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cant let go


Question Posted Monday August 7 2006, 2:06 pm

I am having a little problum. I have this boyfriend, who is incredibly sweet and respects me, and I have an ex-boyfriend, who randomly starts ignoring me and only talks to me at night as if im not good enough to waste his cell phone minits. That doesnt sound like much of a problum, exept I barely like my boyfriend at all, and I have been absolutly crazy about the xboyfriend sence January. Frankly, I dont think I deserve my boyfriend, sence he absolutly adores me and showers me in colplements right before I go and talk to the x, who seems to almost intoxicate my mind throughout the entire day. I know it is stuipid I cant let him go, but I just dont have anny idea what to do to get over him and start focusing on my present boyfriend. anny ideas? thanx so much :)

PS: if your anwser is just plain rude, critisizing, and doesnt do the least bit of help, I will just give you a 1.


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lilteacup answered Monday August 7 2006, 5:56 pm:
If you have already tried to like your boyfriend, and it doesn't happen, you need to break up with him. By the way you are going, you may be capable of cheating on him and if he is being as sweet as he could be, you're going to break his heart. The pain of cheating would be far worse than if you were just to break up with him and let him know that you think he's great, but you don't see your relationship going anywhere. As for your ex, if he doesn't reciprocate any feelings, then you should move on. Find a guy who treats you just as well as your current boyfriend, but that you like as much as your ex.I'm sure he's out there.

Good Luck
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christina answered Monday August 7 2006, 5:39 pm:
I think you should just break up with your current boyfriend. You're right, you don't deserve him. You don't even like him! I'm not saying this to be rude, or critical, but this is kinda bitchy of you. You have this guy who is head over heals for you, & you're "intoxicated" by a boy who kinda treats you like dirt. If getting treated like dirt is what you like, go for your ex. And let a girl who actually deserves your current boyfriend have him.

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