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I KNOW ITS BAD BUT..................cheating
ok so i have this big group of friends and this guy max i know is dating amanda. im friends with both of them but ever since they've been dating i've been hooking up with max behind all our friends backs. Just recently some of our friends have been getting a little suspicious and only 2 of them know. i know its bad enough wat we've already done but me & max have been moving pretty fast and i feel like i'm ready to have sex with him. I really wanna do it and so does he but he won't break up with amanda. what should we do? what should i do?
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well don't you think its a little suspicious that he won't break up tih amanda, if he wants to have sex with you and feels strongly about you, should he not break up with amanda, unless he is only using you, i know this is a grim view of things but it seems like he wants to have his foot on two boats, he needs to choose, it is either you or amanda.
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Hey,my namne is Em231I know I can help you
don't have sex with him only if she breaks up
with Amanda because sex is very serious.
You have to knowthat he realy loves you thats what love is all about ok.Please break up with him you don't want to be known as the friend
who cheated with one of her friends boyfriend.
Plus you will mess up your friendship with
Amanda fo ever . I don't want to freak you out
but It's true so make a right choice please make the right choice.
I hope I helped .
Em231
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Honestly... You are being a horrible friend and Max most likely doesn't care about you at all. You're acting like a slut, you're better than that. You need to fess up and find a guy who actually wants to be with you (just you) and not just sleep with you on the side.
Max probably just wants a physical relationship with you because he's not getting it from his girlfriend, which he's cheating on with you by the way. So he's also being a terrible, unfaithful boyfriend.
If Amanda finds out then you'll loose her as a friend, but you're betraying her anyway so you shouldn't care when she realises what you've been doing. Because she will find out eventually, whether you tell her or not, and karma will come back and bite you in the ass.
How would you feel if your boyfriend was cheating on you with your best friend. This whole situation is Jerry Springer worthy. How could you do this to someone you supposedly care about? You don't even seem sorry for what you've done and still do. You need to think about what you're doing, break off the whole tryst with Max, and go to confession and pray to God for forgiveness.
::Jasmine::
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You need to wake up. Not only are you being a terrible friend, but you're being used, so you're getting the best of both worlds. I'd advise you to break up with Max, but wait, he's not even in a relationship with you, you're just a piece of ass on the side.
Try predicting what will happen in the future. I guarantee Amanda and the rest of your friends will figure out how much of a slut you're being, and you'll probably be (rightfully) labeled as one because of your current actions. The only thing you can do is stop while you're behind before your life totally crumbles all because of a guy that like it or not, is seriously not into you.
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Don't have sex with him. If he doesn't care about you enough to break up with Amanda, then he doesn't care about you enough for you to be willing to have sex with him. He's really onnly using you. Stop doing things with him until he breaks up with her. Also, you owe it to Amanda not to have sex with him. Her relationsip with him is now ruined. For her sake, and your own, do not have sex with him.
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