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my dad died when I was 12


Question Posted Tuesday September 5 2006, 7:11 pm

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my dad died when i was 12 and I still get upset about it every now and then and now since the anniversary of his death is coming up soon this month i've been feeling upset more than ever he died about 5 years ago is this normal?


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kayloveee answered Friday September 8 2006, 6:31 pm:
veryyyy normal it takes a lot of time to get over a death. my aunt and cousin died almost 8 years ago and them my brother died 1 year ago. but i didn't get overmy aunt and cousin's death until my brother died.

dying is a terrible thing and truste me i know my brother died from a drunk driver i watched him die and only two months later i watched my grandpa die. it sucks i know

hold on to yer father but don't let your self get to far behind in your life he wants you to be happy cuz thats wat all loved ones want. remember him and don't worry about still being sad. it's normal and you may not get over him for another 7 years who knows just remeber he loved you!

kay

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cheche1187 answered Wednesday September 6 2006, 9:23 pm:
its completely normal.
ive had a rele tough death in mi family too.
he's always with yu no matter what.

im terribly sorry

hope it helped

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lizzielovesyou answered Wednesday September 6 2006, 5:56 pm:
my dad died when i was 5 years old.he was suppost to just go in for a check-up so i dicided to go to a fishing place with m,y brother.i can still remember my mom comming home and sitting me down on the couch and telling me "lizzie....daddy died today".it was ther hardest thing i have ever had to hear.sometimes i can be very happy for one minute but then i will think about it and be so sad because i miss him so much.i know its hard but you rerally have to think about the good times you had together,and how happy he must be now that hes in heaven .the best you can do is be happy for him.let me know how it all works out
and if you ever need to talk im allways here.
my email is Iluvaaron1993@aol.com yuou can also im me if you want
lots of love,lizzie

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tjam106 answered Wednesday September 6 2006, 10:40 am:
Hi,

My mom died 3 years ago and I still cry about it! I miss her so much and would give anything just to tell her that. What you are going through is completely normal. Don't ever let it go, because letting go of your feelings means letting go of him and that's sad. Don't let it consume your life, but it's ok to be sad. The best thing I have done to help is to talk about it. Maybe your mom or grandparents could help? School counselors are great too. Keep your head up, sweetie...you will see him again. And remember that he is with you. You probably hear that a lot and it sounds cheezy, but it's true. I can truly feel my mother's presence in my heart. Good luck and god bless!

Jamie

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Greyskate answered Tuesday September 5 2006, 11:04 pm:
of course its normal. your dad must have been really important to you and i'm sory about what happened. its extremly normal to feel sad about your dad dieing. just don't let it get to the point were u want to hert your self or anything but you mite be expierencing this for a long time.

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christina answered Tuesday September 5 2006, 9:49 pm:
Yeah, it's totally normal. You never get over the death of someone like that. Don't try to. Also, don't be afraid to cry & be upset. I can only imagine how hard this must be. Well, I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope you feel better.

♥TiNA

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Teza answered Tuesday September 5 2006, 9:39 pm:
It is completly normal. You will never get over the fact that your father has passed away and don't try to. It's okay to cry and let it out. & I'm sorry about your dad. I can't even imagine what you're going through.

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