong and borrring, but I need help! Shawns a smart guy, he knows he shouldn't be messing around with any 15 year old girl, but what do I do? And if you answer this, I promise to stop bothering you about my guy problems, and ask you more about random weirdo stuff.
Much Love,
Victoria
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Alright, let's see. You might want to expect the worst if you tell him. Since he is a great guy who sounded disappointed in your age, there's a good chance he'll turn you down. He might not want to date someone as young as you. Sorry for my brutal honesty.
If you want to know the least awkward way of telling him, then get a friend to do it. You said that some of your friends knew him. This sounds very juvenile, especially coming from a guy whose 19, but it's true. A while ago, my friend (The picture) saw that I liked this one girl, so she talked to her to see whether or not she liked me. She did it very subtlely, "You spend a lot of time with 'Storage', are you dating him?" or "Why aren't you two dating?", She said something like that. If you have a guy friend whose also friends with him it might be less awkward. Of course, I wouldn't have picked that method, but it is the easiest. I prefer to talk to the person in person. I would just come out and say it, and aviod the long process of trying to hint around at it. It's always going to be awkward, no matter how you get him to tell you.
Well, it was nice hearing from you again. You can ask for my opinion on "guy problems" any time you want. I'm a guy, so I know a little bit about them. Good luck with whatever you choose to do.
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