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hmmm, what to do?
I'm warning you now, this is going to be long because I'm explaining this from the beginning[this is the shortened version], so if you don't have time nor want to waste your time, don't bother reading the rest of this.
Alright, so I used to go out with this boy Jake, well he has this friend Jayson, who I have always thought was really cute an stuff before I knew him well but I'm sort of a shy person so I never talked to him. Well Jayson and I became close friends, he would help me with Jake and I would help him with Nikki[Jayson's girlfriend for eight months, she dumped him to be friends and was then going out with his friend and he still liked her a lot]. I soon dumped Jake, because I just felt as though it wasn't working out.
So I went to this festival and this was a few weeks after Jake and I broke up, well Jake had told me the night before he was going to hang out with me for an hour at the least and then he might ask me out, well the whole time he completely ignored me, and Jayson made me feel a little bit better at the festival, but that night I was texting him and I was helping him with Nikki because he didn't know what to do but I told him to tell her how he felt and to say I'm not about to ruin anything between you and Shawn though and he said No bobcat[he calls me that dont ask why because I don't know either] I can't do that. Then we started talking about my problems or something and I said I just wanted one boy to prove to me that they are not all the same and Jayson says I really want to prove that to a girl...
Well a few nights later we were talking again and he admited to me he liked me a lot but he probably shouldn't because of Jake and all, but I told him I liked him too, but he also told me he liked some other girls but me the most. Well we went to glow bowl and I thought he was going to ask me out, well turns out he asked out one of those other girls he told me about and she said yes and she knew I liked him but she didn't even like him or whatever. But later that night he told me he pretty much led me on and didn't like me, and if he was ever single during the rest of the summer then he would most likely come to me. I cried for four days at just random times, everything reminded me of him.
About a week later or so I went to his baseball game, after it, he was texting me and begging me to come back to him and I told him I know I shouldn't but I'm giving you a second chance, he told me he never meant anything he said and he shouldn't have done that and I have every right to be mad. Well it was going on for about a week and he hadn't changed his mind so I thought it might actually work this time.. His friend was acting like him and was texting me and asked me out but I knew it wasn't Jayson because he asks people out in person so I never gave an answer, but then I asked his friend if Jayson liked me and he said no only as a friend. Well I talked to Jayson about it the next day and we got into a fight and I was mad at first but got over it and figured we would talk about it later, but that night he made out with this girl Allie, so I figured it was over.
Then I was texting him on my last day on vacation and he told me he liked me again and he told me he doesn't understand anything he does, and I should be mad at him for everything, actually that I should hate him, but I told him I would only give him another chance if he proved to me he liked me. So he told Nikki he liked me but wasn't sure, then he told Dexter he was going to hook up with me, and he told Jake he liked me. So we hung out the next day and this girl Amanda[the one girl he asked out and she said yes, they went out in the seventh grade for pretty much the whole year] was all over him, and he told her he liked her again. So then I talked to him about it and he told me he can't seem to find the right girl now and he doesn't think he could go out with me, so I was upset and started crying, and then his friends found out and were making fun of me. Then I texted him and said Jayson if you really think I care about you right now think again because if your going to act gay go right ahead, and then he called me and was like why are you so pissy over text and I went off on him. But then that night he came to our school dance and we got into another fight. I called him and then he hung up from me to watch full house? Ha, but I guess we were cool, but I was still mad.
So his friend Dexter kept saying he liked me and then I asked Jayson what to do and he told me to pretty much lead Dexter on but I wasn't going to do that.
Well then I went to glow bowl and he was sitting by me and I went up to my friend Eric and started to hug him an just hold on to him, I guess you can say I'm a bit of a flirt? But I was attempting to make Jayson jealous. Then later my friends Colleen and Mose were standing real close and I was talking to Nikki, so Jayson comes over and says MAKE ROOM FOR JESUS! and so Colleen and Mose spread apart a little and he's like no not you two I'm talking about the lesbians, and then he was talking about how lesbians are hot but me and Nikki need to be straight or something, I dunno.. but then I said:
Jayson can I ask you something..
Jayson: go right ahead
Me: why aren't you hot like your brother
Jayson: which one [ahahh you should have seen his face, he got mad you could tell, but I had to say it just because of everything he's done to me]
Me: Jake[no I didn't go out with his brother]
Jayson: When did you see him
Me: in a yearbook, but seriously I hope you look like him he's hot.
Then he started talking about his brother having sex or something, I dunno, but for the rest of the night he was giving me an attitude, like we were taking pictures and he goes take a picture of me and so I went in it and he goes no I don't want to take a picture with you[we always take pictures together so yeahh] and then I gave him a dirty look and I think I hit him and hes like don't touch me. And then I saw him slow dance with this girl Hannah, but then he was calling her a really big hoe and stuff. And then I was leaving an I was like bye Jayson and waved and he gave me a look and waved but was like bye?
So then Nikki texted me and said she was mad at him and I asked why and she said because people were asking him if he went out with her and he said yeah shes a hoe now. And she yelled at him
Then I texted him and said Hey are you mad at me because I think your brother's hotter than you and he never answered, and I haven't talked to him since.. even though it was only yesterday. But I like him SO much and none of my friends think he's worth it, but I just want to prove them wrong because I know a side to him that a lot of people don't.
But what I was planning on doing was texting him in about a week and saying I miss being friends and that I wish we didn't go through all of this fighting and such, and then I have a feeling he'll come back to me, and I will just tell him I like him but we have to be friends until he TRULEY finds a way to prove that he likes me.
Hmm, Do you think that'll work? And do you think he's worth this? Just anything will help honestly :]
Ps; I was thinking about asking him to the Bold And Gold[only dance we can go to next year, since were going to be freshmen, and it's a formal, but I have awhile to wait to see if I still like him, its not til September 29]
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ok that was actually the longest question i have ever read in my life. but it was really interesting. sounds like ou have yourself quite a problem.
we all go through this. i know what you want us to tell you is that hes worth it and to keep trying maybe youll find the niceness in him but from the way we all see it, he isnt, and hes a player and all he wants is girls. comon youre better than that and you know it. you can get yourself someone wayy better. i know it might seem liek the end of the world if you dont have that guy that you like near you. but trust me its not. youll get over him. jsut stop talking to him for a while. try to get to know other guys.
and yeha that might just work but then also you guys might also end up fighting again do you want that? and yeah there might be a little niceness deep inside of him but are you whilling to dig that deep? keep in mind you've already gotten hurt. are you whilling to get hurt again over the same thing. theres a saying that goes like this "fool me once, shame on you fool me twice shame on me" what does that mean to you?
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......wow I'm sorry to tell you this but he's not worth it TRUST ME I went through the same thing with this kid named michael I was like in love with him, we went out like 5 times and I kept coming back to him even though my friends and even my mom said he's trying to play games with you but I ignored them thinkin 2 myself that he's gonna changed but once he's stays the same ,you can't change them so I'm telling you he's not worth it at all you sound like a cool girl and you deserve better than that your just gonna have to let him go even though its gonna be hard but just move on and you never know you'll find mr right =]
*Jenny411
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I don't think he's worth it at all!
I think he is playing games and using you!
Next time he says he likes you tell him:
"Yeah yeah, where have i heared that before..."
"I don't like you because I gave a lot of second chances and you ruined it!"
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