about

I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

one day when i was playing basketball at a common place for me, i bit a girl and it was A HUGEEEEEEEEE deal i mean im sorry im reallly aggresive i don't have like mental issues or anything i am jsut aggressive she was like on me on the ground on a jump ball its SO weird when we see each other...now and her mom was the coach so she saw it all its so awkward and i feel sOOOO badd PLEASEEE JUST LIKE ONE GOOD ADVICE YOU WILL HAVE MADE ME THE HAPPIEST PERSON EVER I THINK ABOUT THIS ALL THE TIME AND IT MAKES ME CRY ITS A REALLY BIG PROBLEM PLEASE JUST ONCE HELP ME!!!!

Just apologize to both of them for it. Explain to them that you're an agressive person, and that you didn't mean to. You weren't thinking & it just sorta happened. I'm sure they'll understand.

♥TiNA

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what are some depressing love songs? thanks.

From First To Last - Note To Self.
Coheed and Cambria - Wake Up.
Greeley Estates - Tear My World Apart.
Jack's Mannequin - Bruised.
Rihanna - Unfaithful.
Rihanna - We Ride.
Taking Back Sunday - My Blue Heaven.
Armor For Sleep - The Truth About Heaven.
Armor For Sleep - Remember To Feel Real.

♥TiNA

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my dad died when i was 12 and I still get upset about it every now and then and now since the anniversary of his death is coming up soon this month i've been feeling upset more than ever he died about 5 years ago is this normal?

Yeah, it's totally normal. You never get over the death of someone like that. Don't try to. Also, don't be afraid to cry & be upset. I can only imagine how hard this must be. Well, I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope you feel better.

♥TiNA

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okay!!!!!1 i cannot think of the word...but its been stuck in my head and it is very irritating. it is a word for women who dont like men. not lesbians, but like those weird people that are like ohh men suck and women are so much better men are pigs blah blah.....theres a word for it. just one word. i want to say it starts with like an L or something.......idk!! please help me thiiiiiiiink it is bugging me so bad

feminists?

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Im always shy in school and I really want to major in Acting. How do I not feel shy in Highschool? Also how do I start acting in Highschool besides drama class. How I get art scholarships/diplomas?

The only thing I could think of for getting an art scholarship, is to take an art class. Like an actual art class. Painting, sculpting, drawing. Stuff like that. If you're good at it, maybe you'll get one. Shyness is something that can be overcome. Just be yourself. Join the drama club, or whatever. Take performing arts class, if they have it there. They have it at my school. I was gonna do it, but I changed my mind.

♥TiNA

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Can anyone find me this song so i can put it on myspace.. the song code

Tourniquet- Evanescence

Ive tried google but it only has music videos! If i can just get a website!!!

Try www.singingfish.com. They should have what you're looking for.

♥TiNA

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Where do you buy band t-shirts? Like in the mall? k thankyou.

Hot Topic has them. I love that store! =]

♥TiNA

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Is it true that water helps so that your face clears up?

Yeah, but it also helps other things than your face. Drink 8 glasses a day, it's healthy for you, even though it makes you pee a lot.

♥TiNA

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is head ache
light headedness
and dizziness when you stand up
symptoms you get from lack of food?
my mom thinks i don't eat enough
i think i might just be tired.

btw i ate today:
a light and fit yougurt
a hotdog with bun
a hotdog without a bun
and a pretzel

Your mom is right. You don't really eat as much as you should for your age, though I don't know how old you are, but I'm assuming you're a young teenager. Those are pretty much snacks, so you should really try eating more.

♥TiNA

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What does it mean when someone answers a question and then puts EDIT- and writes something different?

It means they edited their answer because they had something else they had to say.

♥TiNA

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My dad got a rat terrier puppy from a lady that was having to move away. I cannot stand dogs. They're too hyper and stinky and so unintellegent because nobody around my community has trained dogs. Every time I walk outside I get jumped on or he tries to bite my shoes or something. Or he's humping one of his toys. I'm so tired of it! My parents expect ME to play with him. Why should I? It's my dad's dog, not mine! It's not my fault Dad is never home to play with him. How on Earth am I supposed to share my yard with that stupid dog? Please help me out!

I don't understand why you don't like dogs. They're playful, cute, and they're actually really smart. It's not hard to train them, and it doesn't take long to do it either.

I don't see why you're so upset about this. Think of the love that this puppy will bring. It'll sleep with you at night, keep you company when you're sad [they lick you cause they know you're not happy], and they protect you when they're older. This dog might be little for all it's life [I think..], but it'll still protect you with it's life.

I would love to have a pet that loved me, but unfortunately, my dad's like you, & dislikes animals, so he doesn't allow us to have any pets unless it's like fish or something.

I think you're overreacting just a bit about this. Dogs are fun, and a very new experience which allow you to gain more respect for stuff. Don't hit the dog, don't fight the dog, and if it does something bad, just tell it that it's bad. But don't get butthurt because your dad got your family a pet, and you dislike it. Your dad was probably thinking you'd see the dog & you'd be thrilled. Hah. You don't even deserve a doggy.

I know that probably isn't what you wanted to hear, so rate me a 1 if you'd like, but it's the truth. And the truth hurts. I'm not gonna sugarcoat my answer to make it something you'd like to hear. =]

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me + my friends love hanging out on like weekend nights and we usually go 2 the movies or some1s house or the mall or the football games or something. but those places get boring after a while. does anyone have any ideas about other places we could go?? like.. places that we could go wen there is girls + boys.

thanks xox

You could go

Skating
Bowling
Mini Golf
Teen Night Clubs
Amusement Parks.

Hope I helped!

♥TiNA

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I am feeling really sad today. Something happened and I can't stop crying. How do I cheer myself up?

Don't think about what happened. It'll be hard, but if you concentrate on things that make you happy, you'll be sure to be happier.

♥TiNA

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i start high school in 2 days! im nervous but excited. any advice about the first day, or high school in general? also, i was thinking of just carrying around a binder with a folder, paper and pens/pencils in it for the first day and seeing what i need after that. is that a good idea? also i dont really play any sports anymore although i wish i stuck with some, but what kind of clubs might there be that i could join as a freshman?

Don't be so nervous about it! You've got nothing to be nervous about. Anyways, I usually just bring a notebook and a folder with some pens the first day. But your teachers will tell you what you need. As for clubs, ask what there is. Because every school is different. But, you could join student council, & yearbook club. Every school has that. =] Good luck on your first day, you'll love it. Trust me.

♥TiNA

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Alright so. I'm in my first year of highschool, and this highschool is three different schoools combined, and I'm from one of them. There's these twins, really really adorable and nice and everything, but they seem like really shy. One of them is in all of my classes and the other is in all of my best friend's classes, so we're trying to hook up with them before homecoming LOL. Neither have had a real girlfriend, but the one I like has had like one for 2 days. They're at our lunch and we really want to sit with them but we don't know what to say. Have any good conversation starters, or something that we could say to them that won't make us look like idiots? Or just anything that could help us? Thanks so much!

Just go over & sit with them. And then talk with them. Ask them what they like & if they're going to homecoming. =] Form a friendship with them. A simple "Hi, I'm ____." won't hurt.

♥TiNA

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I'm 13/f, idk what to get one of my best friends for her birthday! she just turned 14 .. so what would you get a 14 year old girly girl for her birthday?

Well, since she's your best friend, you should know everything she likes, & most of the things she has. You could always take her & buy her what she wants since you don't know, or you could just ask her. But I'd get her:

*make-up.
*a shirt.
*cd.
*jewelery.
*purse.

♥TiNA

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well im 13/f and i haven't gotten my period yet. i guess i have big boobs i'm almost a B. ALL my friends have got theres but i dont know when i'm going to get mine, i hope soon. help me...

Everyone gets their's at a different time. So don't worry that you don't have it yet. I'd see it as a good time in my life, because I hate having it, and I know most girls do. It's not fun at all. I wish it'd go away forever. Anyways, don't think you're a freak, or that you're weird because everyone else their's and you don't have your's yet. It's perfectly normal, because everyone's different. Ask your mom when she got her's, because you usually get it around the same time. Or so I've heard.

♥TiNA

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In gym class, this girl Kelly, was like ohh you only ran 2 laps FATTY. I ran 5 though! I was like whatever. So then at recess she was like your so white. Get a tan. I said "Im a redhead and we don't get tan easily." Kelly said "Mkay no hunny, thats has nothing to do with it!" Her friends were like yeah and I thought u always say you have BROWN hair. My hair is kind of brownish red. Kelly was like "Get a tan." "Dye your hair." "Loose weight." She's so annoying. She says this all the time. I am way prettier then her too. She just has friends because she knows how to be mean. I can stick up for someone else, but not myself. My friend, who came by me was like "Let's go to the science room!" I was about to cry though. Kelly is 13, and has had 3 boyfriends, all younger. Im 13, I have had 8 & all older! I just don't know what to do! She always calls me a slut too. She has never kissed anyone. She also says I stuff my bra but I don't and this bothers me..

Kelly sounds a little too immature to be in gym class. Haha. Anyway, she's probably just jealous of you, so she picks on you to feel better about herself. You're not the only one this happpens to, trust me. Lots of girls are victims to girls like this. And lots of girls talk shit! If it happens again, just tell her to shut the fuck up, and get a damn life. Because you have better things to do than waste your life with what people think; especially her. If I was in this case, and I told her that, and she didn't stop, well then I'd kick her ass. But, you're not me & I'm not you. So, don't beat on her. =]

♥TiNA

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My friend has a problem ...she cuts herself and nobody can seem to help her ne advise that i could give her to make her stop?

You can't do anything to make her stop. She'll stop when she's ready, and only if she really wants to. But, what you can do is get her some help. Tell an adult you trust. She might be mad if she finds out it was you that told, but when she stops cutting, and sees how much better she feels & looks, she'll thank you. Trust me.

♥TiNA

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i have a problem with my weight. my mother works from 3pm-11pm, so that leaves dinner up to my dad. My dad can't cook. He can only barbeque, and make chicken cutlets...and pasta. So every night we either have something barbequed [like hamburgers, hot dogs, etc.] or pizza or fast food. I have high cholesteral and I'm supposed to be trying to get it down since it's very high, but I can't do it with the way my dad "cooks". I do have a treadmill and I try to run a mile whenever I can fit in, but I do have school and other activities so it's hard to exercise everyday. What could I do to help bring down my cholesteral and lose some weight [or gain some muscle, either way] when I have to eat this food? I'm 13 by the way, so I can't exactly cook myself.

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Well, cheerios lowers cholestorol. So you could always eat that. Also, it's not hard to learn how to cook. It's simple. You might burn stuff your first few times, because you're new at it. But after that it's just easy. I've been cooking since I was 12. I'm 15 now. =]

♥TiNA

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