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What can i wear with these shoes? I really like them, but i can't think of a nice outfit. links would be great if it's not too much trouble. thanks!

A pair of shorts. Possibly a good pair of skinny jeans. A yellow top. Yellow/gold accesories.

Examples of bottoms:
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Shorts&product%5Fid=2042777700&Page=1

http://shop.pacsun.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId=10001&langId=-1&productId=62966&parentCategoryId=10002&categoryId=10963&pageNumber=1&sortBy=0

Tops:
http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1000&size=&style=38111402&color=722&token=

http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1000&size=&style=38106262&color=722&token=

Accesories:
http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1600&size=&style=38270574&color=760&token=

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why do i think when im in pain suicide is the only way out

You may be suffering from depression. Depression is very serious and you should see a doctor. Suicide is not the answer. Tell a parent or someone yout trust about this so they can find you someone to talk to.

http://www.twloha.com is a sight that can help you. To Write Love On Her Arms is an organization that can help suicidal teens.

http://twloha.com/find_help.php
You can look at this link for websites that can help you with your problem.

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i'm in need of a couple paticular songs.

1. a song about how being in love is the most wonderful, UNDESCRIBEABLE feeling, or loving someone so much you can't put it into words.

2. a graduation song. i can't use the vitamin c one, "time of your life" by green day, or "stop this train" by john mayer, because they've all been used in recent years.

help anyone? i'll listen to basically anything but screamo or rap or hard metal stuff. but post anything. and i don't want something you've looked up on google. just things you know of will do. thanks (:

1. More Than a Feeling- Boston
So Much Love in You- The Rocket Summer

2. World's Greatest- R. Kelly (haha this was my 8th grade graduation song)
The Friends Theme Song (I'll Be There For You- not sure who it's by)

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14/f/freshman in august.


so far, this is what my schedule will look like;

algebra 2
geometry
english 9 AA
world history
biology pre-AP
spanish 9
freshman girl's choir

i think i'm getting in over my head, with two math classes and two honors classes. also, i'm in cheerleading that has practice 3-5:30 daily after school, and i'm in volleyball, which practices 6-8 every monday, wednesday, and thursday.

do you think i should drop one or both of the honors classes? [english and biology] i'm deffinately staying in algebra 2 and geometry, because i love math and i can deal with those.

personal experiences would be great.
thanks in advance. (:

I'd say don't drop the honors classes. It's good to challenge yourself. Out of 8 classes, I generally take 4 honors classes. It's really not hard.

As for calculators get a scientific calculator. They're usually inexpensive and work.

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Well Hello There CowGirl! Yee hoo! I love love love love your column more then a fat kid loves chocolate moose cake. Any way, heres the dillemma! SO i was speaking on the phone with this boy, and he was sort of kind of scene and stuff. SO i started to act scene too! I had him fooled until he asked me what some of my favorite bands are. Then, I tragically slipped,, I said Brittney Spears. Ah, im such an idiot! Darn it all! Any way, I decided the next day. I'm gonna be a skate board gal. To boost my image ofcourse. So i began my journey. Through the slopes. Out of the blue I noticed it was snowing: six inches ;] of snow too be exact, and I fell. So now I've decided after all I have gone through, I wanna be made. I wanna be made into a scene gal! Please help me make this huge change.

Yours Truely Foo evA AND 3va.
BIANCA Larson

Go to mtv.com and apply for made. And then you'll be made. Into a scene girl!

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14/f

I don't have a boyfriend, but I would really like one. I can never seem to meet anyone new. all my friends seem to meet new guys wherever they go, and I just don't.
I love in southern california.
any ideas on where to find someone?

You could someone anywhere. The real secret? Don't go looking for someone. People find love when they least expect it.

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ok so i am about 100 pounds. i eat like crazy, but i dont really gain anything. i am called anorexic like so many times a day at school. i cry all the time because this has been going on for so long. one day, i will never forget this day, i was at school and i was called anorexic literally six times, i cried so much that day when i got home. i actually got so mad one day when someone called me anorexic...that i punched a person. not like in the face or anything. what should i do? im so sick of being called anorexic when i know im not. and i have talked to my parents about this and they said that "well you know that you arent, so dont worry about what they say" yeah but its easier to say then do!

Tell someone at school about this. A teacher you trust, a guidance consuler, just someone who can stop these kids. Anorexia is a SERIOUS disease and this shows that if someone in your school really had it, no one would be supportive. Nevertheless, adults in your school will be able to help, and they won't tell the kids that you told them what's going on.

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So my poop is comming out werid colors like green sometimes even shades of purple.

whats wrong with me?

It's from the coloring of the food or you're eating too much candy. Think about what you've been eating recently. Do either of these descriptions fit it?

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omg does this woman ever smile? got any pics of this?

In old ones, yes. Now that she's the power player of the Spice Girls she does not need to smile.

http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/40031000/jpg/_40031943_becks203bod.jpg

http://debroffdebrief.clubmom.com/photos/uncategorized/spicegirlsphotospicegirls6220865.jpg

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/231/509747536_f1367030de_o.jpg

http://images.askmen.com/women/singer_150/150_victoria_beckham.jpg
That's somewhat a smile.

Next time, please use google.

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ok. i just started using tampons and it hurt when i took my first one out and now im scared to do it again. and i know it hurst to take out a dry tampon and im at the end of my period. WHAT DO I DO???

For the rest of your period just use a pad. As your period comes to an end, it's very light, making the tampon more dry and harder to pull out. If you're going swimming soon just don't go in the water for too long and you'll be able to get away with it.

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okay.
so im a book geek.
and.
really smart.
i have a wide vocabulary.
so i say them.
:D
but.
i get made fun of.
sometimes.
i just am speechless really.
and anything i say is really stupid.
the classic [your face.]
or [your mom.]
im just not really confident in that area.
D:
thanks in advance.

Ignore them for the best you can. They really are just looking for your remark back. They want to tick you off more than anything. If you feel you must make a remark stay calm and cool and simply tell them that their words don't hurt you due to the fact that the reason people make fun of others are because they lack confidence in themselves. If they make another snide remark, simply laugh and walk away.

However, if someone takes it to far, you should tell the guidance consuler at your school. They'll stop it and won't give your name away.

Remember: violence never solves anything.

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is it true that energy drinks have bull sperm in them? A few of my guy friends were tlaking to me and they told me that taurine which is an ingredent in all energy drinks is really bull sperm. I think they are just messing with me cause im gullable.

Not true. This is a common myth.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taurine
If you would like to know about what taurine really is look at this site.

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well im thinking about going tubing with my best friend and her boyfriend(who is also my best friend) and my boyfriend.we are all like really close best friends and i think my friend looks better in a bathing suit than me. i have talked to my boyfriend about it and he says you know idc what she looks like its no big deal.but what if hes just saying that.help ):

Your boyfriend is probably being honest. Trust him. If he really cares about you, he's not going to start hitting on her once she gets in a bathing suit.

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ok so i'm probabaly goign to warped tour now besides the ticket how much money should i bring?

About $20-$30 should be enough. I would advice bringing bottled water with you. Prices at concerts are outragous and you won't want to buy the water, but you will need to frequently drink it. Quite easy to get dehydrated at warped. Take it from someone who throws up and proceeds to pass out when then don't drink enough water- dehydration is not fun.

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When a guy is drunk and you hook up and he act's like he's all touchy when he's drunk and stuff, but not when he's sober, is that just because he's drunk and he's doing weird things or does he like really want you, even when he's sober but doesn't act like it like when it's drunk. Sorry if that doesnt make any sense!

You did not state your age.

Since minors have horomones running around alcohol generally makes them more sexual.

However, if you are of age, alcohol diminshes sex drive. So the guy is pretty much a douche trying to use the fact that he's drunk to take advantage of you. At least, this is what sexpert Sue Johanson says.

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Please. I had a bad hookup expireicne. How to you french kiss step by step!

http://www.wikihow.com/French-Kiss

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ok so i have this big group of friends and this guy max i know is dating amanda. im friends with both of them but ever since they've been dating i've been hooking up with max behind all our friends backs. Just recently some of our friends have been getting a little suspicious and only 2 of them know. i know its bad enough wat we've already done but me & max have been moving pretty fast and i feel like i'm ready to have sex with him. I really wanna do it and so does he but he won't break up with amanda. what should we do? what should i do?

k thanks

Don't have sex with him. If he doesn't care about you enough to break up with Amanda, then he doesn't care about you enough for you to be willing to have sex with him. He's really onnly using you. Stop doing things with him until he breaks up with her. Also, you owe it to Amanda not to have sex with him. Her relationsip with him is now ruined. For her sake, and your own, do not have sex with him.

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My dad is making me go to a New York Yankee game next week when they are playing KC Royals. I HATE the Yankees and I love the Red Sox so I was wondering if I wore all Red Sox clothes to NYC and Yankee Stadium would I get shot? My dad said I probably will haha. Or is he just scaring me?

You could get shot, but it's not likely. However, people will give you dirty looks, say rude things, and may even bring physical harm upon you. I know if it was me I would make a rude comment. Yankees and Red Sox are HUGE rivals so it's never really a good idea to wear clothing of one of the team's to the other ones game. You really don't want to wear something supporting Red Sox. You won't apperciate how people treat you if you do.

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how much of a tip should i give the lady who waxes my eyebrows as well as my sister's? she's doing both of ours today & my mom isn't home to tell me (she's in another time zone & it's to early to call her to ask what she normally gives).

I generally give $2. Since it's two people, give 4.

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when you have sex & use a condom. is there any chance of being pregnant?

There is a 2% chance. However, you most likely be pregnant. And it's good that you're using protection! I've lost count of how many people on this site ask questions about sex and state that they don;t.

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