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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

I am having a little problum. I have this boyfriend, who is incredibly sweet and respects me, and I have an ex-boyfriend, who randomly starts ignoring me and only talks to me at night as if im not good enough to waste his cell phone minits. That doesnt sound like much of a problum, exept I barely like my boyfriend at all, and I have been absolutly crazy about the xboyfriend sence January. Frankly, I dont think I deserve my boyfriend, sence he absolutly adores me and showers me in colplements right before I go and talk to the x, who seems to almost intoxicate my mind throughout the entire day. I know it is stuipid I cant let him go, but I just dont have anny idea what to do to get over him and start focusing on my present boyfriend. anny ideas? thanx so much :)

PS: if your anwser is just plain rude, critisizing, and doesnt do the least bit of help, I will just give you a 1.

I think you should just break up with your current boyfriend. You're right, you don't deserve him. You don't even like him! I'm not saying this to be rude, or critical, but this is kinda bitchy of you. You have this guy who is head over heals for you, & you're "intoxicated" by a boy who kinda treats you like dirt. If getting treated like dirt is what you like, go for your ex. And let a girl who actually deserves your current boyfriend have him.

♥TiNA

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The main chorus is ::

" do you feel like a man when you push her around do you feel better now as she falls to the ground well i`ll tell you my friend one day this worlds going to end as your lies crumble down a new life she has found


Who's sings that & what's the title, I can`t it anywhere.

Face Down - The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus. They're an amazing band. =]

♥TiNA

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why do people make their beds? no one goes into your room anyway unless you have people over
and you mess your bed up when you sit on it to do stuff and when you sleep you don't want it to be all neat, really, you dont need it since itll be all messed up anyway

I'm the same exact way. I mean, you're just gonna go to sleep & mess it all up anyways. So I just leave it. I never make my bed.

But I guess it makes your room like nicer.

♥TiNA

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Yesterday; I had a really bad stomach ache; then at like midnight I threw up. This morning I felt fine and now i feel sick again. What can I do to get better?

You might have the stomach flu. Go to the doctor. Until then, drink ginger ale, eat crackers & rest tons!

♥TiNA

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The song is called "Honestly". I don't know who sings it, I know it plays on MTV. If anyone knows who sings it, I would love to know. ♥

Cartel sings it. They're an amazing band! I'm going to see them at Warped Tour on August 1st. I'm really excited. :o]

♥TiNA

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I am a major prep and i just moved and the new school is full of emos and skater peeps. First of all it's kind of scary and im not used to it. My old school was a preppy private school. So when i go to school i am dacked out in lacoste, lilly, Ralph Lauren, and vineyard vines. people glare at me its scary~! I think im gonna get beat up or mugged!!!
~preppy rymes with steppy>

You're gonna meet new people wherever you go. You should just go up to someone, and talk to them. They're probably really nice kids, although some can be mean. I'm pretty sure your whole school isn't "emo" & "skater." Just get used to the changes, or stop complaining & make a friend. It's simple.

♥TiNA

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Ok, me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 19 days now. We still havent got through that "akward stage." I was just wondering if anyone had any topics that we could talk about to break the ice. I really like him, and he likes me. But all I can seem to talk about is how bored or tired I am. Its just like word vomit. We arent really into the same stuff though. We are both into animals, but that is about it. And im getting sick of talking about that. I want to tell him up front that I really like him, but im afraid that he dosent like me as much as i like him. Before we were dating we would be really romantic, but now that we are dating im more shy about it. Any ideas guys?? thanks in advance

If he didn't like you, he wouldn't be with you. So, don't be too sure he doesn't. If you want him to know how much you like him, just be up front about it & honest. And there's nothing wrong with liking different things than your boyfriend/girlfriend, that's what makes things interesting. Use those as conversational pieces. I'm sure you'll get through the awkward stage sooner or later, it doesn't last forever. I hope I helped! :o]

♥TiNA

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my parents are seperatedddd and are finalizing divorce plans...i dont know who to live with when and its hard to like handle this...i know a lot of people have gone through this, so does anyone have any suggestions???!

I would see which parent I get along with better, and choose to be with them. I mean, it's no offense to the other parent, but if you pick the parent you get along with better, you'll have a better shot at being happy. If you get along with both, I would choose your mother because telling her about your period & boyfriends, and whatnot, won't be as complicated/awkward as it will with your father. The decision is completely your's. Good luck. =]

♥TiNA

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all summer ive been on my computer and i cant get off of it.. im jus ttoo addicted. is there any way i can get off? i mean, i know i can.. i just get soo bored i just come on my computer.

Watch a movie.
Watch tv.
Listen to music.
Write.
Draw.
Go to a friend's.
Go to the mall.
Go see a movie.

There's so many better things you could be doing with your time than sitting on your computer. It's summer! Make the most of it.

♥TiNA

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this may be kind of long but ill try to make it as short as possible. me and this guy mike have been broken up for about a year and a half. the whole time we have talked and he still tells me he loves me and misses me every once in a while. well tonight i was with my friend and he called me. well he then told me he was coming to my house but i told him no cause im scared of heartbreak. i do have a boyfriend of 7 months but i still do care about mike. and my boyfriend is amazing so i dont want to hurt him. well mike stayed for like 10 minutes trying to get me to come outside but i couldnt bring my self to it cause i always do. well later on he told me that he made me something since i made him a scrapbook last summer. he refuses to give it to me til i see him. he stayed on the phone with me after he left and had something to say but couldnt because his friend was there. he told me wed talk about it later and i asked when that was and he told me he didnt know. i really care about him and i always will cause he was my first love but i dont know what to do. should i just let him come over and give it to me and talk to me like he wanted and say what he wanted or should i just say no? please help. thanks so much!!

Well, if you really care about him as much as you say you do, you should let him come over & see you; as friends. There's nothing wrong with him coming over, unless you see there's a definite chance something will happen between you two, that could possibly hurt your current boyfriend. I'd say just let him come over & talk to him. There's nothing wrong with friendship. Also, try & think about how you're making him feel by denying him to see you. Think about it. :o] I hope I helped!

♥TiNA

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hey well i started listening to like rock, punk rock type of music and i really like it. my fav songs are i write sins not tragedies, a little less sixteen candles, saying sorry, move along, makedamnsure, and lots more

i wanna know more though so my question is what popular songs are from dashboard confessional, AFI, AC/DC, the used, underoath ... u kno like that.

i rate high!!

AC/DC - Back In Black // Dirty Deeds Done Dirt Cheap.

AFI - Girls Not Grey // Miss Murder // The Leaving Song Part 2.

Dashboard Confessional - Vindicated // The Best Deceptions.

The Used - Let It Bleed // Buried Myself Alive // All That I've Got // Take It Away // I'm A Fake.

Underoath - Reinventing Your Exit

Panic! At The Disco - But It's Better If You Do // Camisado // Time To Dance.

Cute Is What We Aim For - Crush // Teasing To Please // Don't Hesitate To Hate // Lyrical Lies // Finger Twist & Split // I Don't Care.

A Heartwell Ending - If Looks Could Kill // Slit Your Wrists & Pray // Say It Ain't So // All Eyes On Me // How It Feels To Be Alone // Ride.

♥TiNA

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My friends want to hang out but we don't know what we want to do. Have any ideas??

Beach.
Movies.
Out to eat.
Mall.
Shopping.
Take pictures.
Go on the computer.
Prank calls.
Call guys.
Watch tv.
Listen to music.
Go for a walk.
Go bike riding.
Go out for ice cream.
etc;

♥TiNA

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14/F i no this might sound dumb but yeah. i was wondering what is anal sex ? and also like what do girls do when they masturbate?

This made me laugh when I first read it, haha. But, anal sex is when a guy has sex with a girl/guy in the ass. Uhm, well I personally DO NOT masturbate, but they finger themselves, or use different things. I hope I helped. And this question wasn't dumb at all. Curiousity isn't dumb, it's brilliant.

♥TiNA

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I'm looking for clothing companies that design clothes that have a sort of bohemian, retro-esque look similar to the clothes at Forever 21, Gadzooks, and 579. What are some other clothing companies and stores that sell that kind of clothing?

Thank you.

Wet Seal, Rue 21, Hot Topic [they have clothes like Gadzooks], Pac Sun & Zumies.

♥TiNA

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i haven't made out with anyone, and i feel so alone. I feel like i'm ugly and no one likes me because guys make out with girls that i'm prettier and nicer than. how come no one likes me?

Ew don't listen to the girl who called you ugly. She's probably just jealous. Some people on here are so rude.

Anyways, just be yourself. Guys usually tend to go for more shallow, and dumb girls, because they know they'll get farther.

And besides, if guys don't like you, that's their loss.

♥TiNA

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Can you shave your arms? Cuz my friend said that it looks bad if you shave your arms,is that true? Or should I take a chance and shave them?

Yeah, you can shave your arms. I shave mine, hah. It's your decision. It'll look bad when it comes back in, because it'll be thicker and darker, but if you shave them everyday, it shouldn't be much of a problem. Do what you want, they're your arms.

♥TiNA

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what should i do if my girlfriend being stalked like online and i have the stuff he has sent her

Call the police, or tell an adult that you trust.

♥TiNA

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Do a lot of people on MySpace have trackers (codes that allow you to see who's visited your MySpace)? I'm a little concerned about my privacy. Is there a way I can get myself to not show up on trackers when I visit a person's page.

Tom says that the tracker codes are fake. And all the bulletins people post saying that if you repost, you'll be able to see who views your profile, are wrong. There are no trackers that I know of.

If you're concerned about your privacy, go under basic info in edit profile, and just change the year from whatever it's on to either 1991, or 1992. That'd make you about 14/15 years old, and for myspace, Anything under 16 is private.

♥TiNA

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whats the difference between wild and crazy?
what does it means when someone said your wild? or crazy?

im from japan and still studying english.

Wild people don't follow the rules. They tend to rebel a lot.

Calling someone crazy would mean that they're insane, or they're doing something no one else would.

Each word can be used in many different terms. I guess the definition depends on how you say it.

♥TiNA

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i need a gyn clinic?

Yep. All girls do. Look in the phonebook, and look one up.

♥TiNA

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