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cant stand up for myself. D:


Question Posted Friday July 27 2007, 2:13 pm

okay.
so im a book geek.
and.
really smart.
i have a wide vocabulary.
so i say them.
:D
but.
i get made fun of.
sometimes.
i just am speechless really.
and anything i say is really stupid.
the classic [your face.]
or [your mom.]
im just not really confident in that area.
D:
thanks in advance.


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Erinn_the_bamf answered Friday July 27 2007, 8:13 pm:
Ignore them for the best you can. They really are just looking for your remark back. They want to tick you off more than anything. If you feel you must make a remark stay calm and cool and simply tell them that their words don't hurt you due to the fact that the reason people make fun of others are because they lack confidence in themselves. If they make another snide remark, simply laugh and walk away.

However, if someone takes it to far, you should tell the guidance consuler at your school. They'll stop it and won't give your name away.

Remember: violence never solves anything.

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Sima answered Friday July 27 2007, 6:14 pm:
Just don't pay attention to them. It's the best way. Ignoring them is what you need to do. I know it might be hard at first (I've experienced teasing, everyone has). Eventually, they'll get tired of making fun of you. Because they see that you are trying to respond, they know that they have to come up with something different to make you feel bad. If they say something hurtful, and if you feel like crying or you're really sad, don't let them see it. Hold your head high and tell yourself that you are better than them. It works, but you have it give it some time.

Hope I helped. ♥

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Swimmer answered Friday July 27 2007, 6:09 pm:
Don't let them bother you at all!
just ignore them when they talk 2 you.
So what you didn't make a come back, and get into a fight...That is a good thing!
You don't need help a all!
Just ignore them!

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illdomybest answered Friday July 27 2007, 6:08 pm:
dont say anything just ignore them, unless they try to physically harrass you. ...ive learned not to waste time worring about what people think.. what ever you do dont change . you can say what ever you want everyone else does.they are still stuck in that immature state. the reason people attack you is because of theyre own insecurities, whether they admit it or not.

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