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okay.
so im a book geek.
and.
really smart.
i have a wide vocabulary.
so i say them.
:D
but.
i get made fun of.
sometimes.
i just am speechless really.
and anything i say is really stupid.
the classic [your face.]
or [your mom.]
im just not really confident in that area.
D:
thanks in advance.
Don't let them bother you at all!
just ignore them when they talk 2 you.
So what you didn't make a come back, and get into a fight...That is a good thing!
You don't need help a all!
Just ignore them!
ok. my boyfriend (of almost 2 yrs) is moving 3 hours away. im only 14 but i am in love with this boy. and he just might be the one. but he is moving this yr. and his parents said that they would drive him down EVERY HOLIDAY and on BIRTHDAYS. what should I do?
Keep calling him everyday or as often as you can.
I know how you feel.
I recently moved across the country from where i lived my whole entire life.
Talk to him online, maybe use a web cam.
Have him stay over for a couple weeks during the summer.
Hope i helped!
hey i am 15 years old and i want to lose 15-20 lbs. it seems impossible to, but i need to. some people say that i am growing but even my mom says i am done. please get back to me asap. also i love outdoors so please list activities if possible so i can have some ideas. thanks!!
Swimming is the best exercise!
Also you must eat healthy!
Try to have only few junk foods.
Plenty of veggies an fruits!
LOTS of water.
Cut do on soda.
and maybe one glass of 100% juice.
you need protein also to build stamina to work out
he is some example exercises to try:
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=4259380906052151317&q=Swimming+Dolphin+kick&total=12&start=0&num=10&so=0&type=search&plindex=1
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=5721275624472630495&q=Swimming+Breast+stroke&total=346&start=0&num=10&so=0&type=search&plindex=1
Try these!
i think one is in chineese but just watch u dont need to listen!
Swimming is the best exercise and way to get fit, strengthen muscles, and lose weight!
Hope i helped you!
Ok well my dog Adrian died and its really hard for me and i keep thinking about her....And i WONT ever forget her though....And i like loved her and i still do and shes buried in the backyard so i can see her...And it just makes it harder....Please Help...
Oh, I'm so sorry hun!
I know how it feels to lose a pet!
I had a dog since I was 2 and he ran away because my dad always yelled at him, the rest of my family loved him!
he ran away to one of my sisters friend's house 3 times the time we left him their because the dog was terrified of my dad.
He ran away when i was five but after a month i figured he was happier their.
When I was eleven I got a new dog but it wasn't a family dog it was a present for me.
The first time my dad yelled at the dog, my dog jerry, the pic in my advice coulmn, had an "accident" on the rug. My dad was surprised and stopped yelling at him.
Now my dad loves the dog and he is really nice to dogs and knows why the other dog ran away.
My dog is only 2 years old but I still know how you feel sweetie.
I hope my story helps you.
Hey, I'm 13/f and I'm about 5'4 and weigh 110 lbs. I don't want to lose any weight and I LOVE the curve of my hips, but what are some good toning exercises I can do do get rid of that lower pooch that spills over when I sit down? When I stand I have a nice stomach, and because I have such a large rib cage it looks weird if I suck in. I just wanted to know of some workouts that tone my lower abs.
Thanks!
Try swimming!
Swimming works every muscle in your body.
So while working on toning your waiste you are also gaining strenght in your arms, neck, back, legs and many other places!
For swimming you have to do laps for improvement.
Butterfly stroke will tone your waiste fastest.
I send an link of what the stroke is:
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=4259380906052151317&q=Swimming+Dolphin+Kicks&total=14&start=0&num=10&so=0&type=search&plindex=1
This isnt the stroke but it is the kick part on your back.
you can do it on your stomach also.
When you can't swim try doing at least 100 crunched/sit ups a day.
Also make sure you eat healthy and dont over do it!
Hope I helped you out!
im ready to have a baby but im on bith control..an it call yasmin....so how long would it take for me to get pregant if i stop takin it ...an be for i got on yasmin i use to be on the depo shot for like 2 years but i just been on the yasmin for like 3 months...an im ready 2 have a baby...........please help me
Ask your doctor.
i live in MA, so theres different stores out there then over here .
name any store that has cute clothinq .
Rainbow
Debs
Rave
Abecrombie
American Eagle
What is the proper way to go about opening a door for a girl when the door opens inward? Do you go through first and hold it for her, or push it in so she can walk through?
Go in first,
then hold it open.
Hey. I just got Miley Cyrus's fan address off of mileycyrus.com but on the sample envelope they show, it says via airmail. Am I supposed to put that on my envelope to? ♥
her fan mail address (what you write) is:
Miley Cyrus
c/o The Disney Channel
3800 Alameda Ave.
Burbank, CA 90211
i got it out of a magazine this is all you need to write down hun.
I'll be a freshman in August, and i just moved so I don't anyone. I really want to meet a great guy, someone who will ask me out. I have boyfriends before, so I'm not weird or anything, I just want to know about highschool and bofriends. Like what r freshman guys like? Is it easy to get asked out n stuff?
thnks
Be yourself and you will meet a guy who likes you for ust being yourself.
P.S. i didnt like that comment about you having boyfriends before and said you wernt weird...
jus cuz u are 14 and didnt have a boyfriend before doesnt mean someone is weird!
i know people who didn't start dating until they were almost 18!
I'm 15 almost 16 and i just recently graduated early with honors, and got a few full ride scholorships ( I always did summer school to get ahead and online schooling). But the problem is Laila and Kennedy, my 3 month old twins. I love them and they are my pride and joy. But i'm going off to college and i'm going to be living with my older sister in her dorm because we are attending the same school, and i can't take Laila and Kennedy. My boyfriend doesn't want to take in the children because he is going to be a senior this year and just wants to PARTY. My mom loves the children, but i'm afraid she is going to convince my boyfriend to give up all custody and have the children put up for adoption behind my back, because she is like that. She loves them but she doesn't them to screw up my life. And they aren't. They are just a big speed bump.
Any advice on what i can do with Laila and Kennedy?
Leave them with a relative you can trust not to ruin you and your boyfriends relationship.
Have your mom "babysit" every once in a while but leave the kids with someone else.
like another sibling if you have one.
If all else fails tell your boyfriend what you thik your mom is trying to do.
If you let your mom watch the kids and your boyfriend knows what u think your mom is gonna do then he might be able to avoid it.
A little more than a year ago a friend was diagnosed with cancer. I decided to be optimistic and treated it like it wasn't a big deal. She would go through some unpleasant chemo and then it would be over.
We have kind of a teasing relationship so I made a point of not treating her any differently, while other friends were more sympathetic and altered plans to suit her condition.
Now I've learned that treatments didn't work and they give her about a year. I feel so bad about the way I treated her that I haven't been able to face her since. How can I make amends?
Tell her you didn't want her to think just because of this that you were gonna change your friendship. And tell her it was to keep her comfortable. She will understand.
Most people hate friends being sympathetic and changing their whole relationship.
SO. My boyfriend's name is Doug. When we started dating his ex girlfriend was SO rude to me. She called me fatass, she started rumors, and she was just all around rude. They broke up two months ago, and now she wants back in his life. She added him on myspace & her message read; "I just want to try and get along."
Is it wrong for me to not want them to associate at all? I don't want her to be back in his life, I don't want them to be friends. Am I just being selfish?
I keep trying to put myself in Doug's shoes, but it's impossible.
Well I think you are worried you caught him on rebound and if he gets along she will win him back
but that is not completly it.
u are a little jealous it seems.
But if she is only wanting to get along and you let her, she will stop rumors.
(jus dont leave them alone together) ;)
im 15 and in have fancied this girl for a while and im thinking abou asking her out. The only problem is i don't know waht she thinks of me and if i ask her out and she says know what will this do to our friendship. what should i do?
Okay I have to say this cuz im a girl:
Guys usually dont know if a girl is into them.
If she looks at you often, drops her stuff when you walk by she is totally into you.
or for shyer girls when you walk by she might run her hand through her hair pulling it back.
If she doesnt "like like" you yet try to be her friend first.
ok, every time i shave under my armpits, i get painful bumps that last for at least a week after i shave. and my armpits get itchy and sore. also, now, it hurts when i try to shave. i don't understand why because i lather before i shave.
so how do i stop the bumps?
my razor is pretty old (like..6 months+), might that be the problem?
btw, this only happens on my armpits, not on my legs.
Get a new razor first.
And be sure to put shaving gel on and clean it with soap first...or just use soap...
Try a razor with mostrisure around the blade, or at least with comfort strips.
I had sex with my best friend. We currently aren't going out, and I don't want to. It was a night that I got drunk and I wouldn't say he took advantage of me because I wasn't fighting him. I'm not afraid of being pregnante because im on the pill yet I regret it. He called me, and was like I just wanted to tell you that the other night was magical and that I enjoyed it very much.. And now I hate myself because he's my bestfriend and he wants a relationship with me when I'm questionin even being friends with him.. He knew I was drunk and didn't care. I don't blame him for getting drunk but I do because he did know it wasn't right.
How do I tell him that I regret it?
Tell him exatly what you are telling us.
Make him understand you and he know it isnt right.
Personally I like to play scrabble online, surf concert events, look for new clubs, download music, Myspace, and chat on aim. But recently I discovered this site one night as I was caught in a spectrum of boredom. And I love to give advice, so why not? I was reluctant to join so here i am.
I surf the net aand talk to my friends through aim and yahoo...
so there's this guy, and we like each other. we also liked each other a long time ago. well we both recently got out of relationships. and we are going to a movie tomorrow and we decided that we're going to make out. first of all, will it be awkward to make out in a movie theatre because of the seat angles? advice on that please! and also, how do i tell him i don't want to commit to anything just now..i'm worried he'll ask me to be his girlfriend. thanks!
Before he trys making out with you tell him you are nervous people are watching.
Tell him lets just look like friends right now.
And to me it sounds like you are worried he is on rebound, and dont want to get with him and break up in a week.
Tell him the truth before you go out.
i wanna give a guy a blow job, but im scared to ask . i dont wanna look like a slut or something. is it fun? it kinda sounds like it.
Tell him in private,
when it is just you two.
I'm warning you now, this is going to be long because I'm explaining this from the beginning[this is the shortened version], so if you don't have time nor want to waste your time, don't bother reading the rest of this.
Alright, so I used to go out with this boy Jake, well he has this friend Jayson, who I have always thought was really cute an stuff before I knew him well but I'm sort of a shy person so I never talked to him. Well Jayson and I became close friends, he would help me with Jake and I would help him with Nikki[Jayson's girlfriend for eight months, she dumped him to be friends and was then going out with his friend and he still liked her a lot]. I soon dumped Jake, because I just felt as though it wasn't working out.
So I went to this festival and this was a few weeks after Jake and I broke up, well Jake had told me the night before he was going to hang out with me for an hour at the least and then he might ask me out, well the whole time he completely ignored me, and Jayson made me feel a little bit better at the festival, but that night I was texting him and I was helping him with Nikki because he didn't know what to do but I told him to tell her how he felt and to say I'm not about to ruin anything between you and Shawn though and he said No bobcat[he calls me that dont ask why because I don't know either] I can't do that. Then we started talking about my problems or something and I said I just wanted one boy to prove to me that they are not all the same and Jayson says I really want to prove that to a girl...
Well a few nights later we were talking again and he admited to me he liked me a lot but he probably shouldn't because of Jake and all, but I told him I liked him too, but he also told me he liked some other girls but me the most. Well we went to glow bowl and I thought he was going to ask me out, well turns out he asked out one of those other girls he told me about and she said yes and she knew I liked him but she didn't even like him or whatever. But later that night he told me he pretty much led me on and didn't like me, and if he was ever single during the rest of the summer then he would most likely come to me. I cried for four days at just random times, everything reminded me of him.
About a week later or so I went to his baseball game, after it, he was texting me and begging me to come back to him and I told him I know I shouldn't but I'm giving you a second chance, he told me he never meant anything he said and he shouldn't have done that and I have every right to be mad. Well it was going on for about a week and he hadn't changed his mind so I thought it might actually work this time.. His friend was acting like him and was texting me and asked me out but I knew it wasn't Jayson because he asks people out in person so I never gave an answer, but then I asked his friend if Jayson liked me and he said no only as a friend. Well I talked to Jayson about it the next day and we got into a fight and I was mad at first but got over it and figured we would talk about it later, but that night he made out with this girl Allie, so I figured it was over.
Then I was texting him on my last day on vacation and he told me he liked me again and he told me he doesn't understand anything he does, and I should be mad at him for everything, actually that I should hate him, but I told him I would only give him another chance if he proved to me he liked me. So he told Nikki he liked me but wasn't sure, then he told Dexter he was going to hook up with me, and he told Jake he liked me. So we hung out the next day and this girl Amanda[the one girl he asked out and she said yes, they went out in the seventh grade for pretty much the whole year] was all over him, and he told her he liked her again. So then I talked to him about it and he told me he can't seem to find the right girl now and he doesn't think he could go out with me, so I was upset and started crying, and then his friends found out and were making fun of me. Then I texted him and said Jayson if you really think I care about you right now think again because if your going to act gay go right ahead, and then he called me and was like why are you so pissy over text and I went off on him. But then that night he came to our school dance and we got into another fight. I called him and then he hung up from me to watch full house? Ha, but I guess we were cool, but I was still mad.
So his friend Dexter kept saying he liked me and then I asked Jayson what to do and he told me to pretty much lead Dexter on but I wasn't going to do that.
Well then I went to glow bowl and he was sitting by me and I went up to my friend Eric and started to hug him an just hold on to him, I guess you can say I'm a bit of a flirt? But I was attempting to make Jayson jealous. Then later my friends Colleen and Mose were standing real close and I was talking to Nikki, so Jayson comes over and says MAKE ROOM FOR JESUS! and so Colleen and Mose spread apart a little and he's like no not you two I'm talking about the lesbians, and then he was talking about how lesbians are hot but me and Nikki need to be straight or something, I dunno.. but then I said:
Jayson can I ask you something..
Jayson: go right ahead
Me: why aren't you hot like your brother
Jayson: which one [ahahh you should have seen his face, he got mad you could tell, but I had to say it just because of everything he's done to me]
Me: Jake[no I didn't go out with his brother]
Jayson: When did you see him
Me: in a yearbook, but seriously I hope you look like him he's hot.
Then he started talking about his brother having sex or something, I dunno, but for the rest of the night he was giving me an attitude, like we were taking pictures and he goes take a picture of me and so I went in it and he goes no I don't want to take a picture with you[we always take pictures together so yeahh] and then I gave him a dirty look and I think I hit him and hes like don't touch me. And then I saw him slow dance with this girl Hannah, but then he was calling her a really big hoe and stuff. And then I was leaving an I was like bye Jayson and waved and he gave me a look and waved but was like bye?
So then Nikki texted me and said she was mad at him and I asked why and she said because people were asking him if he went out with her and he said yeah shes a hoe now. And she yelled at him
Then I texted him and said Hey are you mad at me because I think your brother's hotter than you and he never answered, and I haven't talked to him since.. even though it was only yesterday. But I like him SO much and none of my friends think he's worth it, but I just want to prove them wrong because I know a side to him that a lot of people don't.
But what I was planning on doing was texting him in about a week and saying I miss being friends and that I wish we didn't go through all of this fighting and such, and then I have a feeling he'll come back to me, and I will just tell him I like him but we have to be friends until he TRULEY finds a way to prove that he likes me.
Hmm, Do you think that'll work? And do you think he's worth this? Just anything will help honestly :]
Ps; I was thinking about asking him to the Bold And Gold[only dance we can go to next year, since were going to be freshmen, and it's a formal, but I have awhile to wait to see if I still like him, its not til September 29]
I don't think he's worth it at all!
I think he is playing games and using you!
Next time he says he likes you tell him:
"Yeah yeah, where have i heared that before..."
"I don't like you because I gave a lot of second chances and you ruined it!"